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Shanel, 48

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About Me

I have been on here a few times...and have listed as nothing serious...the casual dating has gotten old to me, and I'm moving more toward the one on one,...so I'm shifting gears, adjusting my attitude and cutting out the nonsense.I consider myself (not trying to sound arrogant) an amazing partner.% into the relationship, but my cooking isn't very creative, but I can follow a recipe. I'm very affectionate, sensual, and confident in my sexuality.I want a man that is confident, taller than me (I want to wear heels, dance and be able to lay my head on his shoulder without having to stoop) No offense, but just this time around, I know what I want and don't like to feel like an amazon next to my man. I want a man that is not afraid to hold my hand in public, to kiss me for no reason, to love my family, to want to spend time with me, to treat me like a Goddess. Believe me...if I get that...he will know he is loved. I love to take pictures, create memories, and bring joy to others lives, and a lot of times without them knowing who did it. Those Random Senseless Acts of Beauty....If you want to know more, please ask. But please don't ask me a question you don't want answered honestly. I've reached an age that sugar coating things is old, and I don't like drama.... Let's meet at a mutually agreed upon location and determine what best fits. But you can never go wrong with a cup of coffee and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ronnette

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a Petite (5ft)very fit shapely woman, who has her act together. I am honest, reliable, fun-loving, active, secure and have a good sense of humor. Heck I actually like the me I grew up to be!! I can have just a good a time whether I am screaming on a roller coaster or when attending a black-tie affair. I like beaches (summertime truely make me miss the beach!) and make life an adventure as well as, and of course -- all the discoveries that life (and a good relationship) can offer. I DON'T play games and if that is what you want to do ...please do us both a favor and just past on this profile. I am my best with those that are sincere in their intentions. I believe always in making positive changes and new choices. As we enjoy the wondeerful the steamy sultry days of summer***let's be open to finding that something specail in each other and the fun times in store. for us. I know that this is the RIGHT TIME for that special man to enter into my life -- and yes we all know how important timing is Do not respond if this is NOT the right time for you -- if you are raw out of a failed marriage or relationship -- I want to only be with someone who wants the same happiness I seek. YES -- I AM A ROMANTIC BUT STILL KNOW I WANT THE RIGHT MAN -- "not" JUST ANY MAN!! I am interested in a man who is secure enough with himself, that he can be honest and at peace. Someone who is FIT, fun to be with, has a good sense of humor and is not afraid to laugh - especially out loud. Not shy, but definitely not pushy and absolutely NOT CONTROLLING. A man with a sense of style and pancache and has the ability to show it. Can you carry off a tux as well as look cute in shorts??? A man who likes adventure and is willing to not be afraid of the the big "S" word. (SHARE). A man who can tap into the little boy in himself.. but who really is a "grown-up" and CAN handle responsibility. A man who is comfortable with kids ... I have a daughter who is 19 years and now off in college, Heck I'm really an empty nester!. A man who appreciates a women -- and is able to express that. Now --.! Heck -- I'm willing to even drop the slipper or do a Repunzal and let down my hair -- are you willing to Woo ME?? (needy men need NOT apply***A SECURE-- not Self-Centered Man! Who Really KNOWS that he is seeking to meet someone special -- my heart is for You!! The place doesn't matter, as long as we get to talk, laugh, share. 30 minutes to 4 hours -- the time is not an element, the right timing is. In shorts or dressed up, tea or champagne to share -- as long we are getting to know one another finding out what clicks and not wanting to leave when it's time to go (darn is the restaurant really closing already ??). The 1st day is an entry to the 2nd and then the 3rd and hopefully a time when we lose count.Let the 1st time me an entry to one another -- No gaming, misconceptions or BS. Just be yourself as I shall be. I am willing to take this walk with you -- are you as well?

  • Clorinda

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    OK........should finding someone to date actually be this hard? Im very easy to get along with....i work hard...i keep a clean house....i do my laundry....i pay all my own bills....i can cook and i wash dishes...i have 2 of the best dogs a person could ever want!! All i ask is that you are honest...bring the same to the table as i bring. I want to find my best friend...my lover...and my partner for life! I dont want to know what kind of material things you have....its just "things". I want to know what kind of person you are and how you treat others. I want a man who is family oriented too. Also....im not a barbie....if that bothers you....move on.....your too shallow to see whats inside cause you cant get past the outside! Not trying to be ugly but...im accepting of myself...why cant you? Have an awesome day and happy fishing! How about cooking dinner together...watching a movie or just taking a walk and getting to know one another. The first date should be about talking and getting to know that person so you can see if there is a spark for another date!!

  • Kathyrn

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    In general, I am a very fun, happy, self-aware, and content person.I am very close to my family, cherish and nurture my few intimate friendships diligently and carefully, and believe that kindness and compassion are the most important things in any human interaction.I love my job (teaching) because I get to learn something new everyday, interacting with college students keeps me young and informed, I make a difference in the world, and I get to laugh at myself and others just about every day.I have had my share of wonderful and disastrous relationships, but I still believe in happiness. The most important thing I have learned is to be flexible and that nobody is perfect (including me). I want my partner to eventually be my best friend and confidant and want someone in my life with whom I can talk for hours or be comfortable with in total silence.My two most valuable possessions are my camera and my kayak. If I had to give up teaching, I would be content to be a kayaking photographer who sometimes jumped off the water to go hiking or biking.I love to travel but I'm also a homebody. I have been lucky enough to live in France, spend extensive time in the Caribbean, visit my brother in Thailand, and visit ***of the American states. Depends on the weather!Cold weather... nice warm meal at a mom-and-pop or kitschy restaurant. Someplace with character and unique foodWarm weather... walk in the woods or a mellow kayak float. Picnic. Talking, getting to know each other.Hot weather... museum or local activity like live music. Nothing too loud so we can hear each, but something fun we can talk about.And then there are always wineries... good for any weather!

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