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Essence, 47

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About Me

....I am highly positive, energetic and into the arts. I wake up smiling and talking and I am telling this in my first line because the last two men I have had relationships didn't want me to "talk" to them until after they had been awake for an hour or so...not for me.I am highly organized, intelligent, great cook and into physical fitness. I love all kinds of music with the exclusion of some "old" country, rap and heavy metal.I am over 40 yet still feel in my 30s..am seeking a mate that is not a couch potato.Personal hygene is very important to me and should be within my partner also.I am as comfortable in jeans and a T shirt as I am in an evening gown and heels.Sorry that I don't have more full body shot photos... Head shots were taken October ***..full body December ***.I have raised two beautiful daughters single handily and chose to not date for ten years while I did so...now not to be selfish....but...now it's ME time!I am looking for a "best friend" in my man...not just a lover.I desire a man who appreciates me as much as I do him. Sorry I am not a football fanatic...so if you are looking for someone to hang out at the sports bar...keep looking!First impressions are pretty vital...wouldn't you say? I am a very passionate woman with my man...but for real...before I even meet someone face to face I find it unimpressive to say the least should that person send me sexual innuendos or almost naked pictures of themselves...so please don't waste your effort, that is why they invented ***numbers for, so you can talk dirt with someone you haven't even met. Well for these Men...I got your number86....lol...if your my man I'm both a "sailor and a lady" appropriately does not mean no PDA!...Have a Great time Dating ....All! I think the first "date" or meeting should be at a place such as Starbucks, so if the connection isnt there, it won't be a long drawn out date. If the connection is there it could go on to dinner or whatever, whenever.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ardelia

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hi! I am a divorced mom of a great daughter who has given me 2 awesome grandchildren. I live a drama free life. I like what all girls like...going out to dinner, live bands, road trips or just staying home cuddling on the couch watching tv. I love bowling...was on a team...now just for fun. I am not a big drinker...but love to have a good time. You probably won't see me at the bar, unless there is entertainment. I am a looking for someone to spend my time with. I would like to start off slow. If you are just looking for a hook-up please lose my information. I listen to classic rock (70's-80's) I love to be on the back off a motorcycle (esp. a Harley). Ive had the same profession for 20 years. I get up very early for work. Please don't ask to "meet up" at 11pm on a work night. Please don't make plans to see me then do a no show/no call. I could be missing out on a great guy. If you are that great guy...say hello and we'll take it from there.

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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  • Valorie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    About me…..hmmmm???I have a great outlook on life. Things happen and have happened for a reason. No matter what the situation good or bad….it made me who I am! Like it or not. There should be no such thing as what might have been. I have a very good sense of humor, all be it sarcastic….I can laugh and make those around me laugh. Usually I am the one being laughed at but…that can be fun too I make it easy (lol)! I am very outgoing and love to talk to anyone….rarely find myself in an uncomfortable situation. I consider myself to be confident and independent; I am not looking for someone who has to babysit ME. Trust me I like having my alone time too!!! I can go places and not need the person that I am with to stay right by my side constantly…..besides how can you catch the other person smiling at you across the room like that??? I enjoy doing almost anything….love trying new things and can be adventurous.….. I have 2 teenage children 21 & 17 who, although they are my heartbeat, they continue to amaze and make me nuts on a daily basis.I was married for 18 years and have been divorce for 9What am I looking for?I would like to meet someone who can be my friend at first….I think it has to start there, someone who has goals and plans for their future. Someone who can appreciate the differences in each other and know that you both don’t have to love all of the same things…that is what makes each of us unique. I have read so many profiles that say they don’t want drama and trust me neither do I...but anyone who has been a parent, especially a parent of a teenage knows that on some level there will be drama but it is how you deal with it!!! I am not perfect I have those days when I am grumpy, who doesn’t? But you should never let your attitude affect others around you …..If there is anything that you would like to ask please do. I am not here just for the fun of it. People are unique and not everyone is attracted to everybody. It should not be an insult if you must say thank but no thanks.’t mean that I want you to marry me… (lol) Somthing very simple...coffee, drinks. Something fun and playful...no need to be so serious!!!!

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