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Kirstie, 48

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About Me

I'm a fun, fit, tall professional - so I'm told. Bit of a contradiction in that I am very social with a busy schedule yet enjoy my quiet time and am comfortable with that. I have a great quality of life due to the choices I have made - some easy, some difficult. I've worked hard my whole life and it is a value that is non negotiable in a partner. I'm pretty independent and self-sufficient with great, cool friends. I have good *** intuitive) that I trust and am a pretty good judge of people. I'm open-minded, told I have a quick wit and good sense of humor and am looking for the same. Also looking for a stable man who is kind and has interests of his own yet also some that we share. I am grateful always for the quality of life I enjoy including a job I don't mind getting out of bed to go to, good friends - including my sister - and a beautiful area in which to live with a wonderful sense of community. I can be on the water or in the woods in five minutes. I'm energetic and try to live a healthy lifestyle but am not obsessed and love a good burger and a beer now and again. Life is short. A hole in the wall trumps a 5 star restaurant any day.I'm a curious blend of city/country; sophistication/simple; dresses/muddy jeans - and can morph into either at anytime. Gardening is a passion and you might find me getting filthy in my garden shoveling compost one day or mingling at a fundraiser the next. If you're willing to tag along with me that would be great as I'm very involved in my community. An avid reader, I always have a book in progress. I like running the occasional 5K now and again for the fun of it, playing 9 holes for the frustration of it and love all things outdoors! I find peace in nature and working in my garden brings me incredible joy (and a backache lately!). Being on the water or on top of a mountain makes me happy. I believe in "live and let live" and people should be able to make their own choices and live their lives however they choose, makes life interesting. I'm more NPR than Rush; I enjoy thought-provoking documentaries as well as independent music and movies over mainstream. Anything off the beaten path actually...I'm grateful that I notice the little things like a butterfly flittering by. So if you're in my car, you're basically trapped.Experience has taught me that I'm best suited for someone who is down-to-earth, unpretentious, open-minded, laid back yet active, reasonably ambitious and one who understands that being kind and compassionate and gentle is actually indicative of great strength in a man, not weakness.Need a pic of you - only fair. :) Good luck in your search! Meeting for a casual beer or a cup of coffee. I really like sitting across from someone and talking...only way to tell if that elusive chemistry exists after all.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dionne

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hi there. Whatever I write here, falls in the shadow of *** have my specific tastes, but am open to just about anyone who stirs my imagination. Bonus points if you make me laugh. Well placed sarcasm usually works or if not, try falling off the hammock. Will you teach me to speak french, surf or play golf? have fake arguments? I'm attracted to quiet confidence and masculinity. I try to keep it on the healthy side, will definitely let loose at the right time. I characterize myself as a realistic optimist and tend to focus on peoples better qualities. At the same time, I'm well aware of my lesser ones and keep trying to do better. I like country roads, mountains, lakes, the beach, driving ranges, my backyard, old hotel bars, steak, oysters and wine. I'll travel just about anywhere. I also like to turn off the phone and settle in with a movie or good book. If I like you, I will cook for you. It seems apt for online dating.) Are you fun, athletic, tall and handsome? Who doesn't want that? Like I wrote, I have proclivities, but I have learned that true attraction come in all shapes and sizes. Ideally you would like to share some good food and wine with me, go for a ride or hike or just sit on a bench in the city and people watch. I'm pretty much up for anything as long as the conversation is flowing. I also love to watch movies (think The Proposition...it's dark AND Nick Cave wrote the soundtrack) and like music. I have a strong affinity for alt-country, rock, Ethiopian jazz, slide guitar and music that make you shake your thang. If you like mt. biking on single track, write me now please! I can geek out about my garden. I'm the opposite of high maintenance but I do love it if you spoil me just a little bit. I'm drawn to calm and grounded people. Obviously all dating starts on a casual level, so let's go have some fun and forget about putting pressure on first dates because maybe we'll find friendship *** that's never a bad thing.I will probably tease you for your quirks. Anything with you. Hopefully it will make me want to hold your hand.I hate to end on a cranky note but NO CYBER SEX driveby's, video cams, hook ups or one night stands. I'm not judgmental. If you are looking for that, go for it...just not with me. I will not sext or send naughty pictures...unless you have won me over, that is : ). In that case, anything can happen!

  • Sidney

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE...Here are three little words to keep in your heart and head. Live for the here and now, not something that happened years ago. Laugh at least once a day. It's infectious. Love like you want to be loved.Life is good. If you are looking for a bighearted, yet independent woman, then go no further. My son and I have a wonderful relationship. He is 14 and still loves doing things together. He knows that will never change, but it is time for some adult conversation and activities.Like most women, I want the honesty, loyalty, caring....But, I'm pretty low maintenance meaning I don't spend 3 hours in front of the mirror before I go out. What you see is what you get....no games. Just me. Drop me a note. Who knows.....that would have to be a mutual decision.

  • Jesusita

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Thanks for stopping by...I am 48 years old and looking for a best friend and a lover; these 2 things seem to me to make up a successful relationship. I am the youngest of 7 in a large Italian family. We are a big crew when we all get together. We don't see each other as often as we'd like, but I consider us to all be close. I am an honest, loyal and supportive person. I am very compassionate and very passionate as well. I am very blessed to have the family,friends,children and health that I have and I would want to be with someone else that appreciates their life the same way.I have four children the youngest one is 18. My oldest two are out of the house and live nearby. I work in the human service field and do some consulting providing social skills and sexuality education for people with disabilities.I love to do a variety of outdoor things of which hitting the beach and any type of water sport would be high on the list. I still want to learn to sail and surf (on my bucket list) I am hoping to live by the water within the next five years.I'm have a positive, upbeat, and outgoing personality and would like someone similar. I like all types of music and people. Love outdoor concerts! I'm not a big gym person, but I do like to exercise outdoors. I love biking, walking, swimming, football (Patriots Fan)as well as reading, movies, restaurants (Italians always like to eat!) Most of all I enjoy entertaining. I love to have people over and cook for them. I am a good cook and really enjoy any form of hospitality. You will never starve with me. However that said, I love when a man can cook and enjoys cooking for me. I like someone who can treat me like a lady, but know me like a buddy and best friend. Hope to meet you soon! I guess for me I would prefer to do something neutral like going out to eat in a place where we can talk and get to know each other and see if there is some chemistry brewing. I'm not that fussy about where we go or what we do, but would just want to be able to have time to talk and get to know each other. I do like going somewhere that has a band, piano, or person playing guitar and having music in the background. Pretty open, we can figure out what works for both of us.

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