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Affton, 47

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About Me

I'm a bright, funny, and warm person. My friends say I'm a good listener and many of them trust me with their problems and confidences. I'm also very interested in the world and what happens in it, politically, socially, spiritually. I love to learn new things and meet people from different backgrounds. This carries over into my dining choices -- love trying new cuisines although I always ask for very mild on the heat scale. My hopes/plans for the future include finding my next vocation (where my deep joy and the world's deep needs intersect), traveling to Europe and maybe Africa and the Middle East,and continuing to find ways to express my creativity.The man I'd like to meet would be past the stage of needing to prove himself to the world or himself, but still have a passion for life and his partner and serving others. He may be athletic or not, but will have a keen interest in the life of the mind and the spirit as well as physical health. He will be physically and verbally affectionate, as I am, and have a kind and generous personality. After e-mailing or messaging for a few days, we've spoken on the phone. We laughed together a lot and want to meet in person, so we schedule dinner or drinks someplace pretty casual, or someplace with fun stuff to do. Like, a walk on the canal, or at the IMA, or a bookstore. When we've both arrived, we hug briefly, then sit, our eyes meeting. The server comes by WAY too early and asks if we need more time. Um, YES. We make the server go away one more time before choosing from the menu. As we eat, we find more things we have in common. Maybe your dad was a gearhead like mine (did he run through the house snatching blankets off the beds to protect his cars when it hailed?). Or maybe your first girlfriend had Farrah hair like I did in 7th grade). After dinner (I'll expect to pay for mine, but if you insist I'll probably give in)we'll walk together or check out an exhibit or head for the bookstore and share some of our favorite sections/authors together. When it's time to go home,you walk me to my car. We can both sense the warmth and energy of our connection beginning. As you say goodnight you lean down and kiss me to check out our physical connection. We both go home grinning and thinking about our next date.That's just one way things could go...what are YOUR first date ideas?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Donetta

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    "... because someday you will find that one person who deserves all your love, who deserves every part of you." Love that quote .. I'm pretty easy going.I don't like conflict or drama. I want to enjoy life. I am a little shy at first , but once I get to know you , I'm fine. Please don't contact me if you don't have the time for a relationship. I want someone who has the time to spend with me and make that a priority. I love all animals, I have 3 Yorkies and two cats all rescues but one.They are very important to me, so if you don't like cats & dogs I'm prob. not for you.I have a big heart and am sometimes too nice, but I get that from my wonderful mother who taught me compassion, to treat ppl the way you would want to be treated, You never know what the person standing next to you in line or driving in front of you are going through in there life. I learned the hard way. I love to laugh and be around friends, go hear a band and dance( not crazy about country music ),dining out and trying diff. places. They don't have to be fancy or expensive. I love to go to the beach. I could lay there all day ! LOL I love to travel, haven't done it enough yet. I'm looking for someone who will treat me with respect and honesty & I will do the same. I like to be treated like a lady. I'm on here to find a good guy for a long term relationship,so I'm going to be picky.Please don't be offended if I don't respond to your message. I really do read profiles , I don't judge by pics only,so if I don't respond , for some reason I didn't think we made a good match. My sister made me add this in , Really it's not me.......everyone guesses that I'm in my 30's :) Good genes & a healthy life I guess ! Meet for a drink or coffee,dinner, talk get to know each other.

  • Dorethea

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm 46 and single like country and rock :)

  • Sherryl

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I love the outdoors. Enjoy hiking, camping, fishing, and organic gardening. I'm an animal person, I have a dog, one cat and a house rabbit. Would have horses if I could. I also like to ride on motorcycles. I really love to cook! I love to travel and try new things like zip-lining and sky-diving. If Dad could do it, I could do it. meet at a restaurant or public place

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