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Elayne, 49
United States, New Hampshire, Claremont

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About Me

I am a very kind, fun, loving, and outgoing girl. I have a job I love so my days go by well, and very fast. I love a good laugh. I seek it . Finding humor and finding positive in everything is the way I am most of the time, even while working a long day. You can have both you know. I am already happy, so I will never be looking at you to do that for me. It comes from me first. Enjoying my life with a man would be just a bonus to add to a very good life. I enjoy spending time with people and helping others. I like to give back. My life is good so I wish and want the same for others. I have alot of compassion and am not quick to judge anyone. That is definitely something I would want in my partner as well. I want a man in my life to love, and have fun with......I like to try new things, maybe going for a drive somewhere different and even just a night home. I love dinner at home and snuggling up to a good movie.. I love music and once in awhile a little slow dance. I would like to meet someone interested in a eventual long term relationship. Honesty is very big to me.. It really is important for me to have someone who will have respect for me when I am with them, just as much as when I am not. I think you know what I mean. If you are online looking for just a date for the night, then I am not the one that you are looking for. Spending time together is so important, but also just as important to have time to yourself, time with friends. I have awesome children that would love to see there mom going out with a nice man that makes her happy and treats her like she deserves . I love kids and someone with children of there own is just a plus to me. Finding the right person is so hard and I never take that person for granted as it would be so AMAZING to have....When I care for someone , I show it, and I tell them because its important to. It's just the way I am built, and because I would want that from u as well. I guess I wouldn 't call it a first day yet. The first time I meet someone, I really rather go to a diner rather out somewhere the first time. We have to see if there is that spark, that feeling we are supposed to have first. We have to see if we are compatable. I would rather sit across from you, and look straight into your eyes first, and talk to you, and listen to you, and hopefully move alittle closer if we feel that connection. I am pretty simple, not extravagant. Be nice to me and make me smile and I am happy.:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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