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Elfrida, 46
United States, New Hampshire, Concord

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About Me

I am a pretty independent woman, I guess that is true only because I have had to be. Not a bad thing.....but MAN I am exhausted! Relationships are never a waste of time - more a learning experience that helps you grow into who you are. I would love to find a man that wants to be happy and is currently in love with themselves. Obviously not in a narcissistic way - however, you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else. I am a junior high teacher and live a pretty busy life September - June. We teachers work for those few months off. However - I like to get out now and again and the weekends are for spending time with special people that fill your bucket back up to the top! I am looking for a partner that I can enjoy spending quality time with - someone that is spontaneous and a good playmate. I am open to someone that has kids - I do not have any of my own, but that was not because I did not want children - I just did not force the issue. So here I am with hundreds of kids that I work with every day *** love my pets and hope to find someone that is accepting and loving - my dog is a good judge of character...so beware! :-)I enjoy staying active and try to stay fit and healthy. I am looking for someone that would like to do the same. I enjoy biking, boating, running, volleyball, riding "bi*%h" on the back of a motorcycle, hiking, etc. I also like dressing up and going someplace special - dinner, the theater, nice restaurant, dancing .....but then I like dressing down and heading to the local tav for a burger, beer and a game of pool. I have a great group of lifelong friends that mean the world to me and I am blessed with a large family. For now, I think that is enough. If any or all of this is interesting to you... let me know! Happy Shopping! :-) I would love to do something simple. Meet for a beverage, walk, ....I am open. I would love it if you offered a suggestion though. Not a big fan of "what do you want to do? I don't know....what do YOU want to do?" Would love it if you had a plan - I am pretty easy going. :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Crime War Western
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