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About Me

I love pizza, long kisses, a good cup of coffee, live bands, cooking with friends, a great read, comedies and biking. I am often hounding my friends to bike with me so if you are a biker that would be great but certainly not required. Some of your favorites?"When Harry Met Sally" is one of my favorite movies. One of my favorite lines from that movie is from Billy Crystal when he said "When you meet the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you want the rest of your life to begin right away." I’m looking for that “right” person. A man who is balanced, honest, secure, and understands the importance of good communication. Life is short....lets meet after sending a few *** think chemistry is important and in person is the only way to figure that out. If you like to have fun, have a positive outlook on life and are willing to meet in person...contact me! Meet for a short time and see if the sparks fly. Coffee? Drinks?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kirstie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm a fun, fit, tall professional - so I'm told. Bit of a contradiction in that I am very social with a busy schedule yet enjoy my quiet time and am comfortable with that. I have a great quality of life due to the choices I have made - some easy, some difficult. I've worked hard my whole life and it is a value that is non negotiable in a partner. I'm pretty independent and self-sufficient with great, cool friends. I have good *** intuitive) that I trust and am a pretty good judge of people. I'm open-minded, told I have a quick wit and good sense of humor and am looking for the same. Also looking for a stable man who is kind and has interests of his own yet also some that we share. I am grateful always for the quality of life I enjoy including a job I don't mind getting out of bed to go to, good friends - including my sister - and a beautiful area in which to live with a wonderful sense of community. I can be on the water or in the woods in five minutes. I'm energetic and try to live a healthy lifestyle but am not obsessed and love a good burger and a beer now and again. Life is short. A hole in the wall trumps a 5 star restaurant any day.I'm a curious blend of city/country; sophistication/simple; dresses/muddy jeans - and can morph into either at anytime. Gardening is a passion and you might find me getting filthy in my garden shoveling compost one day or mingling at a fundraiser the next. If you're willing to tag along with me that would be great as I'm very involved in my community. An avid reader, I always have a book in progress. I like running the occasional 5K now and again for the fun of it, playing 9 holes for the frustration of it and love all things outdoors! I find peace in nature and working in my garden brings me incredible joy (and a backache lately!). Being on the water or on top of a mountain makes me happy. I believe in "live and let live" and people should be able to make their own choices and live their lives however they choose, makes life interesting. I'm more NPR than Rush; I enjoy thought-provoking documentaries as well as independent music and movies over mainstream. Anything off the beaten path actually...I'm grateful that I notice the little things like a butterfly flittering by. So if you're in my car, you're basically trapped.Experience has taught me that I'm best suited for someone who is down-to-earth, unpretentious, open-minded, laid back yet active, reasonably ambitious and one who understands that being kind and compassionate and gentle is actually indicative of great strength in a man, not weakness.Need a pic of you - only fair. :) Good luck in your search! Meeting for a casual beer or a cup of coffee. I really like sitting across from someone and talking...only way to tell if that elusive chemistry exists after all.

  • Mickey

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    HI! I'm a very passionate person with an infectious personality! I'm fun and ready to go out with someone who wants to have fun and can commit!... where I am from! I am a happy person who loves people. I think I am unique in that I have a true honest free spirit feel about me that draws people in. I love to smile, I like helping others. I enjoy tennis, riding bikes, going to art shows, sitting outside on a patio cutting up and being very social. I love to hold hands and kiss. I am very passionate about physical chemistry. Has to be there for me. I love the water. It brings me peace. I am more of a dres girl but like my jeans and boots too. I try to stay in shape and love to work out. I like to cook when I have time, and am a very family driven! But my family does not control my life as I make my own decisions. My boys and I have a very close relationship and they do also with their father. They are too old anyway. ***is off in college and doing well. I have some what of a successful career so it is important to me to meet someone who is successful and happy with what he does. I am also a singer and I am back taking music lessons to fulfill some of my goals and dreams. I am first off just looking for someone I can see myself with and that I am attracted to. A trustworthy man willing and ready to open up his heart to a wonderful girl who can love me deeply and passionately. I want to respect and look up to you and believe in you 100% and that you will have my back or will just be there to hold me when I cry. We really all come with baggage so if your one to say no baggage or drama ,shoot you find someone without it and I will have to say they have not lived. LOL Also if your married or looking for a sweet girl to help you while your get out of a long relationship, move on. I want divorced and happy. Not separated or in limbo. I want a man who is real and true, not fake and see if we can find love again . Real love. Not into big drinking men either. Also, let me just add one or two more things too, if you have lots of tattoos I'm not your girl, I just don't like them but then again Adam Levine has them and he could not be nicer but they are just not pretty to me. But if your everything I am looking for , I can for sure let the tats go. Its not a complete deal breaker. So, if you think we would be good to at least meet, then don't chat with me a bunch , I wont do that or give my phone number out , but I will meet you!!! Happy fishing....

  • Coral

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    In my book, big words are better. I find it entertaining to play Devil\'s Advocate and see if you can prove your argument in a discussion. Look for smart successful and of course loving partner.

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