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Berta, 46
United States, New Hampshire, Chester

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About Me

At this point in my life, I cannot define how I am unique, as I am still a work in progress, and experiences are pertinent in my molding. I have come to the realization, life is not about the breaths you take, but the moments that take your breath away. I want to be the leading lady in someone's life, not just their best friend. Although, I am aware, a friend is someone whom reaches for your hand, but touches your heart and this is the basis to a lasting relationship. I have learned that everyone can choose to live with someone, or can choose to live with the one they cannot live without, and I choose the latter. I have watched so many people, whom felt the grass may be greener on the other side of the fence, learn, so is the water bill. No one seems to realize, one doesn't fall in love by choice, it's by a chance...No one stays in-love by chance, it's by effort...And no one falls out of love by effort, it's by choice...Be willing to make an effort and commitment to the person you fall in love with, and protect their heart at all cost. Remember, if you can not except someone at their worst, you do not deserve them at their best~ Please do not misunderstand what I am saying....I still love my career, but I am no longer as demanding of myself as I use to be. For yesterday is but a dream, and tomorrow is only a vision...but today well lived, makes every yesterday a dream of happiness and every tomorrow a vision of hope. Still I shoot for the moon, because even if I miss I will be amongst the stars. I now live by these philosophies: Life is short; Break the rules; Forgive quickly; Kiss slowly; Love truly; Laugh uncontrollably; and NEVER regret anything that makes you smile. :) Some of my favorite things to do are traveling (a certified beach bum), movies, camping, and any worthwhile experience, which would never put anyone in peril or in a situation to be arrested. I believe now, the only thing you should plan in life, is to be surprised! I always have fun no matter what I am doing, because as long as I am with good company, lasting memories will be formed. Some other rules by which I live: What other people think of you, is none of your business; Don't take yourself seriously, no one else does; Not to live from the outside in, but to live from the inside out; May you LIVE all the days of your life; It is not the moment the defines your life, but how you define the moment; Learn the power of compromise, for it is better to bend a little than to break; Do not worry when someone is talking about you, just realize it is giving someone else a break; Life may not to be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we should dance; and When life hands you lemons, squirt it in someone's eye and haul butt!! As long as I am with enjoyable company, it really does not matter... :0)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Albina from Chester | Woman | 49 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Not a member yet, checking out the site for now. I don't know if I can reply.This isn't so easy for me, and I really have not dated, so I'll start by saying; If you're looking for glitz glam, look no further, I'm not for you. I'm pretty much a jeans, boots or sneakers kinda woman. That isn't to say I don't look hot in high heels and a mini. I do like to dress up.I'm very down to earth, creative and I love the outdoors. The mountains or the beach, whatever nature has to offer, including all animals. I am a giving and caring person, always willing to help.I'm the kind of woman who doesn't mind getting her hands dirty, I love fixing things. If I think I can do it, it's done, from electrical to plumbing, laying tile or whatever. I come complete with a wide selection of tools and a big heart I am willing to share. (and I love my tools) It would be nice to have a second pair of hands around….. (around me, and to complete me)I am very intelligent, funny, passionate, sensual, spontaneous, honest and loyal. Only one man for me.And if you are the ONE, I’ll just say I give a great massage.I am looking for a man who can’t wait to come home to me, wrap his arms around me and kiss my lips, neck, shoulder….. like there is no tomorrow. I love a man that is spontaneous, that is one thing a woman should never have to ask of her man. I want a family man; I want to be the doting wife and mother. I know it sounds corny and old fashioned but I tell it like it is, the way I had hoped it would be.My son needs a friend and a man he can look up to, like a dad, and if you have children, that is a huge plus. My son has asked on many occasions for a sister or brother, under the circumstances the best I could do was to get him a cat. It worked for awhile. I myself have always wanted more than one and if you should happen to have one or more children I would love them as my own. I am a great mother, homemaker and potential wife. I don't believe you would be sorry.I’d also like to mention, I’m a pretty good cook. You’d never know it is heart healthy. I try to stay fit so I managed to transform all that “bad for you” food into something you can enjoy without the guilt. I will admit, there are times when you just have to cheat a little bit. Wouldn't it be nice to whip up a dessert together?I like to exercise and having a partner to work out with would be nice and a lot more fun. So here I am, the end of my rope, online dating, hoping to meet the love of my life. I am not a big dater, so if I don’t get back to you please don’t be hurt. I just can’t date anybody, it’s not me. I am going to be very selective, after all, this will be the first day of the rest of my life, or Our life together.I can only add; for the right man there will be endless, spontaneous passion, filled with hugs and delicious kisses. PS - the pictures are all taken within the year. Don’t take it personal, but if there is no picture I probably won’t reply. I am not picky and I'm sure between the two of us we will come up with something we are both comfortable with.

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  • Marcene from Chester | Woman | 47 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Thanks for stopping,I'm a kind,caring,outgoing,hard working girl.who is spontaneous,affectionate.compassionate and honest.my interests are the beach,dining in or out ,bowling,tennis, sports,holding hands,movies,concerts,wk end get away's, drives to know where,and like to try new things and.being outside.I do have children and they mean the world to me I love spending time with them when ever I can.now that they are all grown its time for me.I'm having fun and enjoying the simple pleasures in life and all it has to offer.. nothing to crazy drinks,coffee,a walk,dinner,soda pop,your choice,our choice.. lets discuss it..

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  • Maura from Chester | Woman | 50 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I truly enjoy meeting new people. I love to entertain whether a ballgame or a dinner party...the more the merrier! I am very outgoing and am willing to try about anything once. I am really looking forward to finding my special someone to laugh with and cry with and to spoil rotten!....althought i would love to have a gentleman to spend the rest of my life with...travel..boating..golf..etc. and i also adore children and pets even though i dont have any of my own. I hope to hear from a nice gentleman that would enjoy being taken care as a lady should do...in turn hope to hear from a gentleman that would like to take care of a lady as she should be taken care of also. I have a wonderful sense of humor...love to laugh and make people laugh...no time for pouting and drama :} I also love fine dining.........Hope to hear from a fun loving gentleman real soon! EAT...DRINK AND BE MERRY!!!!!!!

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