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Odette, 50
United States, New Hampshire, Claremont

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About Me

I am not complicated but I live each day with adventure that is tempered with reality. I believe happiness comes from within and in saying so...am happy each and every day no matter what..... Drama can be created or diffused...the choice is always ours!I am confident but very easy going, love to laugh and never sweat the small stuff!!I value family and friendship….my children mean the world to me and as they get older they just continue to amaze and inspire me!My friends’ say I am strong and can handle pretty much anything that gets thrown my way.....usually with seeing the "silver lining". ….when in need I am ALWAYS there for my friends…I think it is a privilege and magically it works both ways! …I am lucky!I am not one to wait for a plumber or electrician …..that being said …my insurance company loves me! J I never shy away from a challenge and try and push myself as much as possible. I love to try new things, hot yoga and learning how to ski are my latest passions……so far so good, no broken limbs and no yoga pose that I haven’t been able to get untangled from….still working on getting OFF the bunny hill!!’ cottage in the winter playing in the snow or being challenged on a crazy ski-doo ride….There is nothing more intoxicating than sitting outside under the gazebo during a rain storm. I love to be outside regardless of the season am not one to sit at home…….and then I simply breathe and bleed Blue!I am equally comfortable wearing the "little black dress" or jeans and a sweat top at the camp fire. People tell me I am very easy to talk to as I am not judgmental.I enjoy entertaining at my house and have worked hard to make it a warm, comfortable place to visit. My friends will often drop by unannounced and this works for me.I am looking for someone who is confident, comfortable in their own skin, who likes to laugh but also values the rewards of hard work. Someone who is not complicated and is able, on occasion, to laugh at himself….and probably more often at me!!I DO believe in taking what you dish out and have been known to be somewhat sarcastic….O.K. I AM sarcastic but never in a mean way……….I do not want or need drama in my life and am looking for someone who feels the same way. I have been on my own for a number of years and I feel that dating multiple people is best left for others….simply put is not my style.I would like to find someone that not only has my same values but also shares my same passion for life.It is important to me that one sees life as “glass half full” and wants to share in the adventures that each day brings.That being said I honestly feel that at this stage of our lives everyone has some type of “baggage” and it is in how we deal with it that determines our future happiness……I choose to be happy…and I hope to meet someone that feels the same way……..liking a Starbucks latte is simply a bonus

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Korean Drama Sci-Fi Bowling Boxing Sailing
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    Amelia

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm at a point in my life where I'm looking for a relationship with someone who I can't wait to see and miss when he is gone but we both have our time with friends and interests outside the relationship. I want to meet someone who is not just going to move on to the next fish because there are plenty of them but who honestly wants to give something a chance IF there is mutual attraction. Physical attraction is important to me and it either exists or doesn't. Part of this attraction is not based solely on looks but on character, intelligence and some common interests. Loving oneself enough to take care of your body is also important. It doesn't mean you need to be an iron man; it means care enough about yourself to keep active in some way and be aware of what you eat. I am not perfect and enjoy a good wine or Grey Goose but I find it too difficult to be with someone who doesn't value himself that way. As far as interests, I enjoy a good movie or live band, trying a new restaurant or making a new recipe at home with my dog underfoot ready to eat anything that falls to the floor. I also would like to travel more. I love the sound of the ocean and could just relax by the water all day. For a first date, I would like to meet someone somewhere where we can talk and get to know each other a bit better so that could be over coffee, or a glass of wine.

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Like everyone else on here I am am looking for companionship, my best friend. It would be nice to find a person that shares the same family values, honesty and sense of humor that I have. I have a lot of interests and enjoying doing many things and am looking for someone to share them with. I enjoy going to the gym ***days a week and would love to find a work out buddy. Since its summer, I enjoy many outdoor activities like camping, carnivals, amusement parks, etc. I guess I am a closet redneck!I would love the opportunity to talk and see if we have anything in common! Enjoy life! Something public!

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  • Tandy from Claremont | Woman | 49 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Still believe in chemistry, that *** when you meet someone. Believe that is so important to have! Want that feeling in the pit of my stomach, butterflies going in circles, a smile that is *** when your going to get to see them, Looking for the one that takes my breath away when he calls, walks into the room or comes up and plants a kiss on my forehead! (I'm short so that's a give...LOL!), to bring some fresh picked wild flowers when they come to see me. Doesn't cost a dime but is worth more in value than any money spent. Looking for that guy that can keep me laughing and enchant me with his charm. Someone to wrap his arms around me and I know all will be OK because we have each other to count on. That is what I'm looking for....does he exist....?What he should be looking for: A woman that has life experiences, not baggage, that has taught her valuable life lessons and she has grown stronger as a person. Sarcastic, fun poking, a little evil humor at times (all in fun of course!), loves to laugh and cut up but knows when to be serious. Someone that is not a ***got to be by your side...or has to know where you are....! Simple, loving, caring woman that loves to help those less fortunate than herself....but definetely not a push over!! Loves PDA's with the guy that has captured my heart! Have one son still at home, he is 17 yrs old and he amazes me each day with the person he has become.. Being a teenager is no picnic these days but he is a blessing to watch grow into the young man he is becoming. So if you would like to talk, don't be shy, cast the bait towards my pond and send me a message. Never know till you try! Think outside the box....might surprise you! If I'm not your cup of tea, I wish you the best in finding the one! Something fun and simple! I'm sure we can think of something together! :o)

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