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Elayne, 49

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About Me

I am a very kind, fun, loving, and outgoing girl. I have a job I love so my days go by well, and very fast. I love a good laugh. I seek it . Finding humor and finding positive in everything is the way I am most of the time, even while working a long day. You can have both you know. I am already happy, so I will never be looking at you to do that for me. It comes from me first. Enjoying my life with a man would be just a bonus to add to a very good life. I enjoy spending time with people and helping others. I like to give back. My life is good so I wish and want the same for others. I have alot of compassion and am not quick to judge anyone. That is definitely something I would want in my partner as well. I want a man in my life to love, and have fun with......I like to try new things, maybe going for a drive somewhere different and even just a night home. I love dinner at home and snuggling up to a good movie.. I love music and once in awhile a little slow dance. I would like to meet someone interested in a eventual long term relationship. Honesty is very big to me.. It really is important for me to have someone who will have respect for me when I am with them, just as much as when I am not. I think you know what I mean. If you are online looking for just a date for the night, then I am not the one that you are looking for. Spending time together is so important, but also just as important to have time to yourself, time with friends. I have awesome children that would love to see there mom going out with a nice man that makes her happy and treats her like she deserves . I love kids and someone with children of there own is just a plus to me. Finding the right person is so hard and I never take that person for granted as it would be so AMAZING to have....When I care for someone , I show it, and I tell them because its important to. It's just the way I am built, and because I would want that from u as well. I guess I wouldn 't call it a first day yet. The first time I meet someone, I really rather go to a diner rather out somewhere the first time. We have to see if there is that spark, that feeling we are supposed to have first. We have to see if we are compatable. I would rather sit across from you, and look straight into your eyes first, and talk to you, and listen to you, and hopefully move alittle closer if we feel that connection. I am pretty simple, not extravagant. Be nice to me and make me smile and I am happy.:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Grisel

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I guess the best way to describe myself is that I am just me. I don't put on false pretenses to make myself someone or something I'm not. I am honest, passionate and dislike people who lie and who can't keep their word. I like to work and keep busy most of the time but I also like to chill. I'm not super outdoorsy but I can give it a whirl. I like football, hockey and basketball the most out of all sports. During football and hockey season I yell at the TV as well as when I watch MMA. Yes, I like that too. I don't like shopping. Definitely not your typical girl. I like any kind of water: oceans, lakes, rivers... I have three tattoos but they can't be seen unless I show them. Nothing crazy.. I am dedicated and loyal. I love people and can strike up a conversation with just about anyone but get rude with me and I will make it known it's not good with me. I have a handful of friends that are the best. Some I've known since I was three and I keep in touch with many cousins, aunts, and uncles. I would like to date some one who knows how to be kind, thoughtful, honest and can hold his own. I must stress at this point, I am not materialistic and money doesn't wow me. So, if all you can talk about is money, what you have, and breathe any ill towards someone who has less....MOVE ON, I am not your girl. It is a necessary thing to survive but it shouldn't define you. It can be lost in a second and it doesn't make anyone a better person. I don't want to be with a show off. I would like someone who looks at the good and can brush off the bad.And at some point I hope to find the person who can't wait to see me, knows the littlest of things that make me happy, and I can go to sleep with each night feeling loved, safe, and content.Please....if you would like to correspond...have a picture and for goodness sake....really read this before you say I have a great profile and you can't tell me why.DON'T message me with/if:Hey, you're hot.I loved your profile and we have so much in common ( I will read yours and wonder what the heck if there is nothing at all similar)If you live 2+ states away. I want to date someone not visit every once in a while. All depends on comfort level and what suits both.

  • David

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    And she'll have fun fun fun... I am very spontaneous and easy going. I have slightly silly sense of humor and sometimes on the sarcastic side but never mean. I love animals, I owned a my last dog for sixteen years and she was my best friend. I just adopted a great pup from the spca and I hope I have him just as long. I have a BS in Genetics andI recently graduated with a Master's in nursing. I like to travel and explore. I like most outdoor sports, (not that Im good at all of them but i like to have fun). I can be competitive at times. I am very open to new experiences. I trained for and completed two triathalons and ran in the ***reach the beach relay. This summer I learned to Surf and Rock climb both of which were awesome experiences. I love the outdoors and adventure but I also enjoy quiet peaceful times. I love the water, lakes or the ocean. I have a really big heart and Im also very supportive and very protective of the people I care about. I'm very independent but I wouldn't mind spending some time with an intelligent, fun person who shares some of the same interests as I do or who can introduce me to some new interests. I have absolutely no tolerance for abusive behaviors. I am honest and expect people to be honest with me. Spontenaity a plus as I am spontaneous myself. must be able to tolerate occassional clumsiness. i am very easy going I like to have fun and feel comfortable with people. Anyways enough about me let's hear about you.

  • Jackie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am most comfortable in jeans although I also like to put a dress on now and then. I have never been one to spend hours on hair and makeup. I prefer natural beauty anyday over the never ending pursuit (at any cost) to stay young looking. I believe that if you treat your body, mind, and spirit well you will age gracefully, be more grounded, and have a healthier outlook on life. I am very interested in living a natural lifestyle. I am certified in permaculture design and my latest interest is in natural buildings. I grow a large organic garden, use as little plastic as I can get away with, compost, recycle, and volunteer with many environmental organizations in my community. I am not a workaholic and am not interested in chasing the almighty dollar. I love music. I enjoy dancing, listening and playing music. I am artistic, and creative but also have a practical solution oriented approach to problems. I value community and working with others. I am also seeking a deep and fullfilling connection with someone. I don't subscribe to any one religion. Although I do consider myself spiritual. My church is in Nature. I am constantly reminded of the incredible beauty and intelligence found in nature. I surround myself with beauty, have lots of plants and try to have only those items that are made from natural materials. My home is my sanctuary and I care that it is healthy, natural and simple. About You: I am seeking a caring man that lives a simple lifestyle. Someone who enjoys organically grown and healthy meals. Someone who can balance their worklife and playlife and still make quality time for their partner.

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