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Melva, 49

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About Me

I am a soft spoken sweet friendly spiritual woman who is serious about life but likes to laugh. I like to try new things. I have 2 kids who are grown so Im ready to play. I own my own home. I've been divorced for a year. I am looking to find someone who is down to earth and is easy to talk to once we get to know each other! I am easy to get to know. I am honest and sincere. I like to go out to dinner or for a beer at a bar or to a coffee shop. I like to stay home and "cuddle" on the couch with a movie. I like to cook dinner and have a glass of merlot! I like to go for walks in the metro parks. I am a hard worker. I work hard at my job! I don't play mind games. I have old friends and new friends! I make friends easily. Do you want to be my friend and maybe more? To meet for the first time I would like to meet at the mall. Or Starbucks or a small restaurant! Talk about what you're looking for in someone special.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Willene

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    The income slot on the profile is incorrect. Its not how much you have, but what you do with it. I'm very laid back know what I want and what I don't. I know my truth. I know Gods truth. I never judge for someone's truth being different from mine but I won't compromise my fundamental beliefs and would never desire someone else to compromise theirs. With that being said, compromise is important in life. Emotional availability is a must. A daily intimate relationship with God is a must. I'm expressive and passionate, dramatic in personality at times but I don't "do drama" Ugh. Pls. No drama.I love health and fitness. Just getting back into a more serious regimen after about a year on hiatus. Its a lifestyle for me, My partner will have the same discipline in exercise nutrition and an overall balanced lifestyle. If you're not fit Im not the girl for you. And if you think I say that solely based on the superficial, I'm DEFINITELY not the girl for you. I understand fit is relative, so to be VERY CLEAR- BODY BUILDER FIT is what a GOOD MATCH for ME is. Time is precious, I respect yours, don't waste mine.If you understand that a strong confident woman can also know, desire, and live in the place where God has placed her as a woman, than we should say hello. One of the best pieces of advice I have ever heard is to "watch what people say, and listen to what they do, And believe who they show you they are- the first time.""A woman's heart should be so lost in God, that a man must seek Him in order to find her"Happy fishing everyone!

  • Cheyanne

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a fun spontaneous person who likes to laugh. I like most people, have containable baggage and I am looking for the same in someone else. I have lots of friends and a variety of interests. I appreciate nature and like to hike and bike and would like to go camping again because I feel like I haven't done that nearly enough. I am not an adventure junkie but do like to get out and about, meet new people and visit places I have never been. I like simple things like Sunday morning visits to the farmers market, a front porch swing during a hell bending thunderstorm and day trips along blue highways with no particular destination in mind. I like scrabble, the sunday crossword and bloody marys but not necessarily in that order.I appreciate people that have raised children and understand the sacrifices and joys that come with parenting. Prefer someone that is kind, responsible and has an open mind and empathetic heart. I like to laugh out loud at stupid jokes and have been known to tell a few myself. The definition of masculinity for me is not a motorcycle as tolerance, patience and humor trump all toys. Interested in a normal guy that is a gentleman who can make me laugh until I cry. I think meeting for a drink in the evening or coffee on a lazy Sunday morning (after the crossword) could be fun.

  • Luanna

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello,Not sure I have anything that makes me unique, I'm just like everyone else. I work Monday - Friday, live with my dog, spend too much time sitting in front of the computer. I enjoy most sports (spectator now but I used to play many), reading, puzzles, movies, almost all music (classic, country, classic rock, almost any except rap), walks in the woods, adventures, motorcycles, random visits/phone calls, and my time on the computer. If you want to know more about me, stop and say hello! I am looking for someone to just hang out with. Someone to go to dinner and a movie with, take a walk along a creek or through the woods, go to the fair (season permitting), take a day trip (find a new diner/shop), or just hang out at home and play board/card games. I can cook, but hate doing it just for myself.I am HONEST to a fault and appreciate the same in my friends. I love sarcasm, maybe too much. Yea, I keep wanting to add to this .... if you are only looking for "friends with benefits", a "kinky hook up", or well, you get the picture.... that is not me. I am not looking for any serious relationship, but I am not looking to be a sex partner on the first date either. I'm truly looking for someone that wants to have some fun, not eat alone every night, and maybe have someone that is there to listen........I keep busy, but am mostly a homebody, which makes it difficult to meet friends.***, so guess you can still say I'm "new" to the area. Work, mom and the dog keep me pretty busy, but friendship/companionship is missing.UPDATE 19 October ***IF YOU ARE MARRIED, I will find out, so don't bother telling me you aren't and thinking I'll never know. IF you are under the age of 45, I am not interested, sorry, but I'm not. If you lie to me once, I'll block you, just being upfront and honest about it.I was recently asked by someone what my "perfect guy" would 1) look like and 2) be like. Wow, are those tough questions to answer! But, thought I'd try to tackle them...1) He would need to be about ***. I'd look for someone taller than 5' 7";. As far as the hair, well he could have long hair, short hair, or no hair, that doesn't really matter to me. Red, black, brown or blonde hair, short/long/none does not the man make. Weight, well, again, not a huge issue to me as long as it is a healthy, proportionate weight. People come in many shapes/sizes and again, weight does not the man make. I'm not so into tattoos, but I don't hate them either. A few would not be a "deal breaker". Facial hair -- not so into full beards, but goatees are cool, mustaches (maintained) are good, and clean shaven works too!!!2) The important part is how he acts.... so, to keep it simple, here are some thoughts on that..... HONEST, trustworthy, funny, sarcastic, adventurous, supportive, kind, and a little quirky are all some things that I look at. I want someone who is okay with who he is and will be okay with who I am.And finally, as my profile states -- I am a smoker, if this bothers you, don't write and tell me that if I quit, you'll date me, cause I won't and you can't!!Blessed be and have a great day! A decision best decided on by both people. I can list many different types of first dates that would be interesting, but a first encounter would be in a public locale, something that is non-stressful -- let's go grab a Chipotle burrito bowl, a polar pop, and hang out by the water....

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