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Jessalyn, 48

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About Me

Bundle of contradictions here. Blunt when needed, but capable of subtlety; Enjoy talking and silent companionship. Would love for 'lightening to strike' at our first meeting, but know that kind of intoxication is not going to last. Want intoxication and sobriety. Want to make out AND know you 1st. Generally do my own thing until it doesn’t work, then follow the directions. Like vegan meals AND meat. Can this be allowed?! Want witty banter and thoughtful conversations. I am spontaneous, but stable. Over educated, but enjoy talking to all kinds of people. Appreciate wisdom gained from the school of life, not only formal education. Warm, cuddly, and empathetic, but can be as tough as nails, and not afraid to say what I think.Not 'high maintenance', independent because I've had to be, but able to receive, and recognize what I'm not good at and what a man could help me with. Dead serious about some things. eg. people trump things, money and power. Traditional in some ways, but irreverent. Appreciate luxury, fine clothes, travel as much as anyone else, but it's just not a priority.Able to laugh at myself, Appreciate wit, self awareness, and your ability to recognize your personal 'demons' and your desire for personal growth.I'm not much into accumulating things, and get more excited by projects (especially social justice activism) and experience/adventures/ideas than stuff. We're not going to click if your things are an important part of your identity. I'm attracted to nonconformist type men who are passionate about something they think is important. Looking for that elusive male combination of sensuality and integrity, intelligence, compassion, ambition and groundedness. I will listen, and know you, and feed you mint pesto pasta.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aislinn

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am a confident, successful, attractive woman with a great job, a good sense of humor, strong ambition, balanced with a desire to relax and have fun, and not much free time these days. :) I am confident, intelligent, spontaneous, adventurous, and I believe, fun. My work takes me out of town frequently - sometimes, more than others - but not for long periods of time. I like good food, good friends, good wine, good music of all types (mostly rock, folk, progressive, etc...), and embracing life! I like to read, swim, bicycle, and workout regularly.

  • Esta

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I like to do lots of things. I would like to find a guy,one that can handle a small child or there is no need to even bother gettin to know each other...love to be outdoors, camping fishing ....all different things...Im pretty laid back and just a basic country girl...I love fast cars 4wheel drives 4Wheelers dirtbikes, racing, dirt track and nascar ...Im a tomboy in every sense of the word...am up for just about anything. I would really love to find a guy that treats me well and my kids too, one that will cherish a relationship. I guess im just really lookin for my other half....my best friend. I am active in supporting the military, they seem to be the most honest. Im a package deal, i come with my own mini me....lol... .....want to find a real man not one just lookin to get laid, but one that wants the whole deal, tired of wasting time on the guys that will tell ya what ya want to hear, dont need smoke blown up my a**....and yes most of you men on here are just that ...players....if thats you dont waste my time or yours...you wont winFREEDOM***!!!***Put this on your***!!!***page if you***!!!!!!!!!!!***know someone in the***!!!***Armed Forces or to***!!!***show your support***!!!***and respect to all***!!!***our troopsOUR TROOPS ROCK........My daughter is U.S. Army !!!!! wooo hoo***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\***\\\***My grandmother she was my best friend Its hard to say...i like alot of things mostly to just be with a nice guy!!!

  • Evelynn

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a hopeless romantic. I love to cuddle, kiss and hug. I love to spend time just hanging out watching t.v. or going to the movies or on long walks. I'm a very nice person who gets along well with others. I love just about any type of music and food. I'm open to trying new things and do not judge other people. I'm not into materialistic things and look for the goodness in everyone. I believe happiness comes from people in your life, not things. Famity and friends make you wealthy. I have a 19 yr old and a 17 yr old that I love with all my heart and would do anything for. They are my world!I am looking for someone that is honest and values family. Someone that is somewhat laid back and knows how to stop and smell the roses. Someone who realizes that people are what's important and that money can't buy happiness. Someone who tries to find the silver lining in every bad situation. I would like to find a guy that is romantic but also knows how to make me laugh. One that will be there in good and bad times.A great relationship starts with communication and honesty. Spending quality time with each other, but also allowing each person personal space. I am too old to play games or have drama in my life. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Looking for someone who believes in the following: "Live well, Laugh often, and Love much". Also, that "Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away". Dinner and conversation

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