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Kilie, 47

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About Me

I find myself back in the dating scene after a 20 year relationship. I am really nervous and never thought I would have to do this again but thanks to his cheating heart here I am. I am looking for an african american male to spend time with and get to know and then who knows what can happen. I have 4 children, 3 over the age of 18 and 1 lil girl who is 15. I am also nana to 3 beautiful babies. I value honesty and truthfulness above all else and love good conversation. I also believe in God, put him first and go to praise and worship. Not looking to change you just keping it real.I love R & B and hip hop/ soul music and am up for dancing and having a good time. I also enjoy some newer artist like Usher, Neyo and jut about anyone with a smooth rythmic voice. As far as rap, think Notorious BIG was the most talented artist who died (RIP Biggie) way before his time. Also like LL Cool J (what lady doen't) Luda, and Nellie. I also love watching football (NY Jets) I know, I know, and basketball got Nets. I love to cook all types of food but soul food is my favorite, ya know greens, mac and cheese, rice and beans, fried chicken, cajun catfish, corn bread, grits etc... Nothing makes me happier than seeing my man enjoy my cooking. I describe myelf as being a senible free spirit who has made some mistakes in life but will always keep it real and loves to cook, read, dance and have a good time. I love spending time with my family. I also am looking for soeone who might like to take quiet walks or have some time alone together just pleasing each other. I live in MI by way of NY where I was born, raised ad lived up until 2 years ago. People here in MI love my NY accent, although I don't hear it. I am not your typical "white girl", or so I have been told, once you talk to me you will get it, so hit me up you may be pleasantly surprised... Up for anything as long as its just us not a group setting with other friends where we won't have time to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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  • Stephane

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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  • Natividad

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am curious and open-minded and have had many interesting experiences. I have traditional values but I am not a traditional person. Love, family, connection, kindness and friendship are the things that are most important to me. I've traveled extensively preferring non-tourist spots to experience the nuances of the place such as cuisine, people, culture and architecture. I'm more interested in adventure and learning then comfort and safety.I am a passionate, romantic and warm woman with a good sense of humor who is looking the same in my partner. Current events, literature and film are interests of mine. I can't walk by a cooking store without peeking in. I feel the same way about old hardware stores and bookstores. I adore my siblings and their families and have lifelong friends since childhood. I spend a lot of time outdoors hiking, sailing, biking and going on small and big trips.I want to create a relationship that’s nurturing and loving and allows us to grow together. I'm looking for a man who has a big heart, is a bit of a character, is funny, loving, affectionate, and interesting. My best match is someone who is intelligent, very communicative, kind, open-minded, loves to travel and has interests and hobbies. I am also looking for someone who is looking for a potentially long-term relationship. I would love to eventually have a sweet little cottage by the ocean that we go to on the weekends. We would have a garden there and fish and make delicious meals for out friends. Please do not contact me if you are married, kinda married, not married but you haven't told your wife yet, in a relationship, looking for casual sex or younger then 45. All the best to you. We can bring a picnic brunch and coffee.- small little antique village). Then at about noon we walk the mile and a half down the road to the mountain. We hike up for about two hours and stop at the top for a picnic lunch. We take a longer route back down the mountain and head back into town. Then we have dinner at a French Bistro in town that I love. If it’s still warm out maybe we listen to some music in the town square. Then we get back on the train and head home. At Grand Central we say good night and depart feeling excited about the next time we get to see each other.

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