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Shameka, 49

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About Me

Looking for someone who appreciates the cerebral side of life. My dream: to build a tree house with you and sit on the porch in bare feet and blue jeans listening to the birds and making each other laugh. Maybe just sitting in quiet meditation. You share a love of animals and nature. You enjoy the sound of an acoustic guitar or mandolin. You are a good listener who is wise and even keeled. You are artistic in some way and/or appreciate creativity in various forms - theater, poetry, art museums, photography etc. You can see into my soul when you look into my blue/green eyes by the camp fire. You are comfortable talking about feelings and philosophy. You are curious, spontaneous and kind. You don't judge others. You can be fully present in the moment and do not seek to self medicate. You are looking for a meeting of minds and spirit, with a good dog possibly romping alongside. This is a life I would like to share, if you are out there... Of course first dates are awkward things. We can have a cup of coffee and be open and truthful about who we are and where we want to go in life. We can see how our yellow pads compare and take it from there. A nice cup of coffee with an intelligent person is never a bad thing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Faye

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    ask me to tell you about myself I have lots of ideas that I can talk about later :)

  • Crissy

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I think that is funny! (no one under 40)I am looking for someone who has qualities similar to me: HONEST, supportive, loving and financially stable. I like to smile/laugh and you should also! Family is very important.Okay, I admit it I need help! My list of "Honey do" keeps getting longer. With each task I complete, 2 more pop up! LOLI am a single parent to my 9 year old son, he keeps me young!Please move on if you are NOT looking for a relationship.Thanks for reading! Best of luck on your fishing expedition! Meet for lunch, coffee or a drink. Just keep it simple and low key. If there is a connection, plan a second date!

  • Kelleigh

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I guess you could say I'm a complex country girl/ lady with a very open mind and a good moral compass? Or at least that is how I feel. Since there is no way to say i have long dark blonde hair on my profile, thought it might help a bit to know that. I wear it up in a pony tail or clip most of the time as it's just too hot!!! I've never been married & I don't have kids. But if you do, that's fantastic!!Just right up front, I've got about 30 lbs extra, that I'm working on getting rid of. I know a lot of guys won't check out past the exterior, but I've got a good heart & a lot of love to give for the right person. So give me a chance, you won't regret it.I'm not afraid to get dirty, prefer riding with the windows down, sunroof open & country music cranked!! LolAlso, I used to smoke & now I have an ecig. Just want to be up front about that as well. For some that may be a deal breaker. I do love baseball, go Rangers!! And I am a huge fan of the Spurs!!! Woohoo!!! I'm not a big fan of football, but I could handle watching it with the right person. I play APA pool,& have been playing pool on & off since I was 18. I miss dirt track racing, rodeos, & live sports. it's just not fun to go by myself, so hoping to find a partner in crime!! Also, yes I have long term listed, but I do know that it takes time to build a relationship, and that starts by dating. Communication is a must! the last serious relationship i was in lacked communication & a big dose of emotional abuse was dealt. Luckily enough I recognized it for what it was & kicked his butt to the curb!! All wounds leave scars, but it's what you do after the wounds heal that matters. There is still a lot more to tell but I've come to the point of writers block. Lol So lets get to dating & having fun!!!My dad taught me that men are supposed to be the pursuers. So, I do find it a bit difficult to be the one to send a first message.If a lady messages you & you're not interested, you aren't going to lead someone on by saying thank you, or you too! I'm sure you don't enjoy it when someone doesn't at least acknowledge you. We're all here to find someone, and a dose of common courtesy goes a long way in anybody's book.Will add more here soon. First meeting should be comfortable enough for both of us to decide whether we want a first date or not. First date ideas...? If you have 4 legged horsepower, I like to ride, whether it be 2 wheeled,4 legged, or shotgun next to you!! I used to have my own motorcycle, still have my license, but prefer to be riding with someone. So a nice ride to grab a bite to eat or a nice destination where we can talk & get to know each other. Maybe go bowling or Somewhere for some ski ball or Putt Putt. Coffee is good, dinner is nice. Let's enjoy ourselves and have some fun!!

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