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About Me

At this point in my life, I cannot define how I am unique, as I am still a work in progress, and experiences are pertinent in my molding. I have come to the realization, life is not about the breaths you take, but the moments that take your breath away. I want to be the leading lady in someone's life, not just their best friend. Although, I am aware, a friend is someone whom reaches for your hand, but touches your heart and this is the basis to a lasting relationship. I have learned that everyone can choose to live with someone, or can choose to live with the one they cannot live without, and I choose the latter. I have watched so many people, whom felt the grass may be greener on the other side of the fence, learn, so is the water bill. No one seems to realize, one doesn't fall in love by choice, it's by a chance...No one stays in-love by chance, it's by effort...And no one falls out of love by effort, it's by choice...Be willing to make an effort and commitment to the person you fall in love with, and protect their heart at all cost. Remember, if you can not except someone at their worst, you do not deserve them at their best~ Please do not misunderstand what I am saying....I still love my career, but I am no longer as demanding of myself as I use to be. For yesterday is but a dream, and tomorrow is only a vision...but today well lived, makes every yesterday a dream of happiness and every tomorrow a vision of hope. Still I shoot for the moon, because even if I miss I will be amongst the stars. I now live by these philosophies: Life is short; Break the rules; Forgive quickly; Kiss slowly; Love truly; Laugh uncontrollably; and NEVER regret anything that makes you smile. :) Some of my favorite things to do are traveling (a certified beach bum), movies, camping, and any worthwhile experience, which would never put anyone in peril or in a situation to be arrested. I believe now, the only thing you should plan in life, is to be surprised! I always have fun no matter what I am doing, because as long as I am with good company, lasting memories will be formed. Some other rules by which I live: What other people think of you, is none of your business; Don't take yourself seriously, no one else does; Not to live from the outside in, but to live from the inside out; May you LIVE all the days of your life; It is not the moment the defines your life, but how you define the moment; Learn the power of compromise, for it is better to bend a little than to break; Do not worry when someone is talking about you, just realize it is giving someone else a break; Life may not to be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we should dance; and When life hands you lemons, squirt it in someone's eye and haul butt!! As long as I am with enjoyable company, it really does not matter... :0)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marcene

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Thanks for stopping,I'm a kind,caring,outgoing,hard working girl.who is spontaneous,affectionate.compassionate and honest.my interests are the beach,dining in or out ,bowling,tennis, sports,holding hands,movies,concerts,wk end get away's, drives to know where,and like to try new things and.being outside.I do have children and they mean the world to me I love spending time with them when ever I can.now that they are all grown its time for me.I'm having fun and enjoying the simple pleasures in life and all it has to offer.. nothing to crazy drinks,coffee,a walk,dinner,soda pop,your choice,our choice.. lets discuss it..

  • Lissa

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi there. I am independent, so not looking for someone to take care of me just someone to share my time with. I would like someone to go out to eat with or shoot pool, maybe throw some darts, listen to live music and just relax and have fun. I am somewhat sarcastic with a great sense of humor. I like to laugh, you know, that really deep belly laugh. It is contagious. My taste in music varies. I am not a big fan of rap but I like most everything else. I like to walk everyday after work, it clears my head and recharges the battery. I have grown kids and lazy dogs, and a couple of grandkids that give me a workout. I like road trips, short or long and sometimes just the quiet of my back porch. I am learning now that I am not a big fan of the messaging. I think it's easier to meet sooner rather than later, that way you get a better feel for the person. Some people look good on paper, some do better in person. You have to meet eventually, isn't that the point of being on here...to meet people. Dating should be fun and exciting, interesting and thought provoking......it should not become a second job. And most of all.....there should be plenty of laughter. Message me if you are interested, but be prepared to meet. Something simple like a nice walk and good conversation. It seems like a good place to start. Good conversation could lead to drinks or dinner or it can just be a walk.

  • Jennette

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a positive upbeat person who is looking for someone who can hold a conversation, but not dominate it or just grunt his way through it. Must have an sense of adventure and direction in life. I am direct and to the point but will never hurt someone with my honesty. I do not people who and mean or makes a person feel small. I dont mind a social drinker but if you have to have a drink in your hand all the time I am not interested. Looking for someone who can show me around and be adventurous to areas unknown to him. You must be comfortable in a social environment (and not picking up other women while with me) but can also sit comfortably at home watching tv. I am a good listener and like someone who returns the favor.I like cuddling on the sofa watching my favorite shows, Big Bang Theory, NCIS, Criminal Minds, History Channel, old movies and something that will make me laugh. I like a nice night out on the town but just as happy holding hands on the beach or on the sofa.Newly started exploring a healthier life style with food and exercise.If you are a man who has children with several woman and NOT a responsible father dont contact me. If you are shallow and all about you then we have nothing in common. You must have a legitimate job! I am a business woman who owns 3 business and currently looking for a job so I appreciate a good work ethic. I like a man who takes pride in his work regardless of what it is. I appreciate a man who knows how to dress appropriately. If you dont understand your that the waistband of your pants belongs around your waist and not below your butt then we have nothing in common.I like music in the park, a good movie, eating out but also cooking for someone (one of my businesses is in the culinary field)... he also needs to know his way around a kitchen. Must be comfortable around my friends. I will not give them up because I met someone. I am easy going but do not tolerate drama. Life is too short to stress every minute. Love to laugh, love a good conversation, love learning new things.Game playing does not work for me. If you cant be honest about yourself and your life I will figure it out quickly and will not mix words about what I think! First meeting must be casual over coffee or a walk with a minimal investment. Important to know we have something in common before anything else.

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