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Berta, 46
United States, New Hampshire, Chester

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About Me

At this point in my life, I cannot define how I am unique, as I am still a work in progress, and experiences are pertinent in my molding. I have come to the realization, life is not about the breaths you take, but the moments that take your breath away. I want to be the leading lady in someone's life, not just their best friend. Although, I am aware, a friend is someone whom reaches for your hand, but touches your heart and this is the basis to a lasting relationship. I have learned that everyone can choose to live with someone, or can choose to live with the one they cannot live without, and I choose the latter. I have watched so many people, whom felt the grass may be greener on the other side of the fence, learn, so is the water bill. No one seems to realize, one doesn't fall in love by choice, it's by a chance...No one stays in-love by chance, it's by effort...And no one falls out of love by effort, it's by choice...Be willing to make an effort and commitment to the person you fall in love with, and protect their heart at all cost. Remember, if you can not except someone at their worst, you do not deserve them at their best~ Please do not misunderstand what I am saying....I still love my career, but I am no longer as demanding of myself as I use to be. For yesterday is but a dream, and tomorrow is only a vision...but today well lived, makes every yesterday a dream of happiness and every tomorrow a vision of hope. Still I shoot for the moon, because even if I miss I will be amongst the stars. I now live by these philosophies: Life is short; Break the rules; Forgive quickly; Kiss slowly; Love truly; Laugh uncontrollably; and NEVER regret anything that makes you smile. :) Some of my favorite things to do are traveling (a certified beach bum), movies, camping, and any worthwhile experience, which would never put anyone in peril or in a situation to be arrested. I believe now, the only thing you should plan in life, is to be surprised! I always have fun no matter what I am doing, because as long as I am with good company, lasting memories will be formed. Some other rules by which I live: What other people think of you, is none of your business; Don't take yourself seriously, no one else does; Not to live from the outside in, but to live from the inside out; May you LIVE all the days of your life; It is not the moment the defines your life, but how you define the moment; Learn the power of compromise, for it is better to bend a little than to break; Do not worry when someone is talking about you, just realize it is giving someone else a break; Life may not to be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we should dance; and When life hands you lemons, squirt it in someone's eye and haul butt!! As long as I am with enjoyable company, it really does not matter... :0)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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