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About Me

I'm a smart and adventurous lady with a witty sense of humor who is looking to date a positive, happy man with the eventual hope to find my soul-mate and travel buddy in life. The past year or so I have chosen not to date much, and have been working, traveling, and doing some self-reflection. Now, I believe I am once again ready to re-explore the dating world, and am open to the possibility of being captured by love. I am not looking to serial date, as I am a one-man woman once I find someone I truly want to give my heart to....but I don't like to be rushed or pressured. I enjoy many things in life, but what I am doing at any given moment, is not as important as having a great time, enjoying and laughing with the person I am spending time with. If there is something you really enjoy doing and want to share that with me, I am open to try just about anything. - And I will do it with laughter and a good attitude as long as you are supportive and encouraging.I love to travel, especially to places with warm tropical waters to snorkel, kayak, or go boating/sailing. I have a lot of fun camping, either in a tent, motorhome, or Marriott! NOTE: If I could retire early and travel the world with my man, I would be the happiest girl on earth! A few of my simple pleasures: ~Chocolate w/ a nice port wine~Sitting in the jacuzzi in the rain.~Snuggling and watching the sun dip below the horizon. ABOUT YOU:The man I am looking for as my partner in life need not be perfectly handsome, in the best physical shape, or have a full head of hair....but he MUST be smart, witty, and have his act together. He should have integrity, an open heart, be financially responsible, and be a non-smoker.-distance relationships I have been in previously have been too emotionally and logistically difficult. I'm looking for a best friend, lover, playmate, and partner in crime...but that all takes time to develop. - First let's make sure we have fun together, have common core values and beliefs, good communication skills, and of course, chemistry!Our first encounter would probably be something simple, such as a cup of hot chocolate, a glass of wine, or a cold beer.If there is a connection and mutual desire to see each other again, then ideas for a casual and fun "real first date" may include:~A beach walk followed by a light lunch at a funky outdoor cafe...followed by a few soft kisses.~A bike ride around the Bay followed by a couple of fish tacos at a local eatery...followed by a few soft kisses.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Beaulah

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi. I am outgoing and can handle myself in most situations. I find humor in many situations and love to laugh. If someone would describe me they would say that I am caring,loyal,warm hearted,passionate and always see the positive side to life. My family and friends are very important to me and in a relationship I put my man on the top of that same list.Where would you like to go??? I love to travel and would like to find someone who would enjoy seeing the world with me. I enjoy a vast variety of activities such as wine tasting,dancing,theater,sporting events and music concerts I also enjoy in the summer time festivals and volunteering at the festivals (What a better way to get up close and personal!!!). On an average week you would find me looking for something different to experience...it is much more fun with someone else!!! I am a one man woman who is sensual,affectionate and looking for a man who is a one woman man.For the right man prime is 110% I would hope something that is mutually agreeable such as a game of midget golf(laughs and lots of conversation),wine and more drinks to follow...lol. Did I forget to say I have a wicked sense of humpor I mean humor...lolNo really something that we find mutually agreeable is good whatever it is.

  • Norman

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hi Ok... the fun side: I'm outgoing. I can be really funny (well I think so)... and you will too, if you like me being sarcastic! If you don't like that, you won't like me. If I see that door open I'm taking it :). I love music and concerts.. i love jumping in the car and exploring. And the water? oh yeah Im in... :) Do you like cooking? I do! I love discovering how to cook a new gourmet meal at home... i might let you help if yer nice :). Summer time I love to kayak and own two. The beach you will find me enjoying year round. But I wouldn't call myself a sun worshiper. More enjoy the smell of salt air and the treasures the sea creates. I am comfortable in many roles. I spent a long career in management and now while I still manage my own business my lifestyle is relaxed and driven by my own desire. I truely love what I do. I like making new goals for myself and love change and innovation.I grew up doing things most kids didn't do. Maybe someday we will talk about that. I was an extremely fortunate child. I'm smart. I believe I can do anything if I set my mind to it. I believe things are only difficult in your mind. Well... there are a few physical things that I am likely not capable of. And the cure for cancer, well, it might take me a couple of lifetimes to figure that out. But if I had enough time, I would!I have a 17 year old daughter that lives with me. She's very musically talented and independent.I love to debate.. I like to win too! :) I'm competitve in cards and board games.I am passionate.Ok the serious side:I think at my age this begins to get really difficult. I think when you know yourself this well, you know what you can put up with, and you have things that you won't put up with. It's the way is. I drink responsibily and so should you. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy a drink because I certainly do! I do not do drugs, other than the kind my doc tells me to take. I am doing ok financially and would hope you are as well. By this I mean you can pay your bills have a job and are not on the verge of bankruptcy. Generally I think we assume most people that seem to have your values will have their priorities in the same place as you, they don't always but I hope to find the person that does. Each other... when I find the right person they will value me... spending time with me, respecting who I am. They will make time for me as I will them. we likely won't be able to see each other all the time but a text, even a call, is important in my mind as they will be to you.I try to take care of myself, I work out daily. I attempt to eat healthy, but there are foods that are soooo tempting that I cannot resist at times!Dogs... they are in my life. They live with me, and they aren't going anywhere. They are loyal and love me unconditionally. They do not sleep with me! I respect honest people and especially those who stand up for human rights. (handicapped, women, children, ethnic, sexuality, etc)Hoping to find the man who I grow old with , whom I am totally comfortable being myself.I'm not perfect he's not perfect but we are good together. P.S. Yes I can travel... Was told I should add that. I have all in place so that I have flexibility in my life. some place we can talk, if goes well we can make other plans. something casual, relaxed.. no tim's

  • Hee

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    if I was a royal one might say I was queensize - however I continue to work to improve my outer shell by working out at the Y, swimming and hiking. I have a couple of requests of you - i do want teeth in your head (don't have to be your originals but please have them in your mouth! Secondly, don't contact me if you are just looking for sex, just go to a bar and leave me out if it! I would love to have some male companionship - at live music events, live sporting events, sitting at home and watching tv, going for a hike, going to the beach, or just walking around and talking.I am looking to date, for now but am open (hopeful) to finding more. Grudges are not worth my time -I heat up pretty quickly, but cool down just as fast. A good debate can be a lot of fun and you won't back down from something you believe in - your a man of conviction. You will have your priorities in order. You will have your own hobbies and passions, which I will respect. Your are intelligent, patient and tolerant if people's differences.I'm not looking for you to complete me, I am prety content with who I am. We can just have fun, and maybe one day it may become something else, who knows ... Oh, and by the way, I am not interested in a "textual" friendship - I will message back and forth for a bit, to see if there is any interest, but in short order I will want to meet.OK - last thing .. Will want to see your picture! First date - that could be almost anything - dinner, dancing, movie. Picnic, concert any kind of community event that might be on. The world is wide open. I am sure we can figure it out.

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