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Claudette, 47

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.... "mine would be you."Hello... ** Update: as of ***~ I have been smoke free for 10 days! Yay me!!Probably my biggest caveat is that I am somewhat shy, to start with. I can be a little on the quiet side until I have a sense of who I am dealing with. lol. If that would bother you, then I'm probably not worth your time. It is part of who I am and not likely to change anytime soon. However, with that said, if you don't really take the time to get to know a person, and allow them to reveal their "layers" to you, then you will have no true idea what treasures lie beneath the surface!... btw, quiet does not mean not fun!!Here are my top reasons I would be your best "girlfriend" ever:~ You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public. I am no fashion-model and never will be, but I still take pride in how I look. No sweatpants and slippers going out in public… unless it’s 11 o’clock at night and I’m going to Walmart by myself, where I’d blend in anyway. =P~ You will be proud of me on the home front. I enjoy helping you with projects around the house and yard, and don’t mind getting sweaty and dirty. It all comes off in the shower anyway, so I can pretty myself up again. ~ I desire to support you in your dreams and goals. ~ I will be respectful and supportive of "you" time.~ I will do my best not to nag and complain… try to keep small stuff, small stuff. ~ I will do my best to never roll my eyes at you, because I will respect you and your feelings and opinions. Maybe not agree, but respect. ~ You can trust that I will be honest with you. Always. ~ Our personal life is just that, personal. I won't be sharing every detail with my girlfriends. ...except the amazing things about you, of course!~ You will see my smile much more than my frown. =D Yes, I have my days, but life is meant to be happy and fun. Just don't be my reason to not smile. ~ I am the primary source of my own happiness. Sure, I want that giddy happiness that comes from falling and being in love. Why wouldn’t I want someone who “makes” me happy and affirms that to me?? But in the end, I am more responsible for my own happiness than you are. You are just a bonus… icing on the cake. ~ You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times and in unexpected places. ~ If I commit my heart to you and yours to mine, you will never have to guess how I feel. When we have made that commitment, I will make it a priority to show you, not just tell you or expect you to know. You will rarely hear the words, “I’m not in the mood.” =) Nuf said.~ The top reason: I want to share my heart and soul with the "one" I love!I am adding the "disclaimer" that I am a work in progress. I am not perfect... just like you are not. I have my insecurities and vulnerabilities the same as anyone else, and ask that you be the type who can be accepting of them and loving someone UNCONDITIONALLY. ...And not have some silly, preconceived notion that a couple should be able to communicate without ever having disagreement or seeing totally eye to eye, etc.; or have a "cookie cutter" outlook on what the ideal person should be like! I get that we have our "expectations" or "requirements" that we are looking for, but you have to be somewhat open to seeing who a person is and where they are "at." Love means accepting someone where they are and being willing to work on and talk about the things you disagree about. You may possibly come to see things my way and vice versa... or maybe not! But if that person loves you anyway, and is willing to move heaven and earth to be with you and make things work... that's what matters!! I have taken a huge self-assessment of the things I could have done better in my marriage and in my personal life and have done my best to improve myself and what I can bring to a relationship. And I continue... one step at a time; putting one foot in front of the other... moving into the future, leaving the past where it belongs, behind me. Please be ready to leave your past behind you, too! I may not be all dazzle and sparkle, but I AM bright, I am real and I am me: A loving and caring woman who wants to give her best for you and to you and love YOU unconditionally... and desire to let you know "there is no one better out there for me!"A woman will go hard for a man she cares about ...But even harder for a man she knows cares about her ...Pow!! And she drops the mic!!!Thank you for stopping by... Wishing YOU an amazing day! =) Open for discussion, but I really like a guy to take the lead in that... tells a bit more about you in seeing what you come up with; how you "take charge."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lewella

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I love to smile, laugh and have fun. I have a great sense of humor and am often told that once I know someone , I have absolutely no filter, in a good way of course which makes for a hilarious time. I truly consider the glass to always be half full. I am very easy going and have learned to never sweat the small stuff. I am open to just about everything. I love the beach, the water, the outdoors as well as movies, concerts and sporting events.I have strong family values and treat those who I care about like gold. I have 2 beautiful daughters that mean the world to me. I am looking for a man that has strong values, and is sincere. Laughter, honesty, a sense of humor and a smile are a must! It wouldn't hurt if you were a cute snugglebug and romantic too! I am looking for my best friend, soulmate and lover all wrapped up in one!!!!!!!!!! First dates are like wine...........some are smooth and flavorful and others you would just choose not to order again. My idea of a first meeting is very simplistic..........a drink or cup of coffee somewhere casual just to see if there is a connection and chemistry.............if it works then lets go out and have some laughs and giggles............

  • Ashton

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hello this is a little about me and if I don't tell enough just ask I'm honest. I like to laugh even at myself, . I have a great personality very much a people person. Family is important to me and I have a rather large one and I enjoy getting together with family for cookouts, holidays you know the good times. I'm a romantic and enjoy doing nice things for you for no reason just because. I think iIt's nice when a man give's me flowers just because. When I am with someone and it feels good I love to cuddle up on the couch with a good movie on a rainy or cold day. I like to read, watch my weekly TV dramas, gardening, take walks, motor cycle riding and cook when there is someone to cook for, I like to do Karoke it's fun. I like camping, warming together around a campfire and looking up in the dark sky at the stars. My favorite child like thing I enjoy Fireworks. A lot of other things I guess but if I tell them all we won't have anything to talk about. I'm told I look younger than my age and friends would say your lucky to find me. I am looking for a friend, companion and Lover. Someone who will treat me the way a woman should be treated, and in return I enjoy treating a man good, dinner when he comes home, a good back or shoulder rub. I'm looking for my soul mate, someone I can't wait to get there to see that makes me nervous and heart flutter. In thirty years I want this person in the rocking chair next to me on our front porch. WANT TO ROCK WITH ME? Or if a schedule prevents that for the first meeting then meet for coffee.

  • Afton

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    HiMy hobbies include, but not limited to...reading, gardening, spending time with my two sons, watching movies, going for walks and long or short drives, and making new friends and hanging with all my friends.My goals are to see my sons happy and prosperous. To find that special someone for me.I enjoy listening to any type of music with rap being the least favoriteIn movies I enjoy all but sci-fi is my favorite types.I'm looking for someone who won't mind going to company picnics and Christmas dinners with. Who wouldn't mind helping with the reluctant grocery shopping with me. Go out and enjoy Mother Nature, at her best and worst.Add on:If you are looking for honesty than thats me. If you cannot handle honesty from a woman who knows what she wants then keep on looking.On the section where it asks if I drink, yes I do on occassion but its something that I dont need or want. When I do drink my limit is 3 glasses and thats maybe every 3 months or so. For the first date I would like it to be whatever both of us decide on.

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