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Felina, 48
United States, Nebraska, Seward

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About Me

I love life, my children, my family, and my friends. I'm a very happy person who can have a good time wherever I go. I believe every situation is what you make of it! The true test of someone's character is not what happens to you in life, but how you choose to handle it. I am a very honest, trustworthy, loyal, generous, affectionate and loving person. I have a great sense of humor....what can I say, I'm perfect like everyone seems to be on dating sites! I am looking for someone that I connect with and we can start an honest relationship filled with laughter, communication and closeness. I am not interested in finding someone to seek to change them. I think to have a truly successful relationship with someone you have to accept all things about that person and vice versa! I love trying new things. I love anything to do with the water and being outside. I'm hoping to meet someone optimistic, with a great outlook on life. With two kids, two jobs, a house, dogs, etc., I have a very busy lifestyle and find it difficult to meet new people. So, I thought I would try this route because I'm curious where "40 somethings"! What can you really say in a paragraph about yourself, except that I think chemistry is really all that matters and if I could explain that I'd be a billionaire! Your profiles can match exactly and that doesn't mean a darn thing. In fact, most of the time opposites attract. It's just that feeling you get when you see someone. It can't be described, but we all know it and are here in search of it! The spark! I was a Navy submarine wife for 17 years, so I know how to be independent. That doesn't mean I don't want a man who holds my hand to lead me into a room and remembers to open my car door from time to time, etc. I also don't need a father figure, I already have the best dad in the world! And no, my children don't need a father either, they have a dad who loves them and lives nearby. I coached junior Olympic competitive gymnastics for 10 years and I really love working with kids, it's the greatest pleasure to coach kids and help them meet their goals! It's such a thrill. I really miss it, but I am thoroughly enjoying my free time! I love concerts, baseball games, pretty much any kind of social activity. I'm a big Yankees fan (sorry, but they do have the cutest players). I love cooking and entertaining, especially in the summer at my pool with friends and margaritas! Call me old fashioned, but I like it when the man plans the date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Rock Museums Music German Thai Fantasy Sci-Fi
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a very strong, independant woman. Although I have a sweet, soft side. I am very playful and generous. Being a former military nurse, I have seen quite a lot, so I have so much appreciation for the simple and good things that life has to offer. If I could wake up everyday and laugh, then it's a great day. Absolutely love music, anything from BB King to Steely Dan to Vivaldi (can't get enough) Looking for a man with a playful spirit, who loves life. Come make me laugh! surprise me

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  • Luanna from Seward | Woman | 49 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello,Not sure I have anything that makes me unique, I'm just like everyone else. I work Monday - Friday, live with my dog, spend too much time sitting in front of the computer. I enjoy most sports (spectator now but I used to play many), reading, puzzles, movies, almost all music (classic, country, classic rock, almost any except rap), walks in the woods, adventures, motorcycles, random visits/phone calls, and my time on the computer. If you want to know more about me, stop and say hello! I am looking for someone to just hang out with. Someone to go to dinner and a movie with, take a walk along a creek or through the woods, go to the fair (season permitting), take a day trip (find a new diner/shop), or just hang out at home and play board/card games. I can cook, but hate doing it just for myself.I am HONEST to a fault and appreciate the same in my friends. I love sarcasm, maybe too much. Yea, I keep wanting to add to this .... if you are only looking for "friends with benefits", a "kinky hook up", or well, you get the picture.... that is not me. I am not looking for any serious relationship, but I am not looking to be a sex partner on the first date either. I'm truly looking for someone that wants to have some fun, not eat alone every night, and maybe have someone that is there to listen........I keep busy, but am mostly a homebody, which makes it difficult to meet friends.***, so guess you can still say I'm "new" to the area. Work, mom and the dog keep me pretty busy, but friendship/companionship is missing.UPDATE 19 October ***IF YOU ARE MARRIED, I will find out, so don't bother telling me you aren't and thinking I'll never know. IF you are under the age of 45, I am not interested, sorry, but I'm not. If you lie to me once, I'll block you, just being upfront and honest about it.I was recently asked by someone what my "perfect guy" would 1) look like and 2) be like. Wow, are those tough questions to answer! But, thought I'd try to tackle them...1) He would need to be about ***. I'd look for someone taller than 5' 7";. As far as the hair, well he could have long hair, short hair, or no hair, that doesn't really matter to me. Red, black, brown or blonde hair, short/long/none does not the man make. Weight, well, again, not a huge issue to me as long as it is a healthy, proportionate weight. People come in many shapes/sizes and again, weight does not the man make. I'm not so into tattoos, but I don't hate them either. A few would not be a "deal breaker". Facial hair -- not so into full beards, but goatees are cool, mustaches (maintained) are good, and clean shaven works too!!!2) The important part is how he acts.... so, to keep it simple, here are some thoughts on that..... HONEST, trustworthy, funny, sarcastic, adventurous, supportive, kind, and a little quirky are all some things that I look at. I want someone who is okay with who he is and will be okay with who I am.And finally, as my profile states -- I am a smoker, if this bothers you, don't write and tell me that if I quit, you'll date me, cause I won't and you can't!!Blessed be and have a great day! A decision best decided on by both people. I can list many different types of first dates that would be interesting, but a first encounter would be in a public locale, something that is non-stressful -- let's go grab a Chipotle burrito bowl, a polar pop, and hang out by the water....

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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