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Mavis, 48
United States, New Hampshire, Claremont

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About Me

On the one hand, I'm an extrovert, meet strangers easily, energetic, spontaneous, playful, fun-loving, articulate, educated, analytical but down to earth, nonjudgmental, and open-minded. I love to dance to rock, Latin, or country western, and would like to learn how to shag/swing dance.I practice and require absolute honesty and open communication. On the other hand, I'm an introvert, somewhat shy, pensive, sensitive, quiet, serene, affectionate, sensual, creative/artistic. I like to think deep thoughts and enjoy discussing ideas. My spiritual beliefs are a mix of what has resonated with me from numerous different belief systems. I am not a member of any organized religion and do not push my beliefs on anyone else and will not tolerate anyone pushing their beliefs on me. I love sunrises and sunsets and the music of nature. I enjoy cooking, drawing, playing the piano, sketching, and journaling. Occasionally dancing in the rain. Slow dancing, making love, and cuddling. Being courted, romanced and wooed. Life is new--every moment of every day--so I like to try new things and I'm always learning. I am currently taking a Carpentry class and I am strongly considering classes to become a Master Gardener. I love to dance and I get jiggy with it every day--around the house. (My kitty cats think I'm pretty awesome! LOL) I am a fan of most types of music, including world music. I'd really like to find someone that enjoys Bluegrass Music on occasion. That's something that's been missing in my life.The mountains are my favorite place to be. Hang-gliding and Skydiving are on my Bucket List. I haven't been Ziplining in a lonnng time so I'd really enjoy doing that again.Now, about you~I enjoy my own company, but deeply yearn to connect with someone at the deepest level. If you are a man who is down-to-earth, open-minded/ a free thinker, NON-religious, creative, a gentle soul, takes care of himself, loves nature and being outdoors, knows how to treat a lady, affectionate, passionate, sensual, gives good massages, thoughtful, values family and community, never met a stranger and could talk and listen to anyone about anything, honorable, lives by integrity, loyal, confident, responsible, loves to laugh, intelligent, shares his thoughts and feelings and dreams, thinks deeply but doesn't take life too seriously, maintains and requires open communication, and enjoys cooking, I'd really like to talk with you! If you like to dance and also learn new dance steps, I'm gonna be in "heaven"!Characteristics that are NOT a good match with me: Brusque Neanderthal Sarcastic Insensitive Defensive Impatient Negative Loud Short-temperedQuotes that are meaningful to me:"Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." ~;I won't complain because it doesn't improve matters and, truth be told, no one really wants to hear it anyway." ~ me“Hey. Don’t ever let somebody tell you that you can’t do something. Not even me. All right? You got a dream… You gotta protect it. People can’t do somethin’ themselves, they wanna tell you you can’t do it. If you want somethin’, go get it. Period.” ~;(more to come) Meet somewhere so that we can confirm we are who we claim to be by our pictures LOL, then do something fun. If you're artistic, we could create a work of art together. Maybe meet at one of those pottery studios, or go to one of those bring-your-own-beverage painting classes, etc. If you have Panthers season tickets (hint, hint LOL), take me to a Panthers game! = ) If you like the symphony and plays, that would be fun. Eating is always a good idea: International cuisine is great. I love food from other cultures. Festivals are fun. Ideas for a first date are endless!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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