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Hildegarde, 44

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About Me

I am a very logical, common sense person. Honest & trustworthy but have a very low tolerance for BS & games. In person, I am shy and somewhat reserved at first , but goofy, quirky & fun the more comfortable I get. I love to laugh, smile & have fun... and I would go out of my way for the person I love, but I can't build you up & put you on a pedestal if I don't trust & respect you first. I am looking for : a kind-hearted, dependable & loving gentleman that enjoys the simple things in life. Someone I can trust... A man of his word. A man who takes responsibility for himself, his actions, his family and home; and who has a good work ethic. Someone who is faithful, who respects the person he's with enough to give the relationship 100%, who's willing to truly work as a team to make it work. Someone who loves God, who enjoys watching football, walking/running, going to the beach, movies, music, festivals and road trips. Someone who likes to hold hands, someone who is inspired & passionate about what he loves & believes in. Anyone can *say* they like/love and appreciate you. I want someone who shows it... not so much with material gifts, but with their behavior. I love a BIG heart, but also a strong back bone. I LOVE integrity - doing whats right even when it's not popular; doing what's right even when no one's watching. Treating others the way you want them to treat you. What I'm not looking for (i.e. BS): ***Negativity: Life is way too short be so focused on the negative. If you're unhappy with your job or some aspect of your life, do something about it. Complaining solves nothing. ***Game player: I have no interest in someone who makes plans they have no intention of keeping; who's so self-centered that they give no thought or concern about wasting other people's time, etc - You will always know exactly where you stand with me. I expect and want the same. Speak up. No games. ***I am also not interested in people with constant unnecessary drama in their life or those who go out of their way to create it. If you have an ongoing battle with your ex(es), baby drama, more than one baby momma, unable to pay your bills, take care of your responsibilities and constantly blame everyone else (except yourself) for your life woes, We are not a match. I live a simple, drama-free life because I prefer it that way. Anywhere quiet so we can talk & get to know one another better

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kaci

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    First let me say that I am a bit old fashioned, If a man doesn't have the courage to write me a message to say hi when he is interested and see if there is any connection then I don't view him as a person I'd be interested in. I'm not into people that can't take the bull by the horns so to speak. :-) I am normally attracted to someone who is out going but not prideful and self involved. I also like the person I'm dating to be in somewhat good shape(not perfect) and not be too thin. I need someone to hold onto...lol. I'm a bit like a sweet quiet storm that is nice to enjoy and is soothing to the soul. The kind that makes you want to cuddle up and just listen as it rumbles in the distance, And sometimes I'm bright, sudden, exciting and fun. The kind that gets your heart beating fast! That makes you want to dance and feel the sweet rain on your skin. I am a mixture of both the quiet, peaceful, serene, laid back part of the world but I also get charged, eager, passionate and ready for the excitement that the world has to offer. Why pick just one way to live. I'm here to learn and enjoy life along with learning from my mistakes, and I have made many mistakes in life and am humbled. I'm hoping that I can find someone who understands the true meaning of being humbled and can be thankful for all the blessings that are given to us to try again and again. I am not one of those who believes that I am always right, actually everyone has a rightness in their own logic but it comes down to finding the best way to accomplish things together with compromise on both sides. My relationship with God is also very important to me and I hope to find someone that may not be perfect but loves God and strives to be a better person everyday. I'm extremely honest and loyal and never falter in my promises to be true to the person I love. I was married for 17yrs and there is no drama or craziness between my ex and I. We are still friends and on good terms with each other. I am a very cuddly type of person and I love to give hugs and touches through out the day to the person I love. I am not object-oriented, materialistic or overly concerned with fashion and looks but I work hard to be able have adventures and I keep myself in pretty good shape. I'm not the kind you will find in a gym but I prefer to workout in the beautiful outdoors whether it's raining or not, bring it on. :-) I don't like to crowd others, and sometimes need space to myself but I also love get togethers with friends and family.I'm a phlebotomist who loves my work. I work with donors who are amazing and giving. I am blessed with a job that can help save peoples lives and it humbles me.I have three great children-18, 7 and 6, full of energy who like to do anything outside. We like to go camping, hiking and swimming. As long as it's outside they're up for it, even helping out doing yardwork.I also love to joke around so If I like you, you're in for it ;-)PS. If you don't have your divorce papers signed and dated please do not contact me. It's a waste of everyone's time and energy. I like to go on walks in a park or laying on a lawn and talking when I first meet someone, but I'm open to whatever you'd like. :-)

  • Collene

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Looking for a confident (not C o c k y) man that can make me laugh...my pick would be sexy, funny, honest, fun-natured (and even a smartass)... But can you have fun and still manage to take care of your responsibilities?? (LOL) Turn Ons:* Laughing til my ribs hurt* a man's bi-ceps* touches, pats on the butt when passing in the hall* 70's, 80's music * dancing (exspecially slow with a partner)* kisses where ur almost touching but just don't quite...* back rubs* a beautiful smile* beautiful lips* holding hands* cuddling* a man running his fingers through my hair* a man that does his own grocery shopping &-patter...If interested, give me a shout...would love to hear from you!

  • Rima

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I strive to be a good person who loves to laugh and has a good heart. I care deeply about my family and friends. I have an adventurous side and my friends would say I am outgoing dependable and friendly. I am ever the optimist and continue to count my many blessings everyday. I love to dance and find it to be one of the best stress busters ever!! I really enjoy traveling and I spend as much time at my trailer as I can during the summer months. This is my happy place where I can unplug and unwind !! I have two active teenage boys who keep me busy and entertained all year long with Ball and Hockey. Respectful, Positive, confident men are the sexiest. I love to laugh and it feels great to be with a man that can let their guard down and be silly sometimes. If you find me attractive I would love to hear from you. I am ultimately looking for something real so if you are not interested in dating or getting to know ME, or if you are married please do not waste your time or mine. I am not into endless *** chats if you are really interested ....ask me out on a date......dont just flag me on the Meet Me !!

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