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Odette, 50
United States, New Hampshire, Claremont

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About Me

I am not complicated but I live each day with adventure that is tempered with reality. I believe happiness comes from within and in saying so...am happy each and every day no matter what..... Drama can be created or diffused...the choice is always ours!I am confident but very easy going, love to laugh and never sweat the small stuff!!I value family and friendship….my children mean the world to me and as they get older they just continue to amaze and inspire me!My friends’ say I am strong and can handle pretty much anything that gets thrown my way.....usually with seeing the "silver lining". ….when in need I am ALWAYS there for my friends…I think it is a privilege and magically it works both ways! …I am lucky!I am not one to wait for a plumber or electrician …..that being said …my insurance company loves me! J I never shy away from a challenge and try and push myself as much as possible. I love to try new things, hot yoga and learning how to ski are my latest passions……so far so good, no broken limbs and no yoga pose that I haven’t been able to get untangled from….still working on getting OFF the bunny hill!!’ cottage in the winter playing in the snow or being challenged on a crazy ski-doo ride….There is nothing more intoxicating than sitting outside under the gazebo during a rain storm. I love to be outside regardless of the season am not one to sit at home…….and then I simply breathe and bleed Blue!I am equally comfortable wearing the "little black dress" or jeans and a sweat top at the camp fire. People tell me I am very easy to talk to as I am not judgmental.I enjoy entertaining at my house and have worked hard to make it a warm, comfortable place to visit. My friends will often drop by unannounced and this works for me.I am looking for someone who is confident, comfortable in their own skin, who likes to laugh but also values the rewards of hard work. Someone who is not complicated and is able, on occasion, to laugh at himself….and probably more often at me!!I DO believe in taking what you dish out and have been known to be somewhat sarcastic….O.K. I AM sarcastic but never in a mean way……….I do not want or need drama in my life and am looking for someone who feels the same way. I have been on my own for a number of years and I feel that dating multiple people is best left for others….simply put is not my style.I would like to find someone that not only has my same values but also shares my same passion for life.It is important to me that one sees life as “glass half full” and wants to share in the adventures that each day brings.That being said I honestly feel that at this stage of our lives everyone has some type of “baggage” and it is in how we deal with it that determines our future happiness……I choose to be happy…and I hope to meet someone that feels the same way……..liking a Starbucks latte is simply a bonus

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Korean Drama Sci-Fi Bowling Boxing Sailing
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    Grisel

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I guess the best way to describe myself is that I am just me. I don't put on false pretenses to make myself someone or something I'm not. I am honest, passionate and dislike people who lie and who can't keep their word. I like to work and keep busy most of the time but I also like to chill. I'm not super outdoorsy but I can give it a whirl. I like football, hockey and basketball the most out of all sports. During football and hockey season I yell at the TV as well as when I watch MMA. Yes, I like that too. I don't like shopping. Definitely not your typical girl. I like any kind of water: oceans, lakes, rivers... I have three tattoos but they can't be seen unless I show them. Nothing crazy.. I am dedicated and loyal. I love people and can strike up a conversation with just about anyone but get rude with me and I will make it known it's not good with me. I have a handful of friends that are the best. Some I've known since I was three and I keep in touch with many cousins, aunts, and uncles. I would like to date some one who knows how to be kind, thoughtful, honest and can hold his own. I must stress at this point, I am not materialistic and money doesn't wow me. So, if all you can talk about is money, what you have, and breathe any ill towards someone who has less....MOVE ON, I am not your girl. It is a necessary thing to survive but it shouldn't define you. It can be lost in a second and it doesn't make anyone a better person. I don't want to be with a show off. I would like someone who looks at the good and can brush off the bad.And at some point I hope to find the person who can't wait to see me, knows the littlest of things that make me happy, and I can go to sleep with each night feeling loved, safe, and content.Please....if you would like to correspond...have a picture and for goodness sake....really read this before you say I have a great profile and you can't tell me why.DON'T message me with/if:Hey, you're hot.I loved your profile and we have so much in common ( I will read yours and wonder what the heck if there is nothing at all similar)If you live 2+ states away. I want to date someone not visit every once in a while. All depends on comfort level and what suits both.

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  • Elayne from Claremont | Woman | 49 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a very kind, fun, loving, and outgoing girl. I have a job I love so my days go by well, and very fast. I love a good laugh. I seek it . Finding humor and finding positive in everything is the way I am most of the time, even while working a long day. You can have both you know. I am already happy, so I will never be looking at you to do that for me. It comes from me first. Enjoying my life with a man would be just a bonus to add to a very good life. I enjoy spending time with people and helping others. I like to give back. My life is good so I wish and want the same for others. I have alot of compassion and am not quick to judge anyone. That is definitely something I would want in my partner as well. I want a man in my life to love, and have fun with......I like to try new things, maybe going for a drive somewhere different and even just a night home. I love dinner at home and snuggling up to a good movie.. I love music and once in awhile a little slow dance. I would like to meet someone interested in a eventual long term relationship. Honesty is very big to me.. It really is important for me to have someone who will have respect for me when I am with them, just as much as when I am not. I think you know what I mean. If you are online looking for just a date for the night, then I am not the one that you are looking for. Spending time together is so important, but also just as important to have time to yourself, time with friends. I have awesome children that would love to see there mom going out with a nice man that makes her happy and treats her like she deserves . I love kids and someone with children of there own is just a plus to me. Finding the right person is so hard and I never take that person for granted as it would be so AMAZING to have....When I care for someone , I show it, and I tell them because its important to. It's just the way I am built, and because I would want that from u as well. I guess I wouldn 't call it a first day yet. The first time I meet someone, I really rather go to a diner rather out somewhere the first time. We have to see if there is that spark, that feeling we are supposed to have first. We have to see if we are compatable. I would rather sit across from you, and look straight into your eyes first, and talk to you, and listen to you, and hopefully move alittle closer if we feel that connection. I am pretty simple, not extravagant. Be nice to me and make me smile and I am happy.:)

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  • Kelan from Claremont | Woman | 49 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I like to stay in with dinner and a great movie but love to go out occassionally. I have a great sense of humor and try not to be too serious. Sarcasm gets me in trouble sometimes but it's who I am. Laughter is the best way to live my life and would like to find that in someone also. I am a big reader and love the movies. Music goes with my mood but tend to stick with my country tunes. Try to live my life to the fullest everyday and would like to share that with someone. If you don't have a picture or just want to "hook up" then don't bother. Sorry but it is what it is. Dinner works best I think. Time to chat and get to know each other without too much pressure. Nothing too intimate that mixes signals but open to encourage conversation. Free and fun dates makes an easier setting. A drink and conversation works too.

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