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Gilda, 49
United States, Nebraska, Milford

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About Me

I'm an open book, yet somewhat complex. I'm very funny, outgoing and adventurous, and deeply spiritual. I'm also curious about life and why we are here. When I find a subject that I don't know about, I dive in and educate myself. I'm self sufficient and independent and value my quiet time. I'm a lover of nature, animals, and laughter. I can and do laugh at myself frequently. I don't take things so seriously, I look for the gifts in adversity. There are many. I enjoy time with my friends, my family, and with myself. I'm not looking for someone to fill me or take care of me, I have that part handled. I would like to be with someone who can match me, both in wit and in curiosity. About him. I don't care about materialism, or what kind of car he drives, or what kind of house he lives in. However, if he drives a Jeep off road and destroys nature, nope! I care about the inside stuff. And here it is. He has an inner quality about him that is calming, yet fun, crazy and simple. He appreciates the simple things, i. e., waking up, walking, drinking a great cup of coffee; meditation. He respects himself and me. He respects nature and if he sees garbage in his wake, he picks it up. He is independent, self confident, reliable, loyal, and has his own interests and friends. He's intelligent, optimistic and asks the big questions. He's not afraid of deep conversations, nor is he afraid of his own feelings, they're just feelings after all. I don't want someone to make me the center of their everything. I'm looking for Interdependence, not dependence and not co dependence. He has a curious, spiritual side and asks the big questions. He's open, honest, spontaneous! He can laugh at himself, and he's willing to work it through, whatever that is. It's the inside stuff I'm looking for. Bonus points if you're involved with doing something to aid those beings on this planet who are being tortured and slaughtered. I'm talking about our animal friends. I'm deeply immersed in trying to save the African elephant and rhino from inevitable extinction as a result of poaching. If you're a hunter do not write me. There are a few things I'd like to do with your guns, none of which would be pleasant. If you're an animal rights advocate - you have my utmost respect. Go here for 2 seconds of me in a vid. *** If there is chemistry we can be sitting in a field surrounded by cow dung and it wouldn't matter. Perfection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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  • Jayla from Milford | Woman | 50 years old | Pisces
    Jayla

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Ya I know its hard to get into dating scene, especially date'n on line! I've already had some bad experinces & some good experiance's !Sorry if I miss spell words lol Im really hope'n to find someone honest,no liars, cheaters & being honest about themselves!! Just try be'n yourself!! I know there is some Awesome men out there!?!? If you have any questions about me plz ask!! Thank you for viewing my profile! :) Have a super day & keep smile'n & Laugh often!!!! I have alot of interests too!!!!.....:-) the pics I just posted are very recent . ***...... I like most music, not into hard core rap.... Of course I love my two beautiful daughters, and I have 5 beautiful granddaughters... I'm a very family oriented person ....!!!! I feel the first date should be casual, nothing fancy! Drink of choice!! Just something simple!!:-) keep a smile on your face & in your heart!!:-)

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  • Kelleigh from Milford | Woman | 46 years old | Capricorn
    Kelleigh

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I guess you could say I'm a complex country girl/ lady with a very open mind and a good moral compass? Or at least that is how I feel. Since there is no way to say i have long dark blonde hair on my profile, thought it might help a bit to know that. I wear it up in a pony tail or clip most of the time as it's just too hot!!! I've never been married & I don't have kids. But if you do, that's fantastic!!Just right up front, I've got about 30 lbs extra, that I'm working on getting rid of. I know a lot of guys won't check out past the exterior, but I've got a good heart & a lot of love to give for the right person. So give me a chance, you won't regret it.I'm not afraid to get dirty, prefer riding with the windows down, sunroof open & country music cranked!! LolAlso, I used to smoke & now I have an ecig. Just want to be up front about that as well. For some that may be a deal breaker. I do love baseball, go Rangers!! And I am a huge fan of the Spurs!!! Woohoo!!! I'm not a big fan of football, but I could handle watching it with the right person. I play APA pool,& have been playing pool on & off since I was 18. I miss dirt track racing, rodeos, & live sports. it's just not fun to go by myself, so hoping to find a partner in crime!! Also, yes I have long term listed, but I do know that it takes time to build a relationship, and that starts by dating. Communication is a must! the last serious relationship i was in lacked communication & a big dose of emotional abuse was dealt. Luckily enough I recognized it for what it was & kicked his butt to the curb!! All wounds leave scars, but it's what you do after the wounds heal that matters. There is still a lot more to tell but I've come to the point of writers block. Lol So lets get to dating & having fun!!!My dad taught me that men are supposed to be the pursuers. So, I do find it a bit difficult to be the one to send a first message.If a lady messages you & you're not interested, you aren't going to lead someone on by saying thank you, or you too! I'm sure you don't enjoy it when someone doesn't at least acknowledge you. We're all here to find someone, and a dose of common courtesy goes a long way in anybody's book.Will add more here soon. First meeting should be comfortable enough for both of us to decide whether we want a first date or not. First date ideas...? If you have 4 legged horsepower, I like to ride, whether it be 2 wheeled,4 legged, or shotgun next to you!! I used to have my own motorcycle, still have my license, but prefer to be riding with someone. So a nice ride to grab a bite to eat or a nice destination where we can talk & get to know each other. Maybe go bowling or Somewhere for some ski ball or Putt Putt. Coffee is good, dinner is nice. Let's enjoy ourselves and have some fun!!

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  • Topsey from Milford | Woman | 47 years old | Libra
    Topsey

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am,tall ,have short brown hair mother of four children,looking for something serious..i like cooking baking doing things with my family i like country r&b soft rock..and im easy to get to know..im all around a good person..i dont want any head gamesor players i want someone who i can be a bestfriend with and enjoy and to talk with likes wrestling football and baseball

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