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Gilda, 49

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About Me

I'm an open book, yet somewhat complex. I'm very funny, outgoing and adventurous, and deeply spiritual. I'm also curious about life and why we are here. When I find a subject that I don't know about, I dive in and educate myself. I'm self sufficient and independent and value my quiet time. I'm a lover of nature, animals, and laughter. I can and do laugh at myself frequently. I don't take things so seriously, I look for the gifts in adversity. There are many. I enjoy time with my friends, my family, and with myself. I'm not looking for someone to fill me or take care of me, I have that part handled. I would like to be with someone who can match me, both in wit and in curiosity. About him. I don't care about materialism, or what kind of car he drives, or what kind of house he lives in. However, if he drives a Jeep off road and destroys nature, nope! I care about the inside stuff. And here it is. He has an inner quality about him that is calming, yet fun, crazy and simple. He appreciates the simple things, i. e., waking up, walking, drinking a great cup of coffee; meditation. He respects himself and me. He respects nature and if he sees garbage in his wake, he picks it up. He is independent, self confident, reliable, loyal, and has his own interests and friends. He's intelligent, optimistic and asks the big questions. He's not afraid of deep conversations, nor is he afraid of his own feelings, they're just feelings after all. I don't want someone to make me the center of their everything. I'm looking for Interdependence, not dependence and not co dependence. He has a curious, spiritual side and asks the big questions. He's open, honest, spontaneous! He can laugh at himself, and he's willing to work it through, whatever that is. It's the inside stuff I'm looking for. Bonus points if you're involved with doing something to aid those beings on this planet who are being tortured and slaughtered. I'm talking about our animal friends. I'm deeply immersed in trying to save the African elephant and rhino from inevitable extinction as a result of poaching. If you're a hunter do not write me. There are a few things I'd like to do with your guns, none of which would be pleasant. If you're an animal rights advocate - you have my utmost respect. Go here for 2 seconds of me in a vid. *** If there is chemistry we can be sitting in a field surrounded by cow dung and it wouldn't matter. Perfection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Carola

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am looking for someone who can leave the baggage at home. I do not like drama. I love to be outside. I would rather spend the day getting fire wood than shopping. I like doing yard work. Taking something that has been neglected and making it groomed and pretty again. I like to quilt. Making a warm blanket to cuddle up in is one of my fun things. I am currently fixing up an old truck. It may not look like much but it can run with the best. The goal is to have a fun truck that can get dirty and still look good. I love to go camping and hunting. I am a vegetarian but I am not a tree hugger. I like country and can listen to pretty much everything.I have a Brittany Spanial, a 5 pound mut. and a silly cat that someone threw in the river when she was about 2 weeks old. I didn't think, I jumped in, boots and all. She lived and I call her River. She thinks she is a dog and will keep me laughing with her antics. A fun first date? Thats a different one to try to think about.. I would love to go for a horse ride. I enjoy the 4 wheelers a lot but keep in mind that I ride like an amature. Riding and wrecking are things I out grew when I started making payments on my own bikes! I love the 3D movies. Dinner is something I would rather cook. It may not be fancy but it will be good.

  • Kelleigh

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I guess you could say I'm a complex country girl/ lady with a very open mind and a good moral compass? Or at least that is how I feel. Since there is no way to say i have long dark blonde hair on my profile, thought it might help a bit to know that. I wear it up in a pony tail or clip most of the time as it's just too hot!!! I've never been married & I don't have kids. But if you do, that's fantastic!!Just right up front, I've got about 30 lbs extra, that I'm working on getting rid of. I know a lot of guys won't check out past the exterior, but I've got a good heart & a lot of love to give for the right person. So give me a chance, you won't regret it.I'm not afraid to get dirty, prefer riding with the windows down, sunroof open & country music cranked!! LolAlso, I used to smoke & now I have an ecig. Just want to be up front about that as well. For some that may be a deal breaker. I do love baseball, go Rangers!! And I am a huge fan of the Spurs!!! Woohoo!!! I'm not a big fan of football, but I could handle watching it with the right person. I play APA pool,& have been playing pool on & off since I was 18. I miss dirt track racing, rodeos, & live sports. it's just not fun to go by myself, so hoping to find a partner in crime!! Also, yes I have long term listed, but I do know that it takes time to build a relationship, and that starts by dating. Communication is a must! the last serious relationship i was in lacked communication & a big dose of emotional abuse was dealt. Luckily enough I recognized it for what it was & kicked his butt to the curb!! All wounds leave scars, but it's what you do after the wounds heal that matters. There is still a lot more to tell but I've come to the point of writers block. Lol So lets get to dating & having fun!!!My dad taught me that men are supposed to be the pursuers. So, I do find it a bit difficult to be the one to send a first message.If a lady messages you & you're not interested, you aren't going to lead someone on by saying thank you, or you too! I'm sure you don't enjoy it when someone doesn't at least acknowledge you. We're all here to find someone, and a dose of common courtesy goes a long way in anybody's book.Will add more here soon. First meeting should be comfortable enough for both of us to decide whether we want a first date or not. First date ideas...? If you have 4 legged horsepower, I like to ride, whether it be 2 wheeled,4 legged, or shotgun next to you!! I used to have my own motorcycle, still have my license, but prefer to be riding with someone. So a nice ride to grab a bite to eat or a nice destination where we can talk & get to know each other. Maybe go bowling or Somewhere for some ski ball or Putt Putt. Coffee is good, dinner is nice. Let's enjoy ourselves and have some fun!!

  • Nadia

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hey there. I can't guarantee that we already have a lot in common - but if you read on and find out we do - you are welcome to message me.It would be nice to meet someone who enjoy going to different cities, and of coarse trying out local eateries. There nothing like a good dinner and going for a walk with a great companion at Sunset! But it give and take too, I won't complain when you take me to along shopping at the mall or whole you or I set in the waiting room when one of us trying on something. I understand that being together is the most important part of a relationship no matter what we are doing (besides communications, of coarse). I would like to think this is my biggest weakness.;Nobles of coarse can spend whole day there, enjoy to observe things and people, exercising, flying long distance and airports.Somewhere out there is a great guy who will not only want to introduce me to knew things, but will also like to try some adventures that are new for both of us. He will not only put up with my wacky moods , but he may even think they are cute ( if he won't admit it). The man I would like to meet is confident and self assured, but isn't with an over inflated ego. movie date would be nice

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