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Jessalyn, 48

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About Me

Bundle of contradictions here. Blunt when needed, but capable of subtlety; Enjoy talking and silent companionship. Would love for 'lightening to strike' at our first meeting, but know that kind of intoxication is not going to last. Want intoxication and sobriety. Want to make out AND know you 1st. Generally do my own thing until it doesn’t work, then follow the directions. Like vegan meals AND meat. Can this be allowed?! Want witty banter and thoughtful conversations. I am spontaneous, but stable. Over educated, but enjoy talking to all kinds of people. Appreciate wisdom gained from the school of life, not only formal education. Warm, cuddly, and empathetic, but can be as tough as nails, and not afraid to say what I think.Not 'high maintenance', independent because I've had to be, but able to receive, and recognize what I'm not good at and what a man could help me with. Dead serious about some things. eg. people trump things, money and power. Traditional in some ways, but irreverent. Appreciate luxury, fine clothes, travel as much as anyone else, but it's just not a priority.Able to laugh at myself, Appreciate wit, self awareness, and your ability to recognize your personal 'demons' and your desire for personal growth.I'm not much into accumulating things, and get more excited by projects (especially social justice activism) and experience/adventures/ideas than stuff. We're not going to click if your things are an important part of your identity. I'm attracted to nonconformist type men who are passionate about something they think is important. Looking for that elusive male combination of sensuality and integrity, intelligence, compassion, ambition and groundedness. I will listen, and know you, and feed you mint pesto pasta.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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