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Essence, 47

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About Me

....I am highly positive, energetic and into the arts. I wake up smiling and talking and I am telling this in my first line because the last two men I have had relationships didn't want me to "talk" to them until after they had been awake for an hour or so...not for me.I am highly organized, intelligent, great cook and into physical fitness. I love all kinds of music with the exclusion of some "old" country, rap and heavy metal.I am over 40 yet still feel in my 30s..am seeking a mate that is not a couch potato.Personal hygene is very important to me and should be within my partner also.I am as comfortable in jeans and a T shirt as I am in an evening gown and heels.Sorry that I don't have more full body shot photos... Head shots were taken October ***..full body December ***.I have raised two beautiful daughters single handily and chose to not date for ten years while I did so...now not to be selfish....but...now it's ME time!I am looking for a "best friend" in my man...not just a lover.I desire a man who appreciates me as much as I do him. Sorry I am not a football fanatic...so if you are looking for someone to hang out at the sports bar...keep looking!First impressions are pretty vital...wouldn't you say? I am a very passionate woman with my man...but for real...before I even meet someone face to face I find it unimpressive to say the least should that person send me sexual innuendos or almost naked pictures of themselves...so please don't waste your effort, that is why they invented ***numbers for, so you can talk dirt with someone you haven't even met. Well for these Men...I got your number86....lol...if your my man I'm both a "sailor and a lady" appropriately does not mean no PDA!...Have a Great time Dating ....All! I think the first "date" or meeting should be at a place such as Starbucks, so if the connection isnt there, it won't be a long drawn out date. If the connection is there it could go on to dinner or whatever, whenever.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Caron

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    ok SO here I am again let begin by saying no guys you cant come over my house on the first date and no booty calls at 2 am....so that being said ...I love goin to the lake and now that summer is almost over the mountains it will be ...im stuck in the 80s so any concerts that come to town I like to try to go....I really don't like the bar scene but I like to play pool once in a while so I will hang out occasionally at bars ...I work grave yard and raise my 12 yr son by myself so I don't really have a lot of time so I need some one with patience, coffee ...something simple

  • Valorie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    About me…..hmmmm???I have a great outlook on life. Things happen and have happened for a reason. No matter what the situation good or bad….it made me who I am! Like it or not. There should be no such thing as what might have been. I have a very good sense of humor, all be it sarcastic….I can laugh and make those around me laugh. Usually I am the one being laughed at but…that can be fun too I make it easy (lol)! I am very outgoing and love to talk to anyone….rarely find myself in an uncomfortable situation. I consider myself to be confident and independent; I am not looking for someone who has to babysit ME. Trust me I like having my alone time too!!! I can go places and not need the person that I am with to stay right by my side constantly…..besides how can you catch the other person smiling at you across the room like that??? I enjoy doing almost anything….love trying new things and can be adventurous.….. I have 2 teenage children 21 & 17 who, although they are my heartbeat, they continue to amaze and make me nuts on a daily basis.I was married for 18 years and have been divorce for 9What am I looking for?I would like to meet someone who can be my friend at first….I think it has to start there, someone who has goals and plans for their future. Someone who can appreciate the differences in each other and know that you both don’t have to love all of the same things…that is what makes each of us unique. I have read so many profiles that say they don’t want drama and trust me neither do I...but anyone who has been a parent, especially a parent of a teenage knows that on some level there will be drama but it is how you deal with it!!! I am not perfect I have those days when I am grumpy, who doesn’t? But you should never let your attitude affect others around you …..If there is anything that you would like to ask please do. I am not here just for the fun of it. People are unique and not everyone is attracted to everybody. It should not be an insult if you must say thank but no thanks.’t mean that I want you to marry me… (lol) Somthing very simple...coffee, drinks. Something fun and playful...no need to be so serious!!!!

  • Lester

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a very sensitive person. I put alot of trust in people. I think a couple should be just friends first. Then see where it takes you. I live a very low maintenance life. I like understanding people and trustworthy people. I like people with a good sence of humor also. Someone to make me laugh. Have a cup of coffee and a long meaningful talk with. The four things in life I love the most is in order: The Lord. My kids. The ocean. And Music. In my status questions it asks if i want more children, I personally will not be having more, but i would not mind at all if i date a man that already has children. I would like to let everyone interested know ahead of time that I have severe copd. I get very winded when I walk very much, so I try to keep it down to a slow stroll. I love to laugh, love watching children play,and love good conversation. I don't play any sports for obvious reasons, but i love to watch some of them. Would love to go to a WVU game sometime. Go Steelers!! lol. And last but not least, if you're looking "JUST"for sex, please move on. If you would like to chat, just let me know. Everyone who takes the time to read this, have a great day!P.S. I think goat-tee's on a man is sexy as heck! My first meeting with someone is to usually go somewhere to have coffee and talk. Then if we decide to see each other again we could go eat at a nice restaurant or go see a movie. Sorry, but most of the profiles i've read says, "Let's take a long walk and talk and get to know each other." Well, I can't do this so how about we stick to having coffee and sitting. lol. Communication is the key to any relationship so let me know how you feel about our first get together. Oh yeah, there must be lot's of laughter going on also! lol. You have a really great day and thanks for reading my profile.

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