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Elayne, 49
United States, New Hampshire, Claremont

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I am a very kind, fun, loving, and outgoing girl. I have a job I love so my days go by well, and very fast. I love a good laugh. I seek it . Finding humor and finding positive in everything is the way I am most of the time, even while working a long day. You can have both you know. I am already happy, so I will never be looking at you to do that for me. It comes from me first. Enjoying my life with a man would be just a bonus to add to a very good life. I enjoy spending time with people and helping others. I like to give back. My life is good so I wish and want the same for others. I have alot of compassion and am not quick to judge anyone. That is definitely something I would want in my partner as well. I want a man in my life to love, and have fun with......I like to try new things, maybe going for a drive somewhere different and even just a night home. I love dinner at home and snuggling up to a good movie.. I love music and once in awhile a little slow dance. I would like to meet someone interested in a eventual long term relationship. Honesty is very big to me.. It really is important for me to have someone who will have respect for me when I am with them, just as much as when I am not. I think you know what I mean. If you are online looking for just a date for the night, then I am not the one that you are looking for. Spending time together is so important, but also just as important to have time to yourself, time with friends. I have awesome children that would love to see there mom going out with a nice man that makes her happy and treats her like she deserves . I love kids and someone with children of there own is just a plus to me. Finding the right person is so hard and I never take that person for granted as it would be so AMAZING to have....When I care for someone , I show it, and I tell them because its important to. It's just the way I am built, and because I would want that from u as well. I guess I wouldn 't call it a first day yet. The first time I meet someone, I really rather go to a diner rather out somewhere the first time. We have to see if there is that spark, that feeling we are supposed to have first. We have to see if we are compatable. I would rather sit across from you, and look straight into your eyes first, and talk to you, and listen to you, and hopefully move alittle closer if we feel that connection. I am pretty simple, not extravagant. Be nice to me and make me smile and I am happy.:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Gennie from Claremont | Woman | 47 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    just looking right now, will come back and update later

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  • Edward from Claremont | Woman | 46 years old | Virgo
    Edward

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    First things first...please no messages if you do NOT have a profile picture...I am re-writing this so if you have read it before and it seems different that is because it is!!! I am looking for my "last first date", and my "new Best Friend". I am ready to re-prioritize my life and no longer make someone a priority in my life when I am only an option in theirs...I would like to find someone that is a great communicator, loyal, honest, someone to share the kitchen with once in awhile, someone that LOVES to laugh...I am a very loving, caring, passionate, compassionate, HONEST, sweet, trusting, loaded with empathy. All of those things to a fault!!! Honesty is a huge thing for me as it seems there is WAY too much dishonesty in the world today!!! I am a GREAT cook and I like to bake but I myself do not eat sweets, I gave them up over 2 years ago.My likes: Steelers FOOTBALL!!! spending time with that special man, cuddling and watching a great movie or kissing all the way through a bad movie, listening to a great variety of music, spending time on walks hand in hand, I can be witty, sarcastic, sassy, cute, I know how to be a lady in public and I do have manners!!! I enjoy reading, crafting, making jewelry, road trips, fishing, camping, bike riding, watching a good football game, going to live sporting events, people watching, hanging around a nice fire at night with a group of great friends and laughing until our guts hurt, I could keep going but I don't want to lose your interest so just ask if you want to know more...I want to be with someone that is not going to be gone all the time as I did the Military wife thing for 14 years and if was very lonely!!! I knew somewhat what I was getting into but it was hard to get used to sleeping alone and being alone after the kids went to bed, so I know I am not looking for someone that is always gone. I do like to have my time and you have yours, we can't smother each other. I won't share my partner intimately with anyone else, call me selfish. I am really wanting someone that looks forward to the end of their work day to see me because they were thinking about me all day, as I was thinking of them too. I don't concider myself needy but I need to be needed. I like to think of myself as old fashioned, I will cook and clean up after you BUT I hate to think I am not appreciated. I also realize we are not young 20 somethings and so we are set in our ways somewhat and there are quite a few men out there that have done things for themselves for a longtime so it is sometimes easier to ease into the old fashioned ways and then to some men I guess it might be a turn-off...I have 2 great adult children, one of each gender and my daughter lives out of state which is not always easy but she is a grown woman. I am a VERY PROUD mother and I enjoyed parenting through those wonderful teen years. I believe I am a great mom even if they think they are too big to need me know, I know better...Our children are our LEGACY and remember they will be the one to pick your Nursing Home, so be careful with them...lolp.s. my pictures show blonde hair but on ***I let my 26 yr.old talk me into trying something new...it is now brown but it wont last long...it washes out everyday...THANK GOD!!! lol***\\***Plz***\\\***put this***on your***account If***you know***\\\***someone***\\***who died***\***of ***\\\***cancer***\\\***or whom maybe suffering from it***\\\***OR A SURVIVOR!!!***!!!***Put this on your***!!!***page if you---!!!!!!!!!!!***know someone in the***!!!***Armed Forces or to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all***!!!***our troops..............I think I have made this long enough but if you would like to know more just write me a line, break the ice, or we can just keep reading each others profiles and get no where real fast!!! I just started loving coffee so that would be a great start, coffee and getting to know each other...nothing that puts too much pressure on anyone!!!

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  • Kathyrn from Claremont | Woman | 48 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    In general, I am a very fun, happy, self-aware, and content person.I am very close to my family, cherish and nurture my few intimate friendships diligently and carefully, and believe that kindness and compassion are the most important things in any human interaction.I love my job (teaching) because I get to learn something new everyday, interacting with college students keeps me young and informed, I make a difference in the world, and I get to laugh at myself and others just about every day.I have had my share of wonderful and disastrous relationships, but I still believe in happiness. The most important thing I have learned is to be flexible and that nobody is perfect (including me). I want my partner to eventually be my best friend and confidant and want someone in my life with whom I can talk for hours or be comfortable with in total silence.My two most valuable possessions are my camera and my kayak. If I had to give up teaching, I would be content to be a kayaking photographer who sometimes jumped off the water to go hiking or biking.I love to travel but I'm also a homebody. I have been lucky enough to live in France, spend extensive time in the Caribbean, visit my brother in Thailand, and visit ***of the American states. Depends on the weather!Cold weather... nice warm meal at a mom-and-pop or kitschy restaurant. Someplace with character and unique foodWarm weather... walk in the woods or a mellow kayak float. Picnic. Talking, getting to know each other.Hot weather... museum or local activity like live music. Nothing too loud so we can hear each, but something fun we can talk about.And then there are always wineries... good for any weather!

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