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Cayla, 50
United States, Nebraska, Gretna

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About Me

Hi. What a lame start.. But every new relationship whether it be a friendship or more begins with just those two simple letters.....HI!I am a small town girl with a somewhat quirky personality.. I love humor and try to find the chuckle in most everything... bad is only bad if you let it be, otherwise it is just another experience that needs to be handled. Deal with it and move on. So here goes..I was a 47 year old widow that has not dated in 30 years.. i am used to being "we" but am learning to be "me" again. Which tends to be quite a learning process. I have three beautiful daughters and one son in law, which I am very proud of... They are very wonderful young adults who are a big part of my life and my decisions are usually based on them. Very family oriented. My youngest is 19 and she was my main priority. Time for me to spread my wings a bit.But there is a point in ones life that you want to share with another. Those things you miss by being alone...A cuddle, an inside joke, a gaze from across the coffee, a smile that you can read on anothers face and know what they are thinking... That confidant that will let you share all your irrational ramblings without judgement, but concern. That someone to argue with about who will take out the garbage this time....those stupid little things...are the things I miss the most. I am still learning..But I am a stable person (some might agree) and I am not rushing into anything. So slow is my pace... I am somewhat private for security for my family...but I do have an open mind and it usually functions coherently, My interests are varied...I am analytical. So I have a tendency to think things through...but am also a very heartfelt person...loyalty, honesty and trust are very important traits I value most in a relationship. Whether it be friendship or more.I have found that we are all somewhat the same...looking for that special someone and I wish you all the best of luck in your search. Just remember that it all starts by just saying,, "Hi!" I havent dated in thirty years. I am not sure that dating is still in my vocabulary. I would like to know what you would consider a date at this age...I remember it as terribly awkward?! Not sure if I would want to go back to awkward again.ATTENTION: I really dont want to be a mom to any young men looking for playtime. Dont text back for "good time" crap. Got over that while some of you were being conceived. My 3 daughters dont really need a brother figure. So no thanks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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