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Jessalyn, 48

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About Me

Bundle of contradictions here. Blunt when needed, but capable of subtlety; Enjoy talking and silent companionship. Would love for 'lightening to strike' at our first meeting, but know that kind of intoxication is not going to last. Want intoxication and sobriety. Want to make out AND know you 1st. Generally do my own thing until it doesn’t work, then follow the directions. Like vegan meals AND meat. Can this be allowed?! Want witty banter and thoughtful conversations. I am spontaneous, but stable. Over educated, but enjoy talking to all kinds of people. Appreciate wisdom gained from the school of life, not only formal education. Warm, cuddly, and empathetic, but can be as tough as nails, and not afraid to say what I think.Not 'high maintenance', independent because I've had to be, but able to receive, and recognize what I'm not good at and what a man could help me with. Dead serious about some things. eg. people trump things, money and power. Traditional in some ways, but irreverent. Appreciate luxury, fine clothes, travel as much as anyone else, but it's just not a priority.Able to laugh at myself, Appreciate wit, self awareness, and your ability to recognize your personal 'demons' and your desire for personal growth.I'm not much into accumulating things, and get more excited by projects (especially social justice activism) and experience/adventures/ideas than stuff. We're not going to click if your things are an important part of your identity. I'm attracted to nonconformist type men who are passionate about something they think is important. Looking for that elusive male combination of sensuality and integrity, intelligence, compassion, ambition and groundedness. I will listen, and know you, and feed you mint pesto pasta.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Becci

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Let me try this again, I want what everyone wants. Happiness, love, honesty, no drama and Bs.. do i think it exist begining to believe not....Im loving, supportive, honest, love to laugh, joke, be playful with my babi....would want the same but with that also comes true effort...i dont want to be 1 of the 10 girls you trying to be with.. if youre chatting with all them how can you give me or anyone else the effort they deserve and the same goes for me.. most people wont like that theory but its the truth just the same.. im very loving lady, i love the beach, anything outdoors, grilling with family or friends, i do fish /hunt..lol movies out or home.. willing to learn and try new things....im looking forward to finding you... are ya out there? Happy fishing and thanks for giving me a profile look... whatever suits us both.. something simple..

  • Jeannine

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    First and foremost, I am a Mom who is raising my three children, ages 16, 13 & 8. They keep me active and I don't feel my age! Their father is in their life. They are with him each weekend when he is able. They would welcome a new friend into their life, if we do well together as a couple.I am a Social Service Professional who has worked for a United Way/Non-profit Agency for the last 23 years. I am loyal and have staying power! I work a M-F, 9 to 5 schedule. Hoping to find someone with a similar schedule so that we can enjoy each others company. My weekends and evenings are usually free. Just because I'm a fulltime Mom doesn't mean I have no "Me" time. I do, and would like to spend it with you, if we connect!I love to travel. I can't wait to see more of the USA and explore new places around the world! I try to go to a new place once a year. In the winter I take my kids snow tubing in the Poconos. In the summer we go to the lake, beach and boardwalk. I love amusment rides. Not many scare me! LOL Looking forward to having a partner in travel!Music: rock, top 40, R&B, reggae, disco, dance, oldies, blues... I love to go dancing! Don't be shy to lead me out to the dance floor! TV is more of my end of the day wind-down. "Modern Family" is my current favorite citcom. I'm not a sports watcher. I would rather go see a game/sporting event in person.Food: I can cook well, but I do enjoy a good meal out at least once a week. I like most foods and like trying new tastes. While we are talking food, Yes, I am a few extra pounds and am working on that. I resently bought an eliptical that I love! But, it takes time, I will never be a skinny girl because God made me with curves & a womanly shape, not a stick nor a hard side of beef. If that's a problem...sorry, I'm not the girl for you.About the man I am hoping to meet: First of all, I appreciate when a man takes the initiative to let me know if he likes my profile. It shows confidence and that's a major turn on when the man makes the first move! A photo on your profile is a must if you would like a response back. It's only fair, that you can see me. I need to see you as well.I am looking for a man with a positive outlook on life and a passion for living. Doom and gloom about the economy, life and politics are not my bag. A man with a good heart and mind is sooo sexy! Please, please, please: I'm looking for someone who... is not prejudice toward others that are different from themself. A person who is patient and tolerant, because life is stressful enough with things we can't control. Gainfully employed or financially stable is a must. If you feel the need to to use the "F" word or any other curse word in every conversation, then I'm not the one for you. No lies, mental issues, anger issues or addictions. I also have my childrens' well being to consider, when chosing a new friend. FYI: I do not give out my phone # right away. I like to chat, just a bit on here first, to get a true feel for who you are. After that, I will be more than happy to talk to you on the phone. It will be exciting to hear your voice for the first time!:) Thank You & Hope to Hear from You Soon! We could meet at a quiet place, so that we can talk and hear each other. Have a glass of wine. Look into each others eyes as we converse. Relax, have fun, while getting to know each other better.

  • Dix

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Im down to earth quiet and shy til I get to know you,I believe Im a warm and fun loving person and believe my friends would say that too. I enjoy going for walks to going for long drives. I enjoy sitting around the campfire with family or friends and having a few drinks. I have 3 adult children and 2 wonderful grandaughters that I love dearly and spend as much time as I can with them.As far as dating goes would like to meet someone who is honest and caring and hopefully it leads to a long term relationship,I'm NOT looking for a one night stand or friends with benefits. As far as music I will listen to most types.If you would like to know more just message me. I'm not online to much because its too nice to be stuck inside the house.Good luck in your search. Hope we all find what we are looking for... Lets grab a coffee,tea or pop and go for a walk

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