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Violette, 49

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About Me

I'm a single mother whose little fledgling has left the nest to pursue her academic goals. I find myself with time on my hands and I'm looking to make some new friends and have some new adventures. I'd like to find someone to spend time with who shares some of my common interests. I love movies and books, college sports and of course the Colts. I like a variety of music from classic rock to some of the newer country.D. Robb and Janet Evanovich. Anything else you'd like to know, just ask.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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