SIMILAR PEOPLE
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GermaineOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I have decided to re-write my Profile. meetville can be a very strange place and I've decided to be a little more specific about who I am, what I am looking for, and where I am headed (as if I know!). . .I am 48, short (4'11") with long, white blonde hair and I am thin. I am no beauty queen, but I get a little bit of attention here and there. If you are looking for a Barbie, a Trophy Girlfriend, or someone who puts in a lot of hours on her appearance, keep looking. I'm not her.I am also separated after a long marriage ***years). I have been separated for over a year now and am in the middle of a divorce. It's become an arduous process. The marriage is over. DO NOT contact me if you wish to judge me for dating while still married or act surprised when I say I am separated. You do not know my circumstances and I don't wish to discuss them with strangers. Suffice it to say, my Profile while soon change to "divorced". I am a fine, good woman with a strong sense of moral values. I DO NOT sleep around nor am I going to start now. I am the mother of 2 grown children who both HATE the meetville thing and are strongly opposed to this process.I like to do a lot of things and that list changes regularly now that I am in the process of re-discovering myself. I like to cook, read and I do handcrafts. Like most people, I like tv and movies but I don't live and breathe them. I LOVE rock music, indie and alt/music. I can't deal with rap and twangy country. Honestly, I don't like most country music. I am intelligent and always looking for ways to better myself and grow. I believe in God but I do not attend formal services within an organized religion. I don't wish to offend anyone, but I am not at a place in my life where I want to drink the Kool-Aid at the moment. Please DO NOT contact me if you like to quote scripture or uplifting things you heard on KSBJ. I am not a heathen but I am a free-thinker. If you attend church services, I think that's great and it doesn't mean I wouldn't like to meet you. As for political views, please don't discuss them with me. I grew up in a very political environment and I DO NOT like having other people's opinions spouted at me. If you want to make a good impression, do as meetville advises and keep your opinions to yourself. Being smart and politically knowledgeable means you vote, not rant.I don't drink. I grew up in an alcoholic household. It's a personal decision for myself alone and I wouldn't impose it on anyone else. If you drink, fine. Please be honest about so-called "social" drinking. My idea of a good time will never be hanging out in a bar with a bunch of "friends" on a regular basis. Sorry.Also, I don't smoke. I don't like hanging out in smoking environments.I am looking for a lot of things in a guy. He should be intelligent and interested in the world around him and his own personal growth, whatever that may entail. There is a certain type I am attracted to but it does not limit me. At this point in time, I am looking for someone for reasonable companionship moving towards deep friendship and a possible committed relationship. I know someone who literally goes through men on meetville like KIeenex. She will schedule multiple dates in a single day. This IS NOT me - please don't let it be you, either!!!! I am not looking to date a bunch of people. I will not be a part of a line-up myself.These are a few of the things I keep coming across on meetville that are a definite TURN-OFF:1. Do not message me and say something like "Hey baby, want to meet me?" The answer is NO. Invest a little of yourself, please.2. Do NOT be desperate. You haven't even met me. If I give you my phone number, please don't whine when I don't want to spend hours on the phone in the evenings. I work with the public. I get tired. I have things I have to do. Please understand.3. Do NOT want to have a relationship based entirely on texting and never meeting. Creepy.4. This may come as a shock to the general male population, but I don't think too many women are interested in your motorcycles, your boats and your other assorted toys. Maybe other women do and I'm just weird - I personally could care less. I have a dog, but I am not going to post pictures of him here on meetville. 5. Post your real age and your real occupation. If you're honest, it doesn't really matter anyway.6. Please, please, please take off your baseball caps in your pictures. 7. And this is a weird thing I've actually experienced more than once here: I am looking to EVENTUALLY find a real, pleasant adult relationship. I am not looking to jump into the next one blind and profess undying love and get married right away. SLOW DOWN!!8. I have read "Fifty Shades of Gray". I am NOT that girl. Please don't think you are THAT guy.9. If you are angry about a lot of stuff, please pass me by. I don't DO anger anymore. I don't want yours.These are a few of the things I'd like to find:1. A guy available for a real, adult relationship. This means normal date-like stuff in the beginning. This DOES NOT have to be the most expensive thing you can think of to impress me. Please don't try to impress me!!2. A guy I am reasonably attracted to. I like a lot of different things when it comes to physical attractiveness and I am open-minded, however, I don't lie to myself. If you're not attracted to me, I get it. Expect the same from me - I don't know too many people who can fake it.3. I'm juggling a lot of changes. You're going to have to be patient with my schedule working retail, legal stuff and logistical issues with young-adult children.4. Someone who likes to take walks and talk. Someone who likes to laugh and hang out. Someone you can see sitting across the home dinner table from and just enjoying shooting the breeze about the day. I'd like to hike the Appalachian Trail someday. I'm not a big beach girl. I like trees and mountains and lakes.5. Someone who cares whether I make it home from work okay, cares if I slam my finger in the car door or wakes up the next morning. No obsession, just concern and interest in what's going on in each other's lives and minds.6. A guy who wants to be a partner and a helpmate. I'm no one's Mommy anymore.Please understand, this profiling yourself on a public website is awkward and I hate the whole thing. I have a serious case of dating cold feet.Not trying to be mean or anything else, just a little more specific. I wish the best for everyone out there! A first date should be something simple, coffee or meal. A chance to talk and work out the nervousness.
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AnnelisaOffline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
Have you ever felt like you are incredibly blessed, but just feel and realize that something is missing? I have it all, but am missing my true love. I live with my son, one dog and three cats. I live to laugh and enjoy life, don't drink, have a very strong faith, love my family, crave rock and roll -... I went through college in 3 years with a double major, but am more book smart. I am fluent in German and would love to learn Spanish or Italian or.... My true love is a man who is laid back, but has a purpose in life. Someone who likes music, demolition derbys, dirt track racing, county fairs, walking, singing in the shower (together hopefully), hanging out, snuggling, enjoying the sun, travelling, doing "family" stuff, laughing, hugging, having intelligent discussions. I look for someone who is open and accepting and who wants to find their best friend....and best (and only) lover!! I believe in whispering and giggling and spooning. I love to spoil my man and it means the world to me when it is appreciated.I am a mom, a housekeeper, a professional and want to be a significant other as well. I believe in happily ever after and know that it exists. I'm a "dangerous curves ahead" kind of gal.... My pictures are from a very recent vacation to Germany. I love it there! I honestly believe that is up for the man to decide. Somewhere we can visit and just "be".... Opening doors goes a long way with me and I can tell a lot from the way a man hugs (just try me!)
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CarleighOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
hmmm...there are many sides to me, yet i'm a simple woman. i'm easy to please, happy, honest, and caring. i'm independent but loyal and faithful, a good friend, a sensual lover, but require my alone time too. i don't wear much makeup and typically dress on the casual side but don't be fooled by that. i tend to be on the quiet side and prefer to let others take the limelight, but i'm not afraid to speak my mind or afraid of adventure. i'm sensible but silly as hell and love to laugh. i love roller coasters but spiders scare me half to death. i'd really like to find someone who is happy, confident, can match my zest for life, and doesn't believe a relationship means we have to give up who we are in the process.i smoke cloves occassionally. i would not smoke around someone who doesn't. the possibilities are endless..why limit myself.