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About Me

....I am highly positive, energetic and into the arts. I wake up smiling and talking and I am telling this in my first line because the last two men I have had relationships didn't want me to "talk" to them until after they had been awake for an hour or so...not for me.I am highly organized, intelligent, great cook and into physical fitness. I love all kinds of music with the exclusion of some "old" country, rap and heavy metal.I am over 40 yet still feel in my 30s..am seeking a mate that is not a couch potato.Personal hygene is very important to me and should be within my partner also.I am as comfortable in jeans and a T shirt as I am in an evening gown and heels.Sorry that I don't have more full body shot photos... Head shots were taken October ***..full body December ***.I have raised two beautiful daughters single handily and chose to not date for ten years while I did so...now not to be selfish....but...now it's ME time!I am looking for a "best friend" in my man...not just a lover.I desire a man who appreciates me as much as I do him. Sorry I am not a football fanatic...so if you are looking for someone to hang out at the sports bar...keep looking!First impressions are pretty vital...wouldn't you say? I am a very passionate woman with my man...but for real...before I even meet someone face to face I find it unimpressive to say the least should that person send me sexual innuendos or almost naked pictures of themselves...so please don't waste your effort, that is why they invented ***numbers for, so you can talk dirt with someone you haven't even met. Well for these Men...I got your number86....lol...if your my man I'm both a "sailor and a lady" appropriately does not mean no PDA!...Have a Great time Dating ....All! I think the first "date" or meeting should be at a place such as Starbucks, so if the connection isnt there, it won't be a long drawn out date. If the connection is there it could go on to dinner or whatever, whenever.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

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