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ok lets see.......well i am a very passionate person and i dont just mean SEX lol. i am a very strong woman but also have a very....very tender heart. i have been a widow for 4 years and i HATE dating so far. i have had a few relationships but honestly i think i may be too picky. some say i am but i dont think i am. all i ask for is someone who likes me for who i am....not just for my good points but for my imperfections as well and an honest man who does what he says and says what he means. i may be a strong woman but i really want a take charge kinda man. i think thats what i need :)i love to cook and have been told that i am very good at it. cakes pies cookies and candy are my fav thing to make but i also make a very mean pot of red beans rice and make the BEST cornbread ever.i work at a bar 3 nights a week setting up and running the karaoke. i like a good cold beer every now and then but dont drink when i am at work. working the hrs i do make it hard on my dating life but i really enjoy my job. i am also a substitute teacher and enjoy that job as well.i have one son who is 19 now and pretty much on his own. he will always be my baby but he is grown now. so its my turn again.i do enjoy watching some sports. depending on who is playing i like to watch a football or baseball game, i also like nascar but dont get to watch as much i use to. i love going to the mountains especially in the fall or early spring. im not much of a water person because i have great fear of the water. i will get in a pool or with the right person whom i trust i will get in the ocean or maybe a creek or even on a boat.i dont know why i have such a fear of it i just do.if u wanna know more than just ask.if all u want is naughty talk and naughty pics than please......dont bother me. i am worth more than that.my son just moved out of my house so im kinda going thru the empty nest syndrome. grrrrrr its killing me but i will survive. he had been my only focus for 19 yrs so i dont really know what to do with myself now. it all depends on the man but dinner would be nice or maybe a game of pool and a cold beer. im shoot pretty good for a girl.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Vega

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm a small town girl with pretty simple dreams and desires. I work long hours and I've been single for quite awhile. I really miss having someone to talk with, laugh with, and share things with. I enjoy casual activities where I can be myself. I still hunt easter eggs with my grandchildren, ride rollercoasters, and occasionally play in the rain. I used to love spending time at the river and such as that, but it's been a very long time since I've had the opportunity. I wouldn't mind trying the zip-lining thing...looks like a rush.I enjoy gardening, photography, anything involving nature, and animals. I rescue animals so I always have several around. You don't have to be involved with them, but it would help if you like animals. The sounds of nature are like music to my soul. The wind, birds singing, a running stream, sounds of rain on the roof. There is a peace in that, something I have never found anywhere else. Flea markets, yard sales and such can be fun. I have found some beautiful things and very unique items. Not necessarily worth anything, but beautiful all the same. I like classic rock music, some country, some gospel. But rap music can seriously put me in a bad mood. I've been listening to "Daughtry" a lot lately. I like movies with heart. And I like to watch them with someone who has a heart. Also love horror, comedy and action. I just forced my best friend to see "The Conjuring" with me. I will never sleep with my feet uncovered again! I read a lot....everything from romance to horror.What I'm looking for? I'm not sure I know. But I'll know when I find it. Someone who knows the meaning of loyalty and responsibility. Someone who can have fun, laugh...even at himself, doesn't expect too much too soon, and can give as much as he receives. If I viewed your profile and didn't message you, it could mean that I don't think YOU would be interested in ME. Either because of age, distance, etc. If that isn't the case, give me a shout.Can't think of anything else right now, maybe later. If you want to know anything just ask. Sorry most of my photos have family in them. I'm usually the one taking the photos, so not many of myself. Besides that I am completely non-photogenic. I don't enjoy the bar scene or big crowds, but I do love live music, so.....conundrum. I don't care if it's sitting on the porch drinking iced tea, I'm not hard to please. I don't need a fancy dinner, just buy me some ice cream and take me to the park or the zoo.

  • Hilde

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I don't want anything inappropriate. I work as a professional. I don't do drugs or smoke and don't want anyone that does. If you don't have your priorities straight and know what is important in life, please leave me alone. I believe that God, family, and friends, are more important than work. I'm honest and hard working and expect the same in return.I believe that being healthy means eating right, exercising and practicing healthy habits. I don't expect the men I date to be body builders, just be healthy. Mental health is also important to me. It all boils down to loving and taking care of yourself so that you can be a good partner!My family is very diverse. I have relatives from many different ethnicities and many different Christian back grounds. I'm used to being around people who don't follow the crowds and march to a beat of their own. My kids are all grown up. One lives out of state. The other two are back at home temporarily trying to save up money, times are tough! I like Christian rock, classic rock, country, jazz, and just about anything live. I am open to people who are non traditional but, okay with traditional, if that's what you prefer. I'm easy to get along with and very flexible as long as I'm not being taken advantage of.Sorry, I've had to add this because of some very rude pushy and scary men on this site......Please do not contact me if you are looking for a date this weekend. Please, give it some time! Anyone interested should be patient enough to have an online conversation over a period of weeks if that's what it takes. I will meet you for coffee if you have good communication skills. I don't get along well with pushy people who want what they want, and want it now! I work a lot, weekends included, and have many responsibilities and can't afford to give up my time unless you are serious about you want. I'm not here to play games. I'm here to find my soul mate! Just meet for coffee at the mall or hike around town/beach.

  • Clarissa

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I know who I am and know what I want from a relationship. I am honest and funny. I'm shy at first but once I know you watch out. I love to be around people and to have fun. I listen to country music but do listen to other music as long as its not rap. I love to be affectionate and I love some one to cuddle with me. Going out to dinner or a movie or a music concert. I do expect to be treated like the woman I am. If you have suggestions on dates just ask I will consider it.

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