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Bertred, 49

United States, Nebraska, Fremont

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Starting over and looking for someone that values me as much as I value them. No games, no drama, a stable grown-up. Someone that knows the importance of hard work, but knows how to play. Working in real estate. I love it, but I am considering going back to school for medical. Life keeps interrupting my plans.Hobbies....Figuring that out again. Have been too busy in the past for hobbies. Interest are: children, animals, photography, travel, reading, hanging out with friends, pitching in for a good cause....nothing that I can say I will not do. I am an adrenaline junkie, but love adventure but not trying to kill myself. Jumping out of perfectly good plane is on my bucket list. I have two standard poodles, not my children, but they are better than therapy and unconditionally like me. God is a big part of my life, but I am open and respect other's views.Goals....going back to school for a degree in the medical field. I have lost a a lot of weight and am making incredible progress on me.. Hope to have a family of my own to share life. I am unable to have children, but would love meet someone with children or adopt. Be able to retire without worrying about money. Achieve balance in my reationships and life. I am good at being in a relationship, but I like my own company and am very independent. I love the moment when you look at each other...no words but you know each others thoughts. About me....Spent 16 years in Air Force intelligence and then was a local law enforcement for about 10 years with a break of two tours to Iraq as a Bomb Dog handler. I have extensive knowledge about medical. I am mechanical inclined and can fix things so my partner will not have to carry all of that. I am part tomboy and love the outdoors as long as it is not bitter cold. I am allergic to snow, but will shut up and color for the people that I love. I am comfortable in just about any situation. While I have alot of definite opinions and boundaries, I love to kidding around and feel if people tell you are "WRONG" and INAPPROPRIATE" .....you need to sit next to me because I bet your interesting. I am a communicator, but I also am also independent so quiet alone time is something I value and respect even if it is not something I need alot. I also need a guy that can match smart, tough and capable. I am affectionate, playfull and really upfront about my feelings. Experience and training have taught me to handle crisis calmly. I rarely quit on anything unless it is insanity to continue. I do not need to win, prefer compromise or collabration but hate thinking anything is a lost cause. I really try to see the good in things and believe that everyone is doing there best. However, I really think some people's best is pretty sad. I accept that I can't unsee somethings, but I am rediscovering the simple joys in life....such as having a moment to myself, sleeping in, taking a nap, going shopping with no intention what so ever of buying anything.Music...Pop, Country mostly but, anything not vulgar Anywhere that we can talk and see how we connect

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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