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Allyson, 47
United States, New Hampshire, Belmont

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After that many years of 14 hour days balanced with raising 3 kids, I figured I deserved 6 months off - haha! I never realized how many hours are truly in a day to explore and engage and discover until I had so many of them free to work with! Perhaps you may be the one to help me (and us) find ways to fill them!And yes, all of my pictures have been taken within the last ***months. I always win the "guess the age" game at the amusement parks - my kids love me for it -smiles (with a special shout-out to my genes!)I've traveled the world but will be the first to admit I got the luxuries of flying business class for free being married to a major airline pilot for 19 years. That, my dear friends, was the one perk that kept me hanging on for so long, when I probably should have bailed a decade ago! Nothing like a $6K business class round trip to Japan or Thailand for just $18 in taxes !!I believe in the power of laughter and hugs to make life less stressful. You may find me to be a bit of a chatterbox, but I can assure you I never just prattle on about nonsensical stuff....my brain is chock full of information and tidbits I have gleaned over the years from my appetite for knowledge. That sometimes comes in handy like back in ***when I was one of the very first contestants on Who Wants to Be a Millionaire.I workout most days and enjoy not only the energy it gives me, but the positive outlook on life and keeping one step ahead of my chronological age in the health department! Someone to whom their health and physical fitness is important is a big plus with me.- but recognizing the value of getting your body moving and how that contributes to both physical and mental health is important.One of the things I have found most elusive after my last 21 years with a person who couldn't be genuine and vulnerable with me, is, true love. I know that sounds like I am looking for a fairy tale, and that's not it at all. But I have witnessed friends of mine in couples, in both long-and short-term relationships, who display the beautiful give and take, and genuine MUTUAL love and affection, that eluded me all those years. Like Lou Gramm of Foreigner sings " I want to know what love is. I want you to show me..." Are those difficult shoes to fill? Not necessarily....you tell me... Nothing ventured ...nothing gained ... As traditional as a dinner and a movie, or as adventurous as bungee jumping or a day at Universal riding the Hulk Coaster 6 times!A walk on the beach barefoot sounds nice too ....it's as simple or as involved as two people agree it should be ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Techno Tennis
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  • Essence from Belmont | Woman | 47 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    ....I am highly positive, energetic and into the arts. I wake up smiling and talking and I am telling this in my first line because the last two men I have had relationships didn't want me to "talk" to them until after they had been awake for an hour or so...not for me.I am highly organized, intelligent, great cook and into physical fitness. I love all kinds of music with the exclusion of some "old" country, rap and heavy metal.I am over 40 yet still feel in my 30s..am seeking a mate that is not a couch potato.Personal hygene is very important to me and should be within my partner also.I am as comfortable in jeans and a T shirt as I am in an evening gown and heels.Sorry that I don't have more full body shot photos... Head shots were taken October ***..full body December ***.I have raised two beautiful daughters single handily and chose to not date for ten years while I did so...now not to be selfish....but...now it's ME time!I am looking for a "best friend" in my man...not just a lover.I desire a man who appreciates me as much as I do him. Sorry I am not a football fanatic...so if you are looking for someone to hang out at the sports bar...keep looking!First impressions are pretty vital...wouldn't you say? I am a very passionate woman with my man...but for real...before I even meet someone face to face I find it unimpressive to say the least should that person send me sexual innuendos or almost naked pictures of themselves...so please don't waste your effort, that is why they invented ***numbers for, so you can talk dirt with someone you haven't even met. Well for these Men...I got your number86....lol...if your my man I'm both a "sailor and a lady" appropriately does not mean no PDA!...Have a Great time Dating ....All! I think the first "date" or meeting should be at a place such as Starbucks, so if the connection isnt there, it won't be a long drawn out date. If the connection is there it could go on to dinner or whatever, whenever.

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  • Valorie from Belmont | Woman | 46 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    About me…..hmmmm???I have a great outlook on life. Things happen and have happened for a reason. No matter what the situation good or bad….it made me who I am! Like it or not. There should be no such thing as what might have been. I have a very good sense of humor, all be it sarcastic….I can laugh and make those around me laugh. Usually I am the one being laughed at but…that can be fun too I make it easy (lol)! I am very outgoing and love to talk to anyone….rarely find myself in an uncomfortable situation. I consider myself to be confident and independent; I am not looking for someone who has to babysit ME. Trust me I like having my alone time too!!! I can go places and not need the person that I am with to stay right by my side constantly…..besides how can you catch the other person smiling at you across the room like that??? I enjoy doing almost anything….love trying new things and can be adventurous.….. I have 2 teenage children 21 & 17 who, although they are my heartbeat, they continue to amaze and make me nuts on a daily basis.I was married for 18 years and have been divorce for 9What am I looking for?I would like to meet someone who can be my friend at first….I think it has to start there, someone who has goals and plans for their future. Someone who can appreciate the differences in each other and know that you both don’t have to love all of the same things…that is what makes each of us unique. I have read so many profiles that say they don’t want drama and trust me neither do I...but anyone who has been a parent, especially a parent of a teenage knows that on some level there will be drama but it is how you deal with it!!! I am not perfect I have those days when I am grumpy, who doesn’t? But you should never let your attitude affect others around you …..If there is anything that you would like to ask please do. I am not here just for the fun of it. People are unique and not everyone is attracted to everybody. It should not be an insult if you must say thank but no thanks.’t mean that I want you to marry me… (lol) Somthing very simple...coffee, drinks. Something fun and playful...no need to be so serious!!!!

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  • Laurinda from Belmont | Woman | 49 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am looking for an honest, charming, nice man. Someone who likes to laugh and can hold a good conversation. I am too old for head games!! I have been alone for too long for 1 night stand. I am seeking a wonderful companion to share my life. Wow That sounds great!! I am financially independent. I earn a good living, but I am tired to be alone. And you, what are you looking for???Je recherche quelqu'un d'honnete, de gentil, de charmant. Qui aime rire et aime jaser. Je suis trop vieille pour les niaiseries. Ca fait trop longtemps que je suis seule pour les aventures d'un soir. je cherche a trouver un merveilleux compagnon pour partager ma vie, wow!! C'est bien dit ca!!! Je suis independante financierement. Je gagne tres bien ma vie. Et toi, tu cherches quoi?? First date should be no longer than ***minutes.La premiere rencontre ne devrait pas durer plus de ***minutes. Si ca ne clique pas, tu pars sans etre trop embarasser...

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