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Kandace, 49

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About Me

I work hard as an ER nurse and night shift clinical coordinator. I love my job,but it is not my life.(it does make me realize how short life can be and to just enjoy every minute of it that you can) My family always comes first. My children are now young adults working and gong to school with my oldest out on her own. No matter how old they are they will always be a priority for me. They are adopted and of different races so if that's not for you pass me on.I am just staring the process of looking for a home to purchase. I really like NJ, well, probably wouldn't have any complaints if someone warmed my car up for me every cold winter morning:) I am patient,easy going,reliable,generous and responsible. Looking for the same in a partner. I'm shy at first,but warm up quickly I can have a slightly warped sense of humor.....blame it on years of ER nursing.I like staying in shape and staying active. I run outside regularly and belong to a gym. LOVE the beach,rainy nights.sleeping in once in a while, Early fall mornings with a good cup of coffee, Halloween,pumpkin picking,apple picking. I love scary movies!! The kind that make you not want to be home alone! I like dressing up and going out for dinner or a drink somewhere out of the way, not too crowded. A place where we can actually hear each other talk and I don't feel like I could be the parent to most of the patrons.Also love casual stay at home times too. I like most types of music and enjoy good local bands. Going to the city is fun on occasion too. I never mind getting a little messy as long as I'm having fun:) Really most things we do are fun in the right company.Also love vacations exotic or different not necessarily the popular all inclusive resorts that are so popular,like stay-cations too they give me a chance to catch up on those things so easily put off, finding new places to explore as well as going to old favorites. So that's pretty much me in a few paragraphs. If interested please have a recent photo..mine are all recentThanks:)DonaPS if you send me more than one *** remember you did and don't copy and paste your lengthy self absorbed intro *** more than once...Thanks:) A cup of coffee, a drink, good conversation that flows easily .... Keep it simple if things work we can have a longer second,third or 100th date:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Celandine

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    In no particular order here are some of the things that really put a smile on my face:- Seeing my son smile- Sunflowers- The anticipation of getting on a plane to a new destination- Knowing that I've made a difference in someone else's day- Feeling the warm sun on my face- Getting a great serve in on the tennis court :***Having quality time with old friends- Feeling energized after a really good workout- Fine cuisine, if pizza is at the top of your favorite foods we probably won't work out- A quality glass of Brunello always works- The sound of the ocean- Getting great tix to a live concert (looking forward to DMB & It's not the location that makes a great first date, it's the conversation that leads to the right connection.

  • Lissa

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi there. I am independent, so not looking for someone to take care of me just someone to share my time with. I would like someone to go out to eat with or shoot pool, maybe throw some darts, listen to live music and just relax and have fun. I am somewhat sarcastic with a great sense of humor. I like to laugh, you know, that really deep belly laugh. It is contagious. My taste in music varies. I am not a big fan of rap but I like most everything else. I like to walk everyday after work, it clears my head and recharges the battery. I have grown kids and lazy dogs, and a couple of grandkids that give me a workout. I like road trips, short or long and sometimes just the quiet of my back porch. I am learning now that I am not a big fan of the messaging. I think it's easier to meet sooner rather than later, that way you get a better feel for the person. Some people look good on paper, some do better in person. You have to meet eventually, isn't that the point of being on here...to meet people. Dating should be fun and exciting, interesting and thought provoking......it should not become a second job. And most of all.....there should be plenty of laughter. Message me if you are interested, but be prepared to meet. Something simple like a nice walk and good conversation. It seems like a good place to start. Good conversation could lead to drinks or dinner or it can just be a walk.

  • Violette

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I'm a single mother whose little fledgling has left the nest to pursue her academic goals. I find myself with time on my hands and I'm looking to make some new friends and have some new adventures. I'd like to find someone to spend time with who shares some of my common interests. I love movies and books, college sports and of course the Colts. I like a variety of music from classic rock to some of the newer country.D. Robb and Janet Evanovich. Anything else you'd like to know, just ask.

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