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Elayne, 49
United States, New Hampshire, Claremont

Offline, last seen Tue, 14 Apr 2026 17:52:42

About Me

I am a very kind, fun, loving, and outgoing girl. I have a job I love so my days go by well, and very fast. I love a good laugh. I seek it . Finding humor and finding positive in everything is the way I am most of the time, even while working a long day. You can have both you know. I am already happy, so I will never be looking at you to do that for me. It comes from me first. Enjoying my life with a man would be just a bonus to add to a very good life. I enjoy spending time with people and helping others. I like to give back. My life is good so I wish and want the same for others. I have alot of compassion and am not quick to judge anyone. That is definitely something I would want in my partner as well. I want a man in my life to love, and have fun with......I like to try new things, maybe going for a drive somewhere different and even just a night home. I love dinner at home and snuggling up to a good movie.. I love music and once in awhile a little slow dance. I would like to meet someone interested in a eventual long term relationship. Honesty is very big to me.. It really is important for me to have someone who will have respect for me when I am with them, just as much as when I am not. I think you know what I mean. If you are online looking for just a date for the night, then I am not the one that you are looking for. Spending time together is so important, but also just as important to have time to yourself, time with friends. I have awesome children that would love to see there mom going out with a nice man that makes her happy and treats her like she deserves . I love kids and someone with children of there own is just a plus to me. Finding the right person is so hard and I never take that person for granted as it would be so AMAZING to have....When I care for someone , I show it, and I tell them because its important to. It's just the way I am built, and because I would want that from u as well. I guess I wouldn 't call it a first day yet. The first time I meet someone, I really rather go to a diner rather out somewhere the first time. We have to see if there is that spark, that feeling we are supposed to have first. We have to see if we are compatable. I would rather sit across from you, and look straight into your eyes first, and talk to you, and listen to you, and hopefully move alittle closer if we feel that connection. I am pretty simple, not extravagant. Be nice to me and make me smile and I am happy.:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Reggae Chinese Italian Middle Eastern Animation Western
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    My friends would say that I am fun and outgoing. I am loyal to my friends and a hard working single parent. My children are getting older and that is giving me more time for myself.I love going out, trying new things and seeing live music but I am also happy staying home and watching a good movie. I do not watch much TV but I love to read. I have always loved to walk but recently added running and hiking. I have been in a couple of 5K's and really enjoyed it. I would want to just meet in a casual setting for conversation and see if there is interest on both sides.

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Like alot of you- I find this part to be the most difficult.I am independent & driven- I work in Logistics and am also building my own small business on the side.I value integrity and live by a moral code that most would think obsolete. My Faith in God and my personality are tightly knit together- you cant have 1 without the other.I am rediscovering who I am after a long relationship and am enjoying the experience. I enjoy travel, good food/ wine. I am more beach person than mountains, but enjoy the tranquility of both environments, however camping is limited to the beach. I recently discovered Kayaking and LOVE it! Next on my list is scuba diving.... like to try new things but am not an adrenaline junkie. Love a good book and read a variety of genres (no- i did not read the gray series!) I enjoy music( sorry draw the line with rap & I like to laugh and can at times be a sarcastic wit. I am comfortable cooking in the kitchen as well as working in the yard, gardening or doing home repairs/ projects.My youngest son lives with me and will graduate HS this June.I am simply looking for a friend /companion.***** People are People -Do not contact me if you are looking for FWB. (see line 3 above)At this time I am NOT looking for a LTR that may end in a life long commitment.Thanks for looking. May you find the happiness/ fulfillment you are also searching.T Not a Movie! Someplace quiet where we can talk.

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

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