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Affton, 47

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I'm a bright, funny, and warm person. My friends say I'm a good listener and many of them trust me with their problems and confidences. I'm also very interested in the world and what happens in it, politically, socially, spiritually. I love to learn new things and meet people from different backgrounds. This carries over into my dining choices -- love trying new cuisines although I always ask for very mild on the heat scale. My hopes/plans for the future include finding my next vocation (where my deep joy and the world's deep needs intersect), traveling to Europe and maybe Africa and the Middle East,and continuing to find ways to express my creativity.The man I'd like to meet would be past the stage of needing to prove himself to the world or himself, but still have a passion for life and his partner and serving others. He may be athletic or not, but will have a keen interest in the life of the mind and the spirit as well as physical health. He will be physically and verbally affectionate, as I am, and have a kind and generous personality. After e-mailing or messaging for a few days, we've spoken on the phone. We laughed together a lot and want to meet in person, so we schedule dinner or drinks someplace pretty casual, or someplace with fun stuff to do. Like, a walk on the canal, or at the IMA, or a bookstore. When we've both arrived, we hug briefly, then sit, our eyes meeting. The server comes by WAY too early and asks if we need more time. Um, YES. We make the server go away one more time before choosing from the menu. As we eat, we find more things we have in common. Maybe your dad was a gearhead like mine (did he run through the house snatching blankets off the beds to protect his cars when it hailed?). Or maybe your first girlfriend had Farrah hair like I did in 7th grade). After dinner (I'll expect to pay for mine, but if you insist I'll probably give in)we'll walk together or check out an exhibit or head for the bookstore and share some of our favorite sections/authors together. When it's time to go home,you walk me to my car. We can both sense the warmth and energy of our connection beginning. As you say goodnight you lean down and kiss me to check out our physical connection. We both go home grinning and thinking about our next date.That's just one way things could go...what are YOUR first date ideas?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Armanda

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    In case you were not aware, the definition of "gawk" is to stare openly or stupidly. At any rate, in spite of how I might look in my photos, I have decent morals and values, and I expect you to have the same. But with that said, I am still a fun loving 40 something who thinks that age is just a number and who loves to go out dancing on the weekends. That would be crazy!As far as my type goes, I tend to really like people who are from different countries... especially Latin America and Europe, but I also date people from this country, too. I must add, though, that I don't match up well with people who are red neck types. Sorry, but I just have to be honest. I like people who are unique and cultured, and fun. And I must add that I really would like someone who enjoys dancing and who would go dancing with me on occasion. I also love going to concerts, and I especially enjoy 80s rock music... especially in the fall... although I am not a fundamentalist type, and I would not be comfortable dating someone who is either. I believe in having a good balance in life, and we can carry anything too far. . If my profile sparks an interest, please feel free to contact me.Cheers! I think a good first date would be to meet for a drink to see if there is any chemistry, and if things go well, then we can make plans for a second date.

  • Caileigh

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Enjoy the simple thing's in life, dont be so anxious to any point or destination. let your spirituality shine with positive energy.I am looking for someone who I can have an intellectual conversation with and who is confident without being arrogant. Someone who keeps themselves in shape, but not a body builder, that takes care of them self, one who is a good role model for the young ones and has a good heart and soul. I find it very sexy to cook together with a date, to learn from each other.Be yourself, life is to short to waste your time or someone else's. HONESTY IS A MUST!I love FOOTBALL! watching at home, a bar, at friends or at the game itself. I enjoy shooting pool ( I am no pool shark), corn hole, cards and action/drama movies.I'm not one for sitting back waiting for something happen, I make it happen. I love to travel so traveling is no obstacle for me.

  • Edyth

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am new at this,but here goes.I am 47 years old,i have recently decided to start dating again.I have not dated for around 3 years because I was caring for my mother because she had cancer.Mommy passed away December 26,***.After her passing I started caring for grand children and great nieces and a great nephew.That all ended in March ***,so I now have my own life back.I am ready to become a part of society again.Everything about dating seems foreign to me so the other person that may be interested in me I hope will be patient.I will want to take things slow.Enough for now I can answer questions at a later time. Meet for coffee and maybe a motorcycle ride.

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