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Claudette, 47
United States, Nebraska, Plattsmouth

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.... "mine would be you."Hello... ** Update: as of ***~ I have been smoke free for 10 days! Yay me!!Probably my biggest caveat is that I am somewhat shy, to start with. I can be a little on the quiet side until I have a sense of who I am dealing with. lol. If that would bother you, then I'm probably not worth your time. It is part of who I am and not likely to change anytime soon. However, with that said, if you don't really take the time to get to know a person, and allow them to reveal their "layers" to you, then you will have no true idea what treasures lie beneath the surface!... btw, quiet does not mean not fun!!Here are my top reasons I would be your best "girlfriend" ever:~ You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public. I am no fashion-model and never will be, but I still take pride in how I look. No sweatpants and slippers going out in public… unless it’s 11 o’clock at night and I’m going to Walmart by myself, where I’d blend in anyway. =P~ You will be proud of me on the home front. I enjoy helping you with projects around the house and yard, and don’t mind getting sweaty and dirty. It all comes off in the shower anyway, so I can pretty myself up again. ~ I desire to support you in your dreams and goals. ~ I will be respectful and supportive of "you" time.~ I will do my best not to nag and complain… try to keep small stuff, small stuff. ~ I will do my best to never roll my eyes at you, because I will respect you and your feelings and opinions. Maybe not agree, but respect. ~ You can trust that I will be honest with you. Always. ~ Our personal life is just that, personal. I won't be sharing every detail with my girlfriends. ...except the amazing things about you, of course!~ You will see my smile much more than my frown. =D Yes, I have my days, but life is meant to be happy and fun. Just don't be my reason to not smile. ~ I am the primary source of my own happiness. Sure, I want that giddy happiness that comes from falling and being in love. Why wouldn’t I want someone who “makes” me happy and affirms that to me?? But in the end, I am more responsible for my own happiness than you are. You are just a bonus… icing on the cake. ~ You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times and in unexpected places. ~ If I commit my heart to you and yours to mine, you will never have to guess how I feel. When we have made that commitment, I will make it a priority to show you, not just tell you or expect you to know. You will rarely hear the words, “I’m not in the mood.” =) Nuf said.~ The top reason: I want to share my heart and soul with the "one" I love!I am adding the "disclaimer" that I am a work in progress. I am not perfect... just like you are not. I have my insecurities and vulnerabilities the same as anyone else, and ask that you be the type who can be accepting of them and loving someone UNCONDITIONALLY. ...And not have some silly, preconceived notion that a couple should be able to communicate without ever having disagreement or seeing totally eye to eye, etc.; or have a "cookie cutter" outlook on what the ideal person should be like! I get that we have our "expectations" or "requirements" that we are looking for, but you have to be somewhat open to seeing who a person is and where they are "at." Love means accepting someone where they are and being willing to work on and talk about the things you disagree about. You may possibly come to see things my way and vice versa... or maybe not! But if that person loves you anyway, and is willing to move heaven and earth to be with you and make things work... that's what matters!! I have taken a huge self-assessment of the things I could have done better in my marriage and in my personal life and have done my best to improve myself and what I can bring to a relationship. And I continue... one step at a time; putting one foot in front of the other... moving into the future, leaving the past where it belongs, behind me. Please be ready to leave your past behind you, too! I may not be all dazzle and sparkle, but I AM bright, I am real and I am me: A loving and caring woman who wants to give her best for you and to you and love YOU unconditionally... and desire to let you know "there is no one better out there for me!"A woman will go hard for a man she cares about ...But even harder for a man she knows cares about her ...Pow!! And she drops the mic!!!Thank you for stopping by... Wishing YOU an amazing day! =) Open for discussion, but I really like a guy to take the lead in that... tells a bit more about you in seeing what you come up with; how you "take charge."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Video Games Indian Portuguese Turkish Action Mystery Sport War Ice Hockey
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