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About Me

At this point in my life I am ready, I am open, I am wanting to be with someone that deserves me again. Someone available to be all that they can be. Someone to nurture the being that I am. Someone to support my ambitions, hopes and dreams. A friend, a lover, a worthy opponent to go all 10 rounds, toe to toe in this dance of life. A soft place at the end of the day to fall............ I am fun loving and like to look on the bright side of life. I am looking for an honest, sincere, good hearted man who can help me be the best I can be. Someone that likes to laugh, enjoys the small things that life has to offer as well as the GRAND.....I like to keep active but also enjoy a nice relaxing day poolside or at the beach. Love the sun and the smell of the salt air. Timeless books and movies that make you wonder for days about whose side you are on put great flavor into many of my evenings.A perfect combination of things......cafe mocha, two of my favorite things coffee and chocolate!!Prefer at this point in my life to have a relationship with someone that does not drink or do drugs. Life is short living it clean is living it HAPPY. What's your story? What are your greatest pet-peeves and what makes you weak in your knees from joy and happiness. What sets you apart? PS. Guys very impressive you can catch a fish and I won't go hungry but a bigger turn on is a picture of your Harley or a pie that you made from scratch!!! Planning the perfect bank heist.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Kitty

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Having to set up a new profile after one in which I was ***years old. I had set up the profile as no one is searchable after the age of 99 and I was curious and wanted to kinda lurk...test the waters. meetville rules does not allow one to communicate with anyone 14 years younger or older which meant I could only correspond with someone older than 87...and won't delete my account so it is now "hidden"...and I now have an ALIAS. I am discovering men mostly don't read profiles anyway. Sorta like reading comic books, they just prefer to look at pictures. It is complicated....I seek chemistry - and you may ask what is that? Chemistry is a connection that to many, may seem magical and unrealistic. but it is simply the accumulation of what we are and who we have become, bringing two people together in the moment, and is much too complicated to ever analyze so we call it "love" I seek chemistry with someone who possesses charm, a flair for living, who can live life honestly, with personal integrity and financial stability. I am attracted to intelligence coupled with common sense. I stay fit and eat healthy and desire that quality in a partner. I desire somebody who is wise, someone with as much or more energy than me and who has at least as much zest for life as me and a kind heart as that is the key to the equation. And there must be Chemistry....I am a positive person of moral fiber while still enjoying things spontaneously. I often think and sometimes act outside the box. Excess within control. Descriptive for me would be loyal, fun-loving, energetic compassionate, moral, frugal, athletic, adaptable, sensitive, intuitive, living reclusive in a debt free life style in the country, charming with a dry quick wit and sense of humor and very sensual with the right mate.I didn't "blow up the t.v." but I avoid most of the rot and prefer to rent movies from the library, preferring independent films and documentaries over mainstream movies. I avoid movies containing gratuitous sex and violence; finding both to be raw and demeaning and insults my intelligence and imagination. So no couch potatoes please...I am vegetarian...and finding this is an element in my life that should be seriously considered in seeking a future partner. I love animals. I don't eat them. I own and live on an organic farm...I grow (not kill) what I eat. Life is simple if you have control of your simple needs. Life is good....not easy...but good! Vegetarianism is not just an ethical decision but part of the solution to the global, economical, ecological problems on Earth plus a health based choice. I am often told that I am a great chef. I love to cook with lots of spices. My cuisine is never dull!I love being in and around the water, having taught swimming (WSI) for 14 years, I crew on a racing sailboat and am resurrecting an antique racing sailboat for the ***racing season. I love exploration and hiking, potlucks and dancing to live music. Flying and travel is important. I am willing to travel to see a good band play or to hike a special place.People often portray themselves as perfect and no one is perfect, we are all imperfect. I am imperfectly perfect. What is more important is to not carry around a lot of baggage and to be responsible for your actions and I am able to do both of these things successfully. I have been blessed in life and am single my choice as I do know what I want and willing to wait it out, Life is what we make it. I strive to make each day special, I work hard and play harder. We live in a world that functions in an unrealistic way and at an alarming pace. I maintain a steady pace and search for what my soul tells me is real. No time for games. I am focused on developing a good relationship with a like- I am impatiently patient. If you can't post a photo, we probably have little in common, not being judgmental nor unrealistic in my expectations physically, but in order to begin communicating with someone, at least for me, a photograph to put a face on a person is pertinent."Everybody is after being extraordinary. That is the search of the ego: to be someone who is special, to be someone who is unique, incomparable. It is such an ordinary desire. If you become ordinary, the very search to be ordinary is extraordinary, because rarely does somebody want to be just nobody, rarely does somebody want to be just a hollow, empty space. This is really extraordinary in a way, because nobody wants it. And when you become ordinary you become extraordinary, and, of course, suddenly you discover that without searching you have become unique."- Osho (Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh) the hardest part....wish the first date was optional! And the last "date" :-)

  • Yan

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    For my "Body Type" description I have selected "Average"....Whatever that means. I'm probably more of a tie between thin and athletic. As a laid back extrovert, I enjoy being around people, especially family and friends, I like to be busy but know how to relax.I'm a hard worker, self sufficient, down to earth, extremely honest, dependable, loyal, family oriented and fun to be with.I love anything outdoors (not so much shoveling snow though ((grin)). I usually have fun no matter what I am doing, I am an animal lover and a very giving person. These two traits are something I would like to find in a man. Honesty is also critical. A good or warped sense of humor is a plus. Is it considered wine tasting if we drink the entire bottle?I am fairly fit and not interested in a guy who is extremely overweight. If you like BBW, I'm not for you. Well, I have rambled on long enough, Send me a note if would like to know more about me. Thanks for stopping by..... I look forward to hearing from you. "Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you smile." Author Unknown Dumpster diving or maybe we could meet for a beverage.

  • Iyanna

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Well to start with there aren’t many people I have met that I didn’t have some type of common ground with. I like to socialize, keep active and stay healthy in both mind and body. I absolutely love to laugh, get people to have a hearty 'belly laugh' and I love it when it’s to the point of tears! A little about me: I love to cook & entertain family/friends for sport events (love college football), birthdays, celebrations, etc. I enjoy live music/theater/comedy, traveling along with driving/riding the hill country and taking the roads less traveled which is a great way to make a new memory! Other likes: poker, card games, board games, wine & touring wineries, camping/RV’ing, boating and people watching with dark sunglasses!!! Some things I’d like my guy to possess: integrity, honesty, giving and receiving affection, compassion for people and treat others the way he'd like to be treated. Please, no players or married men and I am NOT looking for a hookup. It's not my style and it's a very empty path to take. I am interested in new adventures with someone special...a companion, lover and best friend who's looking for the same. A life partner is the goal, although you can't look for it...it just happens ;-) meeting up for coffee, an adult beverage or a walk...something casual. Hoping to have a good connection and both of us would like to have a 2nd date.

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