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Jessalyn, 48

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About Me

Bundle of contradictions here. Blunt when needed, but capable of subtlety; Enjoy talking and silent companionship. Would love for 'lightening to strike' at our first meeting, but know that kind of intoxication is not going to last. Want intoxication and sobriety. Want to make out AND know you 1st. Generally do my own thing until it doesn’t work, then follow the directions. Like vegan meals AND meat. Can this be allowed?! Want witty banter and thoughtful conversations. I am spontaneous, but stable. Over educated, but enjoy talking to all kinds of people. Appreciate wisdom gained from the school of life, not only formal education. Warm, cuddly, and empathetic, but can be as tough as nails, and not afraid to say what I think.Not 'high maintenance', independent because I've had to be, but able to receive, and recognize what I'm not good at and what a man could help me with. Dead serious about some things. eg. people trump things, money and power. Traditional in some ways, but irreverent. Appreciate luxury, fine clothes, travel as much as anyone else, but it's just not a priority.Able to laugh at myself, Appreciate wit, self awareness, and your ability to recognize your personal 'demons' and your desire for personal growth.I'm not much into accumulating things, and get more excited by projects (especially social justice activism) and experience/adventures/ideas than stuff. We're not going to click if your things are an important part of your identity. I'm attracted to nonconformist type men who are passionate about something they think is important. Looking for that elusive male combination of sensuality and integrity, intelligence, compassion, ambition and groundedness. I will listen, and know you, and feed you mint pesto pasta.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Candy

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I AM MULTILINGUAL, WELL-TRAVELED/EDUCATED, PASSIONATE, ICONOCLASTIC, SPONTANEOUS, WITH A UNIQUE SENSE OF STYLE. I BELIVE IN EXERCISING ONE'S BODY AND BRAIN ON A DAILY BASIS. I AM LOOKING FOR A SPECIAL MAN WITH WHOM TO COMMUNICATE ON A HIGHER LEVEL. I AM LOOKING FOR AN ATTRACTIVE MAN, WHO IS IN GREAT SHAPE, NOT OVER 57. THE ENERGY ONE PROJECTS IS VERY IMPORTANT. SINE QVA NON QUALITIES ARE: CHARACTER, INTELLIGENCE, SPONTANEITY, FLEXIBILITY AND BEING GENUINE. I LOVE A MAN IN A SUIT. I PREFER A EUROPEAN OR A CANADIAN MAN.I DO NOT CHAT BECAUSE I DON'T SPEND MUCH TIME BY THE COMPUTER . I PREFER TALKING ON THE PHONE BECAUSE IT'S LESS IMPERSONAL AND I CAN LEARN A LOT ABOUT SOMEONE BY TALKING AND LISTENING TO HIS VOICE.I AM ESTABLISHED AND NOT LOOKING FOR A MAN TO GIVE ME SHELTER, SUPPORT, OR RAISE MY CHILDREN. IT'S NOT THE CASE. BUT I AM LOOKING FOR A PARTNER WITH WHOM TO TRAVEL, SPEND QUALITY TIME AND SHARE INCREDIBLE EXPERIENCES. I AM NOT GOING TO COMPROMISE OR SETTLE JUST SO THAT I WON'T BE ALONE. I WANT TO FIND A MAN I CAN RESPECT AND LOVE.the following is in response to my meetville experience:IF YOU CANNOT TALK ON THE PHONE, DON'T CONTACT ME. THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG AND SCARY ABOUT PEOPLE WHO CANNOT COMMUNICATE VERBALLY. IF ALL YOU CAN OFFER ME IS A FEW HOURS A WEEK BECAUSE THE REST OF THE TIME YOU'RE TOO BUSY WITH WORK AND YOUNG CHILDREN, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME. I HAVE MET MEN WHO JUST BROKE UP WITH THEIR WIVES AND THE NEXT DAY THEY ARE ON THE INTERNET DATING. YOU MUST HAVE ALL YOUR LIFE IN ORDER AND THEN LOOK FOR WOMEN TO DATE. IF YOU ARE LOOKING JUST FOR "PASSIONATE " SEX OR OTHER ENCOUNTERS, I RECOMMEND YOU HIRE PROSTITUES. DO NOT WRITE TO ME THAT YOU WANT TO MEET BECAUSE I'M HOT.I AM A WOMAN OF THE HIGHEST QUALITY . YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND IF YOU COULD BE A GOOD MATCH FOR ME. LET'S NOT WASTE OUR TIME.i use either all cpital letters or low case because i am not good at typing. guys asked weird questions (such as if i'm angy?!). no, i just am not good at typing. OUR FIRST DATE COULD BE ANYWHERE AS LONG AS WE CONNECT. I WOULD JUST LIKE TO TALK AND FIND CHEMISTRY AND ATTRACTION. I AM IMPRESSED BY INTELLIGENCE AND A SENSE OF HUMOR. ONE THING IS FOR SURE: YOU WILL NEVER BE BORED IN MY COMPANY. I AM VERY ENTERTAINING, CULTURED AND HAVE A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR.

  • Andra

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Well I love life and my family is most important to me. I like to laugh and talk alot, I'm not really shy. I love Rock-n-Roll and like listening to live bands. I have music on in the house more so than the T.V. But I do like the sitcoms, they make me smile! I love to go out on the weekends, during the week I work alot and very hard ,so bedtime comes early.! lol. Anything outdoors is always good, even though I work outside most of the time. I just recently heard about this sight so here I am. Meeting new people can be fun or scary! But we can never have too many friends! Some people connect and some don't, pretty simple. Looks aren't as important to me than attraction, there is a difference in my book, but a date should be fun with no hard feelings afterward or lets do this again! Meeting in a fun public place.

  • Vinnie

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hi,Thanks for taking the time to view my profile.I am an easy going and fun loving person. I'm a little shy and quiet until I get to know you better. I enjoy spending quality time with people that are important to me.I love to explore new restaurants , going to the movies and quiet nights at home. I do have a real outdoorsy and adventurous side. I like to go for long walks(hiking), biking , boating(kayaking) at the trailer. I'm looking to hopefully meet a man who is HONEST for dating that could lead into a long term relationship.If you are only interested in chatting or inappropriate chatting , are a serial dater then please move on. You will only be wasting mine and your time.Looking forward to hearing from youSorry no cats....Alergic I think first date should be light.... Maybe a coffee or a drink in a pub and see how it goes.

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