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Kirstie, 48

Offline, last seen Mon, 04 May 2026 10:15:54

About Me

I'm a fun, fit, tall professional - so I'm told. Bit of a contradiction in that I am very social with a busy schedule yet enjoy my quiet time and am comfortable with that. I have a great quality of life due to the choices I have made - some easy, some difficult. I've worked hard my whole life and it is a value that is non negotiable in a partner. I'm pretty independent and self-sufficient with great, cool friends. I have good *** intuitive) that I trust and am a pretty good judge of people. I'm open-minded, told I have a quick wit and good sense of humor and am looking for the same. Also looking for a stable man who is kind and has interests of his own yet also some that we share. I am grateful always for the quality of life I enjoy including a job I don't mind getting out of bed to go to, good friends - including my sister - and a beautiful area in which to live with a wonderful sense of community. I can be on the water or in the woods in five minutes. I'm energetic and try to live a healthy lifestyle but am not obsessed and love a good burger and a beer now and again. Life is short. A hole in the wall trumps a 5 star restaurant any day.I'm a curious blend of city/country; sophistication/simple; dresses/muddy jeans - and can morph into either at anytime. Gardening is a passion and you might find me getting filthy in my garden shoveling compost one day or mingling at a fundraiser the next. If you're willing to tag along with me that would be great as I'm very involved in my community. An avid reader, I always have a book in progress. I like running the occasional 5K now and again for the fun of it, playing 9 holes for the frustration of it and love all things outdoors! I find peace in nature and working in my garden brings me incredible joy (and a backache lately!). Being on the water or on top of a mountain makes me happy. I believe in "live and let live" and people should be able to make their own choices and live their lives however they choose, makes life interesting. I'm more NPR than Rush; I enjoy thought-provoking documentaries as well as independent music and movies over mainstream. Anything off the beaten path actually...I'm grateful that I notice the little things like a butterfly flittering by. So if you're in my car, you're basically trapped.Experience has taught me that I'm best suited for someone who is down-to-earth, unpretentious, open-minded, laid back yet active, reasonably ambitious and one who understands that being kind and compassionate and gentle is actually indicative of great strength in a man, not weakness.Need a pic of you - only fair. :) Good luck in your search! Meeting for a casual beer or a cup of coffee. I really like sitting across from someone and talking...only way to tell if that elusive chemistry exists after all.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abagale

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a very laid back type of women, looking for someone who knows what he want, really don't want to date anyone with small children, I like going to the ocean and dining out, love my wine. I am a bartender at and Italian restraunt, I am Italian and love to cook, I Do carry a few extra pds butit is what it is. I don't like to really go out to clubs anymore, nothing saying I wouldn't want to go listen to a band, I would much rather stay Home cook out on the grill drink some wine, throw on a good movie and cuddle,, well that's enough for now, if interested please contact... See what happens,meet on public soooo we can see if we have a connection,go from their

  • Mi

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I will start with my favorite sport. Football..... I love sitting by water. It is tranquil and relaxing to me.. my favorite drink is coffee hahaha (ask my kids) I love most music but not heavy metal. Please if you are under 45 do not respond. Maybe just going to a coffee shop and conversation just to see if we're compatible

  • Chere

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    So, lets get the body stuff on the table because it seems to be a large concern and if I'm not for you, you haven't wasted any time reading this! I fall into what this site refers to as "big and beautiful". I'm not a bone rack, but I'm not an amazon or a blob either. "A few extra pounds" to me means less than 10 lbs and that certainly doesn't describe me (or most women) at all. I'm proportional and curvy yet very active, but not an athlete. But I'm a crapload of fun, so what I lack in body perfection I make up for in charm! Plus I'm freakin' adorable. :)(Skip to the last paragraph if you think you need to know more about my body)I'm a 46 year old writer. I'm passionate and easy going. I enjoy being active (canoing, golf, surfung, boogie boarding, skiing, hiking). But I also enjoy staying home with good company. I love to talk about the silly and the important. I'm a glass half full kinda girl and am generally upbeat and positive. But not someone who's annoyingly upbeat ('cept in the morning, I'm told). I love a good baseball game, hot dogs and beer, but I clean up well and can rock the little black dress for the right occasion too. I like everything water...pools, beaches, boating, surfing, swimming, jet skiing. My musical playlist has Beethoven to ZZ Top. Someone who loves a great discussion even when we disagree. Someone outgoing who doesn't need someone by his side ***. But is ok if thats the way it happens too. Someone open-minded and non judgmental who can at least try to see all sides of things even if it stretches beyond his belief system. Someone who can be self-depreciating and who doesn't take himself too seriously but who is mature enough to know when being serious is appropriate. Someone affectionate but not clingy, loving but not possessive, loyal but not jealous. A great sense of humor is a huge plus! I will always be honest with you and you will never wonder how I feel.I'm sorry this part needs to be said, but in my experience it does! Please save the sex/body talk until we've gotten to know each other a little better! If you wouldn't say it to me the moment you met me in a bar (or in front of your mother), then it's not appropriate here. We are strangers right now. I'm looking for a relationship and ALL its benefits including sex. But there's a time and place. If we click, then this will fall into place. To be clear, this includes asking my bra size, requesting pictures of my feet, hands, etc, telling me how much sexual pleasure I will get from your massages. A) its not very creative (prove you have more to offer) B) its a bit shallow C) it sets a bad tone (with me). Be better than that. Please. Anything that allows us to talk....without screaming!

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