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Lizzette
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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
Trying to 'Cut to the Chase"! LOL...Understand, I trained in ballroom dancing, intermittently, over the past 17 yrs. YOU Lead; I Follow! NOTE: You Must Be In Shape.The Bible tells a woman to obey her husband, and give her self - body and all, to him. Continue reading the same section, and God *** man to Love the woman God had given him - and that Love, that is WHY a woman desires to follow her man. She feels so moved by his love to give her life to him, utterly and completely safe in his hands. I am a Daughter of The King of Kings. I know He wants the Best for me, His Beloved. He knows I long to fall in Love. He knows I long to find the man who wants to Fall in Love with me, deeply, truly, passionately. He knows my wounded heart and denied sensuality. He wants me to feel so cherished, and safe, and protected by a Real Man of God. So safe, I can completely trust him with my body and Soul. The deep verbal intimacy we would share gives me permission to share my secret desires... the safety to experience all the sensuality God has gifted me with. Created in His Image. After almost 9 years of intermittent online dating (see in my foothills rural community, where I'm, literally, related to everyone & being that I'm a healthcare provider to women & the elderly, in their homes, it is Extremely, difficult to meet single eligible men); I have met many various kinds of folks/men; and thus, I am able to speak more, concisely, about what kind of Man I am praying for and seeking. And, I do mean Praying, as on the Earthen Floor lying prostrate for long periods of time, almost daily! I pray, daily, but not always outside, due to weather. At times, due to other demanding events in my life, such as;1) parents' deaths, taking care of and selling their large horse farm, which was still running as a profitable stable/farm, 2) mine & my grown kids educational pursuits,3) traveling for work; I have spent lengths of time (as in 4 yrs.in duration) being not able to Date, at all! etc. I'm sure you all have had similar occurences. I am growing plain weary! especially, of preparing for/driving to a meet/greet/date and often stoodup, often he doesn't look like his pics, or I discover he really is smoking, etc. etc. I so seek a local man. After these years, I am running out of the moolah to drive to you!I am. usually, a happy lady, I have my ups &..like today :) Hmm, love being outside!! Hiking, camping, fishing, etc... I do enjoy theatre, the opera, and a concert, occasionally. I adore amusement parks! Oh & enjoy history. Hmm, the only cruise I've ever been on... OHH, I got very seasick. But, put me on the itty bitty speed boats & I have a whale of a Great time! The MAN I seek, is seeking marriage or some kind of ceremony, (whether the state is involved or Not), which is recognized as binding and a BIBLICAL marriage by respective family members, churches, and the Evangelical Christian community, at large.-Wife (as in live-in girlfriend/ Fu** Buddy/ Friend w/ Benefits), 5) it has been Less than one year since a Divorce or a long term relationship break up or less than a year since you became a widow. Yes, I know, it seems harsh....There are way too many issues one deals with after those events, (I know them, personally), and I have moved way beyond them. I am very direct; In my Patriarchal (some of you will call this a 'particular lifestyle' and will totally, understand my raisin') led Childhood home, church, and community; Anyway, I really was not into boys, at all. I mention these elements of my upbringing to give you all a greater sense of my background, etc. I grew up on a lower socioeconomic home/working farm, we all worked on the farm, in our churches, etc. I have worked very long/hard hours for what I have/earned; attended college and graduate school, almost solely, based on merit based scholarships, and my hard earned cash. Wanna know how I scraped together the cash for nursing school (when my ex, a minister at the time in the poorest county in NY state...I worked in a meat processing shop, scraping/cutting/processing deer). I, carefully & selectively, wear a bikini, occasionally. I have been Celibate & practice Celibacy! I understand if you are a more recent convert to Christianity, and have had weaknesses in your past. No one is perfect, and God wipes the slate clean upon our confession/s to Him. Therefore, I am very observant of the 'Fruits of the Spirit' of which you are, CURRENTLY, exhibiting as a Bible Believing/Practicing Christian. YOU seek a good woman... I have NOT Been There/Done That in many of those understandings/respects! I had never been a bar until my musician son was required to 'sit in on a set' by his *** ago & he was required to bring a parent. Guess who was the only parent available to go??? Right, Me! That same summer, my dear son took me to my first rock concert and it was there that I also came across my 1st *** being exposed to the smell of "pot" I do have an occasional glass of wine or mixed drink or shot of whiskey :) Now, since I am a healthcare provider and seems that 99% of men in my community are leaning into or already VERY into a particular 'lifestyle' and I have very, recently, heard of/asked about a particular 'lifestyle' by patients, dates, etc, (and this is beyond what I grew up observing in my Patriarchal childhood home; in many respects); I am Inexperienced. I am very used to a Male Led Home. My ex...ahh he was raised in a northern city and was passive and, eventually, had 2 affairs. He also, constantly, said that he did not understand or believe in the command in Ephesians for men to Be Head over the Wife, as Christ is Head over & Leads and Laid down his LIFE for the church. Thus, the absolute commitment that a Biblical marriage entails. My ancestors were several of the first non-; I own a remnant of a very old (young relative to Europe) ancestral farm. I have a mini farm going o Casual, relaxed atmosphere, conducive to conversation.
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Mavis
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Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
On the one hand, I'm an extrovert, meet strangers easily, energetic, spontaneous, playful, fun-loving, articulate, educated, analytical but down to earth, nonjudgmental, and open-minded. I love to dance to rock, Latin, or country western, and would like to learn how to shag/swing dance.I practice and require absolute honesty and open communication. On the other hand, I'm an introvert, somewhat shy, pensive, sensitive, quiet, serene, affectionate, sensual, creative/artistic. I like to think deep thoughts and enjoy discussing ideas. My spiritual beliefs are a mix of what has resonated with me from numerous different belief systems. I am not a member of any organized religion and do not push my beliefs on anyone else and will not tolerate anyone pushing their beliefs on me. I love sunrises and sunsets and the music of nature. I enjoy cooking, drawing, playing the piano, sketching, and journaling. Occasionally dancing in the rain. Slow dancing, making love, and cuddling. Being courted, romanced and wooed. Life is new--every moment of every day--so I like to try new things and I'm always learning. I am currently taking a Carpentry class and I am strongly considering classes to become a Master Gardener. I love to dance and I get jiggy with it every day--around the house. (My kitty cats think I'm pretty awesome! LOL) I am a fan of most types of music, including world music. I'd really like to find someone that enjoys Bluegrass Music on occasion. That's something that's been missing in my life.The mountains are my favorite place to be. Hang-gliding and Skydiving are on my Bucket List. I haven't been Ziplining in a lonnng time so I'd really enjoy doing that again.Now, about you~I enjoy my own company, but deeply yearn to connect with someone at the deepest level. If you are a man who is down-to-earth, open-minded/ a free thinker, NON-religious, creative, a gentle soul, takes care of himself, loves nature and being outdoors, knows how to treat a lady, affectionate, passionate, sensual, gives good massages, thoughtful, values family and community, never met a stranger and could talk and listen to anyone about anything, honorable, lives by integrity, loyal, confident, responsible, loves to laugh, intelligent, shares his thoughts and feelings and dreams, thinks deeply but doesn't take life too seriously, maintains and requires open communication, and enjoys cooking, I'd really like to talk with you! If you like to dance and also learn new dance steps, I'm gonna be in "heaven"!Characteristics that are NOT a good match with me: Brusque Neanderthal Sarcastic Insensitive Defensive Impatient Negative Loud Short-temperedQuotes that are meaningful to me:"Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." ~;I won't complain because it doesn't improve matters and, truth be told, no one really wants to hear it anyway." ~ me“Hey. Don’t ever let somebody tell you that you can’t do something. Not even me. All right? You got a dream… You gotta protect it. People can’t do somethin’ themselves, they wanna tell you you can’t do it. If you want somethin’, go get it. Period.” ~;(more to come) Meet somewhere so that we can confirm we are who we claim to be by our pictures LOL, then do something fun. If you're artistic, we could create a work of art together. Maybe meet at one of those pottery studios, or go to one of those bring-your-own-beverage painting classes, etc. If you have Panthers season tickets (hint, hint LOL), take me to a Panthers game! = ) If you like the symphony and plays, that would be fun. Eating is always a good idea: International cuisine is great. I love food from other cultures. Festivals are fun. Ideas for a first date are endless!
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Aviana
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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I'm back. Again. After taking a break from meetville I find myself once again back here. Although this is not a bad place to be, its really not my intent to stay here for long.With that said, I'll give a brief description of me and what I am about.I am a single mom of 2 kids, although they aren't kids anymore. Both are over 20. I own my own home, car, work full time at a job I love. In my spare time I enjoy going to the gym, although I don't get there as often as I'd like. working long hours, house maintenance inside and out take up many of the 48 hours that I am not at my "paid" job.So if I find myself too exhausted from a long day at work, I enjoy sitting on my deck listening to nature, having a glass of wine and just decompress.I love going for walks, biking, sitting on an out door patio, going by the canal, taking a drive in the country, cooking a meal with someone over a glass (or 2) of wine, campfires, sitting by the water, enjoying nature. Simple things.I like to travel although haven't had many opportunities to do so. I do plan on travelling hopefully in the near future. Family and friends are very important to me. I will defend them and anyone else. I will especially protect anyone vulnerable - animals, children, elderly - without a second thought.Truth, honesty, respect is #1 for me. If you can't offer that in a relationship (friendship or romantic), then it wont work. Physical attraction will spark my interest, but sense of humour, personality and charm will keep my attention! Looking for someone genuine, who has a positive attitude, a great sense of humour, is laid back and doesn't take himself or life too seriously . If there is a spark and we connect, everything else will fall into place.It could be my old fashioned values but there's nothing more attractive than a confident guy who takes initiative. :0)I've put dating on here as what I am looking for but ultimately I would like to have a relationship. It all starts with friendship and dating.I have put 'a few extra pounds' on here as I find the majority of people do in some capacity or another have a few extra pounds - I'm no exception. I'm being honest. I could also put average but then everyone's perception is different. Its up to you to decide what's more important.I also look younger than my age and most times act it too! LOL I definitely don't fit in the "stuffy / old" box.I will probably add more later, but for now, if you think we might connect, send me a message. up for discussion.