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Odette, 50

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About Me

I am not complicated but I live each day with adventure that is tempered with reality. I believe happiness comes from within and in saying so...am happy each and every day no matter what..... Drama can be created or diffused...the choice is always ours!I am confident but very easy going, love to laugh and never sweat the small stuff!!I value family and friendship….my children mean the world to me and as they get older they just continue to amaze and inspire me!My friends’ say I am strong and can handle pretty much anything that gets thrown my way.....usually with seeing the "silver lining". ….when in need I am ALWAYS there for my friends…I think it is a privilege and magically it works both ways! …I am lucky!I am not one to wait for a plumber or electrician …..that being said …my insurance company loves me! J I never shy away from a challenge and try and push myself as much as possible. I love to try new things, hot yoga and learning how to ski are my latest passions……so far so good, no broken limbs and no yoga pose that I haven’t been able to get untangled from….still working on getting OFF the bunny hill!!’ cottage in the winter playing in the snow or being challenged on a crazy ski-doo ride….There is nothing more intoxicating than sitting outside under the gazebo during a rain storm. I love to be outside regardless of the season am not one to sit at home…….and then I simply breathe and bleed Blue!I am equally comfortable wearing the "little black dress" or jeans and a sweat top at the camp fire. People tell me I am very easy to talk to as I am not judgmental.I enjoy entertaining at my house and have worked hard to make it a warm, comfortable place to visit. My friends will often drop by unannounced and this works for me.I am looking for someone who is confident, comfortable in their own skin, who likes to laugh but also values the rewards of hard work. Someone who is not complicated and is able, on occasion, to laugh at himself….and probably more often at me!!I DO believe in taking what you dish out and have been known to be somewhat sarcastic….O.K. I AM sarcastic but never in a mean way……….I do not want or need drama in my life and am looking for someone who feels the same way. I have been on my own for a number of years and I feel that dating multiple people is best left for others….simply put is not my style.I would like to find someone that not only has my same values but also shares my same passion for life.It is important to me that one sees life as “glass half full” and wants to share in the adventures that each day brings.That being said I honestly feel that at this stage of our lives everyone has some type of “baggage” and it is in how we deal with it that determines our future happiness……I choose to be happy…and I hope to meet someone that feels the same way……..liking a Starbucks latte is simply a bonus

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lizzette

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Trying to 'Cut to the Chase"! LOL...Understand, I trained in ballroom dancing, intermittently, over the past 17 yrs. YOU Lead; I Follow! NOTE: You Must Be In Shape.The Bible tells a woman to obey her husband, and give her self - body and all, to him. Continue reading the same section, and God *** man to Love the woman God had given him - and that Love, that is WHY a woman desires to follow her man. She feels so moved by his love to give her life to him, utterly and completely safe in his hands. I am a Daughter of The King of Kings. I know He wants the Best for me, His Beloved. He knows I long to fall in Love. He knows I long to find the man who wants to Fall in Love with me, deeply, truly, passionately. He knows my wounded heart and denied sensuality. He wants me to feel so cherished, and safe, and protected by a Real Man of God. So safe, I can completely trust him with my body and Soul. The deep verbal intimacy we would share gives me permission to share my secret desires... the safety to experience all the sensuality God has gifted me with. Created in His Image. After almost 9 years of intermittent online dating (see in my foothills rural community, where I'm, literally, related to everyone & being that I'm a healthcare provider to women & the elderly, in their homes, it is Extremely, difficult to meet single eligible men); I have met many various kinds of folks/men; and thus, I am able to speak more, concisely, about what kind of Man I am praying for and seeking. And, I do mean Praying, as on the Earthen Floor lying prostrate for long periods of time, almost daily! I pray, daily, but not always outside, due to weather. At times, due to other demanding events in my life, such as;1) parents' deaths, taking care of and selling their large horse farm, which was still running as a profitable stable/farm, 2) mine & my grown kids educational pursuits,3) traveling for work; I have spent lengths of time (as in 4 yrs.in duration) being not able to Date, at all! etc. I'm sure you all have had similar occurences. I am growing plain weary! especially, of preparing for/driving to a meet/greet/date and often stoodup, often he doesn't look like his pics, or I discover he really is smoking, etc. etc. I so seek a local man. After these years, I am running out of the moolah to drive to you!I am. usually, a happy lady, I have my ups &..like today :) Hmm, love being outside!! Hiking, camping, fishing, etc... I do enjoy theatre, the opera, and a concert, occasionally. I adore amusement parks! Oh & enjoy history. Hmm, the only cruise I've ever been on... OHH, I got very seasick. But, put me on the itty bitty speed boats & I have a whale of a Great time! The MAN I seek, is seeking marriage or some kind of ceremony, (whether the state is involved or Not), which is recognized as binding and a BIBLICAL marriage by respective family members, churches, and the Evangelical Christian community, at large.-Wife (as in live-in girlfriend/ Fu** Buddy/ Friend w/ Benefits), 5) it has been Less than one year since a Divorce or a long term relationship break up or less than a year since you became a widow. Yes, I know, it seems harsh....There are way too many issues one deals with after those events, (I know them, personally), and I have moved way beyond them. I am very direct; In my Patriarchal (some of you will call this a 'particular lifestyle' and will totally, understand my raisin') led Childhood home, church, and community; Anyway, I really was not into boys, at all. I mention these elements of my upbringing to give you all a greater sense of my background, etc. I grew up on a lower socioeconomic home/working farm, we all worked on the farm, in our churches, etc. I have worked very long/hard hours for what I have/earned; attended college and graduate school, almost solely, based on merit based scholarships, and my hard earned cash. Wanna know how I scraped together the cash for nursing school (when my ex, a minister at the time in the poorest county in NY state...I worked in a meat processing shop, scraping/cutting/processing deer). I, carefully & selectively, wear a bikini, occasionally. I have been Celibate & practice Celibacy! I understand if you are a more recent convert to Christianity, and have had weaknesses in your past. No one is perfect, and God wipes the slate clean upon our confession/s to Him. Therefore, I am very observant of the 'Fruits of the Spirit' of which you are, CURRENTLY, exhibiting as a Bible Believing/Practicing Christian. YOU seek a good woman... I have NOT Been There/Done That in many of those understandings/respects! I had never been a bar until my musician son was required to 'sit in on a set' by his *** ago & he was required to bring a parent. Guess who was the only parent available to go??? Right, Me! That same summer, my dear son took me to my first rock concert and it was there that I also came across my 1st *** being exposed to the smell of "pot" I do have an occasional glass of wine or mixed drink or shot of whiskey :) Now, since I am a healthcare provider and seems that 99% of men in my community are leaning into or already VERY into a particular 'lifestyle' and I have very, recently, heard of/asked about a particular 'lifestyle' by patients, dates, etc, (and this is beyond what I grew up observing in my Patriarchal childhood home; in many respects); I am Inexperienced. I am very used to a Male Led Home. My ex...ahh he was raised in a northern city and was passive and, eventually, had 2 affairs. He also, constantly, said that he did not understand or believe in the command in Ephesians for men to Be Head over the Wife, as Christ is Head over & Leads and Laid down his LIFE for the church. Thus, the absolute commitment that a Biblical marriage entails. My ancestors were several of the first non-; I own a remnant of a very old (young relative to Europe) ancestral farm. I have a mini farm going o Casual, relaxed atmosphere, conducive to conversation.

  • Sherron

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm not hot or gorgeous. I don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model but I'm me. I eat food, I have curves, I have more fat than I should, I have scars, I have history. Some people love me, some like me, some hate me. I have done good, I have done bad. I love my PJ's and I go without makeup. I'm random and crazy. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I am who I am, you can love me or not. I wont change!! And if I love you, I do it with all my heart!! I make no apologies for the way I am. You can see from my pictures that I'm not obese, I'm not a slob. I do exercise but I'm not a fanatic. I like to dress up and go out. I like the beach in the summer, I like the snow in the winter( or just stay in and snuggle), I like to laugh, I want someone to keep a smile on my face. I am just and average woman looking for her last first date, her best friend, her lover.I'm the mother of two great boys, my 21 year old is a US Marine, and I have a 15 year old. Family is very important to me as I'm sure it is for a lot of you guys out there also,So this is to all the guys who say they want someone normal and not crazy. It's me here the normal girl, maybe I'm the one your looking for.

  • Susanne

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I have been a divorced for almost 3 years (married 25 years) looking to start meeting and making some new friends and maybe someday, if things work out, something more... I am a fanatic abt music..I love the 80's (anything from pop to head banger...lol) although I like a little bit of music from each decade as I get older.....anything else you will have to find out in person..gotta have some surprises...lol Oh......I look for clean, neat professional appearance (nice smile) ... I am not Barbie doll thin... I am fuller figured, so if you don't mind a little more meat on the bones then we will be fine... I guess Im looking for a big sweet teddy bear, no anger issues or quick to blow a fuse... but wont back down if situation calls for it..) kinda laid back but can kick into gear and get a job done when need be...knows how to treat a lady (you treat me good and you will get it back) and please keep in mind I will only respond to profiles with pics... ;..who doesn't? I would like to spend time talking and getting to know someone in the beginning so movies and noisy places can be for later on down the road...****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this.

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