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Odette, 50

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About Me

I am not complicated but I live each day with adventure that is tempered with reality. I believe happiness comes from within and in saying so...am happy each and every day no matter what..... Drama can be created or diffused...the choice is always ours!I am confident but very easy going, love to laugh and never sweat the small stuff!!I value family and friendship….my children mean the world to me and as they get older they just continue to amaze and inspire me!My friends’ say I am strong and can handle pretty much anything that gets thrown my way.....usually with seeing the "silver lining". ….when in need I am ALWAYS there for my friends…I think it is a privilege and magically it works both ways! …I am lucky!I am not one to wait for a plumber or electrician …..that being said …my insurance company loves me! J I never shy away from a challenge and try and push myself as much as possible. I love to try new things, hot yoga and learning how to ski are my latest passions……so far so good, no broken limbs and no yoga pose that I haven’t been able to get untangled from….still working on getting OFF the bunny hill!!’ cottage in the winter playing in the snow or being challenged on a crazy ski-doo ride….There is nothing more intoxicating than sitting outside under the gazebo during a rain storm. I love to be outside regardless of the season am not one to sit at home…….and then I simply breathe and bleed Blue!I am equally comfortable wearing the "little black dress" or jeans and a sweat top at the camp fire. People tell me I am very easy to talk to as I am not judgmental.I enjoy entertaining at my house and have worked hard to make it a warm, comfortable place to visit. My friends will often drop by unannounced and this works for me.I am looking for someone who is confident, comfortable in their own skin, who likes to laugh but also values the rewards of hard work. Someone who is not complicated and is able, on occasion, to laugh at himself….and probably more often at me!!I DO believe in taking what you dish out and have been known to be somewhat sarcastic….O.K. I AM sarcastic but never in a mean way……….I do not want or need drama in my life and am looking for someone who feels the same way. I have been on my own for a number of years and I feel that dating multiple people is best left for others….simply put is not my style.I would like to find someone that not only has my same values but also shares my same passion for life.It is important to me that one sees life as “glass half full” and wants to share in the adventures that each day brings.That being said I honestly feel that at this stage of our lives everyone has some type of “baggage” and it is in how we deal with it that determines our future happiness……I choose to be happy…and I hope to meet someone that feels the same way……..liking a Starbucks latte is simply a bonus

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Georgette

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Meeting people is pretty fun and interesting. and to tell you the truth, I never get tired of hearing.. your pictures don't do you justice but I'd really like the find the person who takes me off of here sooooooo I'm putting it out to the universe to get a great man's assistance. You see, I'm looking for my best friend. My best friend would be a man who first and foremost KNOWS how to treat a lady. He looks to be between 40 and 50 years old, but may appear younger than his age. He's intelligent with his own career and most importantly he knows how to treat a lady (ooo redundant, you say?! ) & enjoys treating her right.. gives him a thrill down to his toes to make her smile and laugh, even. He will have a kind heart and will love me for me. He will be loyal, supportive and adventurous... my best friend. I'm very affectionate so I would want that in my best friend as well. Funny is good too, as I love to laugh. Although, there's a fine line between being funny and being the brunt of someone's jokes. There's nothing better than that feeling of being cherished and having someone who WANTS to spend their time with you... having fun and laughing... enjoying life and being positive no matter what. If this great man can be found, I can offer a reward of ADMIRATION, appreciation, respect, devotion, sweet, sensuous kisses that last for hours, tantalizing massages, a partner that loves to cook but doesn't want to do the dishes, someone to wash your backu, and someone who will keep you on your toes at night. I will make it my personal Mantra to embrace the sizzle that keeps your temperature rising to a hundred and nine and causes kisses to lift you higher, like a sweet song of the choir.I am bright, self motivated, enthusiastic and have a positive attitude. I don't want to be around negative people. Period. I like hanging out and having fun. I love live music especially the blues and classic rocknroll (did I mention dancing? ) when I go out but I can be happy hanging out at home and watching a movie or making dinner with (maybe even for?) someone. I love to people watch at concerts. Also, I love, love the water! I like to travel to remote destinations and have been on many interesting vacations. On my last trip, if you don't count Vegas last month, I sailed around Antigua - January ***... Does that sound like fun to you? Things that don't especially interest me... sports on tv (I don't even have cable!)... fishing... camping. Not to be rude these things are fine occassionally but I am not interested in making any of them a weekly or more often event. If I could add cleaning and doing laundry here I would so if you're looking for a maid, you have the wrong girl. Not to say I am a slob I keep it neat but I am not obsessed with having a clean house. I have been known to pay people to clean my house and car! :)I try not to work too hard and am wanting to play more. I'm pretty fortunate to have a great job with a good company. I won't bore you with the details of my work cuz trust me, it's a yawner. I take care of myself by exercising and eating right most of the time but I am low maintenance. I don't take hours to get ready (that drives me crazy about some of my girlfriends). I'm a woman with a huge heart (so I say.. guess you'll have to find out for yourself) and I love to make people laugh and feel special.I am working on being the best partner I can be while I fish, aren't you doing the same?If you think you may be that best friend I'm looking for please catch me (I guess I'm a fish afterall). I don't know you (yet) but if you've read this far in my profile I'd venture to guess that we have a couple things in common. & I'd say that makes you an awesome person and awesome people take action.... so why don't you send me a note now before someone else beats you to me? ps Is it just me or do the questions do you do drugs and do you have a car strike you as kinda funny?Please no one over 55 yrs old or over 20 lbs overweight. Also, no please take no offense but I do not date men of color. you tell me... I'm open to suggestions

  • Wei

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Time for an UPDATE: I am a lady. I need to be treated as such. It means that you are going to have to put some serious effort into the relationship before we make it to the bedroom. It doesn't mean that I'm afraid to get dirty or work hard. I work every day either on the job or at home. I am high mantentance. If we are in a relationship I expect to hear from you every day, even if its just a text. I expect that you will call or show up when you say you are going to. I will give you the same respect. I expect doors to be opened for me and your full attention during a date. The exception is children. I keep my cell phone handy so if my children need me. I expect that your children will be just as important to you. I will not get in the car with you until I feel comfortable. I won't tell you where I live either. I will meet you. I'm not trying to be rude but these are things you should know before you ask me out. If you are going to buy my dinner or pay for whatever we do and gas to get there you should know what you're getting into. This is the cost of dating me. Only you can decide if the price is too high.One more thing...If we are in a relationship I will only be dating you. If we are not in a relationship I will date other people. If that is a problem please do not ask me out.Also, I often stay friends with my exes. That's because I don't screw them over. For *** just updated my ex boyfriends profile. I wanted to say things that women want to know. I want him to find someone and be happy.Ok, now about me.....I'm looking for my best friend. Someone I can dream with, laugh with, explore with, and tell all my secrets to. I want to meet someone who after a while is sure that he can't live without me and I want to feel the same way about him. When he looks at me I want to be able to see the love in his eyes. I want to know that he adores me, and wants only me. A tall order, I know.I do love to be spoiled, but I love to spoil the people I care about also. Spoiling someone doesn't always mean spending money on them. Sometimes it's rubbing their feet after a long day at work (I do this often for my partner), picking flowers from the side of the road to show me that he was thinking of me. A "good morning" text is always nice. I want to be walked to my car, doors held, and kissed passionately. I want a man who will wrap his arms around me and tell me that everything will be alright. I need to know that when something goes wrong, or when I need something that he will handle it. I will do the same for him. We all need someone to depend on, even if all you can do is hold me while I cry.I tend to be attracted to tall, strong men, country boys, but not guys that dip.lol. A gentleman. I am a single mother. My 15 year old daughter lives with me. She comes first. I expect for your children to come first in your life also. I work with special needs adults; that's a big part of my life. Because this is an emotional job, I can't turn it off when I leave work. I worry about my clients like they're family.I go back and forth on the relatonship thing. I don't want to be in a relationship for the sake of being in one. To say I "belong" to someone. But one day a relationship will just happen. It's still takes work to keep it together, but one day you will realize that when the phone rings you hope it's that one certain person. Your best friend, the one who always listens, the one who's always there for you, the one who loves you even when you're not lovable.You can't choose who you fall in love with, it just happens. Staying in love doesn't just happen, it's a choice.I love to travel, explore the world, and my own back yard. For the first meeting, a cup of coffee/hot chocolate is fine. Hanging out in groups can be fun too. The very best date after we get to know and trust each other would be packing some snacks and a camera, and explore. I don’t need a fwb. I’m not a booty call. Be a friend first or don’t bother.

  • Lisarawli94

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 22-48

    Looking to meet new friends find me on tictok DM me or don't won't respond here

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