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Elayne, 49
United States, New Hampshire, Claremont

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I am a very kind, fun, loving, and outgoing girl. I have a job I love so my days go by well, and very fast. I love a good laugh. I seek it . Finding humor and finding positive in everything is the way I am most of the time, even while working a long day. You can have both you know. I am already happy, so I will never be looking at you to do that for me. It comes from me first. Enjoying my life with a man would be just a bonus to add to a very good life. I enjoy spending time with people and helping others. I like to give back. My life is good so I wish and want the same for others. I have alot of compassion and am not quick to judge anyone. That is definitely something I would want in my partner as well. I want a man in my life to love, and have fun with......I like to try new things, maybe going for a drive somewhere different and even just a night home. I love dinner at home and snuggling up to a good movie.. I love music and once in awhile a little slow dance. I would like to meet someone interested in a eventual long term relationship. Honesty is very big to me.. It really is important for me to have someone who will have respect for me when I am with them, just as much as when I am not. I think you know what I mean. If you are online looking for just a date for the night, then I am not the one that you are looking for. Spending time together is so important, but also just as important to have time to yourself, time with friends. I have awesome children that would love to see there mom going out with a nice man that makes her happy and treats her like she deserves . I love kids and someone with children of there own is just a plus to me. Finding the right person is so hard and I never take that person for granted as it would be so AMAZING to have....When I care for someone , I show it, and I tell them because its important to. It's just the way I am built, and because I would want that from u as well. I guess I wouldn 't call it a first day yet. The first time I meet someone, I really rather go to a diner rather out somewhere the first time. We have to see if there is that spark, that feeling we are supposed to have first. We have to see if we are compatable. I would rather sit across from you, and look straight into your eyes first, and talk to you, and listen to you, and hopefully move alittle closer if we feel that connection. I am pretty simple, not extravagant. Be nice to me and make me smile and I am happy.:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a Petite (5ft)very fit shapely woman, who has her act together. I am honest, reliable, fun-loving, active, secure and have a good sense of humor. Heck I actually like the me I grew up to be!! I can have just a good a time whether I am screaming on a roller coaster or when attending a black-tie affair. I like beaches (summertime truely make me miss the beach!) and make life an adventure as well as, and of course -- all the discoveries that life (and a good relationship) can offer. I DON'T play games and if that is what you want to do ...please do us both a favor and just past on this profile. I am my best with those that are sincere in their intentions. I believe always in making positive changes and new choices. As we enjoy the wondeerful the steamy sultry days of summer***let's be open to finding that something specail in each other and the fun times in store. for us. I know that this is the RIGHT TIME for that special man to enter into my life -- and yes we all know how important timing is Do not respond if this is NOT the right time for you -- if you are raw out of a failed marriage or relationship -- I want to only be with someone who wants the same happiness I seek. YES -- I AM A ROMANTIC BUT STILL KNOW I WANT THE RIGHT MAN -- "not" JUST ANY MAN!! I am interested in a man who is secure enough with himself, that he can be honest and at peace. Someone who is FIT, fun to be with, has a good sense of humor and is not afraid to laugh - especially out loud. Not shy, but definitely not pushy and absolutely NOT CONTROLLING. A man with a sense of style and pancache and has the ability to show it. Can you carry off a tux as well as look cute in shorts??? A man who likes adventure and is willing to not be afraid of the the big "S" word. (SHARE). A man who can tap into the little boy in himself.. but who really is a "grown-up" and CAN handle responsibility. A man who is comfortable with kids ... I have a daughter who is 19 years and now off in college, Heck I'm really an empty nester!. A man who appreciates a women -- and is able to express that. Now --.! Heck -- I'm willing to even drop the slipper or do a Repunzal and let down my hair -- are you willing to Woo ME?? (needy men need NOT apply***A SECURE-- not Self-Centered Man! Who Really KNOWS that he is seeking to meet someone special -- my heart is for You!! The place doesn't matter, as long as we get to talk, laugh, share. 30 minutes to 4 hours -- the time is not an element, the right timing is. In shorts or dressed up, tea or champagne to share -- as long we are getting to know one another finding out what clicks and not wanting to leave when it's time to go (darn is the restaurant really closing already ??). The 1st day is an entry to the 2nd and then the 3rd and hopefully a time when we lose count.Let the 1st time me an entry to one another -- No gaming, misconceptions or BS. Just be yourself as I shall be. I am willing to take this walk with you -- are you as well?

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  • Addy from Claremont | Woman | 49 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I would like to meet someone spontaneous who likes adventure like me! It's all about adding spice to each others life... that's what I am searching for how about you? I am crazy for outdoorsy stuff and am always sporting a nice tan!..I love it here !Old fashioned men are a plus and if you hold open doors and send flowers ,"just because" you could be the one!? Children are a plus with me I can share you...I have two teen daughters. I am a kid at heart so all the better if you have some. If you are open to new things and rarely say, "NO" you could be the match I have been looking for! Do any of you go kayaking? Thats a new fun thing for me that I enjoy...watch out for alligators...lol

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  • Kathyrn from Claremont | Woman | 48 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    In general, I am a very fun, happy, self-aware, and content person.I am very close to my family, cherish and nurture my few intimate friendships diligently and carefully, and believe that kindness and compassion are the most important things in any human interaction.I love my job (teaching) because I get to learn something new everyday, interacting with college students keeps me young and informed, I make a difference in the world, and I get to laugh at myself and others just about every day.I have had my share of wonderful and disastrous relationships, but I still believe in happiness. The most important thing I have learned is to be flexible and that nobody is perfect (including me). I want my partner to eventually be my best friend and confidant and want someone in my life with whom I can talk for hours or be comfortable with in total silence.My two most valuable possessions are my camera and my kayak. If I had to give up teaching, I would be content to be a kayaking photographer who sometimes jumped off the water to go hiking or biking.I love to travel but I'm also a homebody. I have been lucky enough to live in France, spend extensive time in the Caribbean, visit my brother in Thailand, and visit ***of the American states. Depends on the weather!Cold weather... nice warm meal at a mom-and-pop or kitschy restaurant. Someplace with character and unique foodWarm weather... walk in the woods or a mellow kayak float. Picnic. Talking, getting to know each other.Hot weather... museum or local activity like live music. Nothing too loud so we can hear each, but something fun we can talk about.And then there are always wineries... good for any weather!

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