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Alfredia, 49

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I was born and raised in St. Louis, have 2 grown daughters. I live in a nice home in a nice area. I work and love my job. I have a dog, and my youngest daughter has a dog (they live with me). I love kids and animals, just in case you have one or the other!. blue others.. I love to laugh and I live my life with appreciation of the beauty around me.; fresh cut grass; rain; snow; burning leaves; crisp fall air.. I love seeing fog on water and hearing crickets and whipporwils, Taking a long drive on a country road or flying cross country and watching out the window the entire trip. Life is about loving every moment and working through the tough times... not battling and making things more difficult than they should be ... at this point in life it is about the motto don't sweat the small stuff! Each day is a new day start it like there is no tomorrow ... live it!I work for a non-profit as a data analyst. Goal in life, retirement! I love music, almost any kind, rock, oldies, jazz, country, 70's & 80's, I do not care for rap, at all!!!I love movies, I am not sure that I like scary movies too much though!!I really don't like writing these things, would rather just talk about what you would like to know. Drinks, coffee, appetizer talking, something simple ... that way if you have to make a quick exit it is okay :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mã„Dchen

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am looking for a man who has been through challenging times in his life and has become a better person because of it. Our past makes us who we are today. Someone who's going to fight back, not give up. Someone who looks at the good in people and the positives in life. I am looking for someone who I have a connection with. On that note I prefer someone that is average/athletic. Why? ... Because I feel that those type will fit my lifestyle. I'm not super active; I enjoy snuggling on the couch and watching tv; but I also like to go out and do things, whether it's dancing, shooting pool, working out or just sitting around a bonfire. I want the man that takes care of his body inside and out, who has insight and wisdom of life. Respect is vital and essential to a great relationship. Communication is important to me even when the topic is uncomfortable; I am a great listener, compassionate and wear my heart on my sleeve. Humor is also at the top of my list; if you make me laugh, I'm having a great time :) Honesty, a willing to learn, a sexual and passionate side, deep conversations and loyalty are also very important. Sex is awesome, but that's the easy part. The hard part is finding the one that completes you, finding that twin flame, finding the one that 'gets you' and loves you, even the unattractive parts of you. While I don't attend church, my faith is more of a spiritual path and I am a believer of karma. Treat people how you want to be treated. My 3 children are a big part of my life and expect you to invite them into your world as I would your children. I am very family oriented, love family gatherings!I enjoy doing many fun things and am willing to try new things. I am very passionate about music, it's therapeutic for me, always have it playing where ever I am. I love to sing with music, not sure how I sound, so if I do that, just smile and let me have my fun :) I take pleasure in attention, affection, flirting and playfulness with my man, when the relationship is at that point. Fun and laughter is so needed in a relationship! Just because I'm trying to get into a car that's not mine is no reason to get upset, laugh about it! It's funny! Yes, that did happen to me on a first date. LOL. We can workout together and push each other to do more than we think we can. Encouragement. Let's go dancing so that we can hold each other. I am a very passionate and 'touchy' person. I like to touch, whether it's holding hands, a foot rub or just touching your arm as I walk by you.Looking for a friend first and see where it goes from there. We all want our 'best friend', right? Lunch or dinner with conversation would be great. Openness and conversation is a must in a relationship.I am aware that I am less than some people prefer me to be. But most people are unaware that I am so much more than what they see.

  • Claudette

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    .... "mine would be you."Hello... ** Update: as of ***~ I have been smoke free for 10 days! Yay me!!Probably my biggest caveat is that I am somewhat shy, to start with. I can be a little on the quiet side until I have a sense of who I am dealing with. lol. If that would bother you, then I'm probably not worth your time. It is part of who I am and not likely to change anytime soon. However, with that said, if you don't really take the time to get to know a person, and allow them to reveal their "layers" to you, then you will have no true idea what treasures lie beneath the surface!... btw, quiet does not mean not fun!!Here are my top reasons I would be your best "girlfriend" ever:~ You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public. I am no fashion-model and never will be, but I still take pride in how I look. No sweatpants and slippers going out in public… unless it’s 11 o’clock at night and I’m going to Walmart by myself, where I’d blend in anyway. =P~ You will be proud of me on the home front. I enjoy helping you with projects around the house and yard, and don’t mind getting sweaty and dirty. It all comes off in the shower anyway, so I can pretty myself up again. ~ I desire to support you in your dreams and goals. ~ I will be respectful and supportive of "you" time.~ I will do my best not to nag and complain… try to keep small stuff, small stuff. ~ I will do my best to never roll my eyes at you, because I will respect you and your feelings and opinions. Maybe not agree, but respect. ~ You can trust that I will be honest with you. Always. ~ Our personal life is just that, personal. I won't be sharing every detail with my girlfriends. ...except the amazing things about you, of course!~ You will see my smile much more than my frown. =D Yes, I have my days, but life is meant to be happy and fun. Just don't be my reason to not smile. ~ I am the primary source of my own happiness. Sure, I want that giddy happiness that comes from falling and being in love. Why wouldn’t I want someone who “makes” me happy and affirms that to me?? But in the end, I am more responsible for my own happiness than you are. You are just a bonus… icing on the cake. ~ You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times and in unexpected places. ~ If I commit my heart to you and yours to mine, you will never have to guess how I feel. When we have made that commitment, I will make it a priority to show you, not just tell you or expect you to know. You will rarely hear the words, “I’m not in the mood.” =) Nuf said.~ The top reason: I want to share my heart and soul with the "one" I love!I am adding the "disclaimer" that I am a work in progress. I am not perfect... just like you are not. I have my insecurities and vulnerabilities the same as anyone else, and ask that you be the type who can be accepting of them and loving someone UNCONDITIONALLY. ...And not have some silly, preconceived notion that a couple should be able to communicate without ever having disagreement or seeing totally eye to eye, etc.; or have a "cookie cutter" outlook on what the ideal person should be like! I get that we have our "expectations" or "requirements" that we are looking for, but you have to be somewhat open to seeing who a person is and where they are "at." Love means accepting someone where they are and being willing to work on and talk about the things you disagree about. You may possibly come to see things my way and vice versa... or maybe not! But if that person loves you anyway, and is willing to move heaven and earth to be with you and make things work... that's what matters!! I have taken a huge self-assessment of the things I could have done better in my marriage and in my personal life and have done my best to improve myself and what I can bring to a relationship. And I continue... one step at a time; putting one foot in front of the other... moving into the future, leaving the past where it belongs, behind me. Please be ready to leave your past behind you, too! I may not be all dazzle and sparkle, but I AM bright, I am real and I am me: A loving and caring woman who wants to give her best for you and to you and love YOU unconditionally... and desire to let you know "there is no one better out there for me!"A woman will go hard for a man she cares about ...But even harder for a man she knows cares about her ...Pow!! And she drops the mic!!!Thank you for stopping by... Wishing YOU an amazing day! =) Open for discussion, but I really like a guy to take the lead in that... tells a bit more about you in seeing what you come up with; how you "take charge."

  • Kathyrn

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hola! Bonjour! Hello! Just a sample of the languages I am able to handle. I love my two dogs. I am fun to be with but can get serious when needed. I am affecionate and expect the same.!!!'. If you have issues expressing affection, then stop reading this profile and walk away. Of course it has to happen with the right person. I have this thing for beard/gotee. I love life. It has taught me soooooo many lessons. I am a happy person. Laugh a lot and love to sing. Had my first kareoke experience this summer. Soooo much fun. I listen to 99.9, 98.1, as well as classical music when in the mood. I sing Opera in the shower and at work. I enjoy singing. I hope you and I have something in common and are able to sit over coffee and talk about it. Let it be clear that if you are looking for a "one night stand" I am NOT. So, don't contact me if that is your motive. Someone recently asked me if I liked red roses, I replied......red roses are nice but Orange/yellow border roses are Unique!!! My favorite. I came to know (by a caring individual) that they are called Tropicana Roses Of course I have freckles; am a REAL REDHEAD. The rest, well, they are just copy cats!!! ;-) Wowwww it's like the first day of school. You know you are there but don't know what to expect. Let's play it by ear.

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