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Hildegarde, 44

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About Me

I am a very logical, common sense person. Honest & trustworthy but have a very low tolerance for BS & games. In person, I am shy and somewhat reserved at first , but goofy, quirky & fun the more comfortable I get. I love to laugh, smile & have fun... and I would go out of my way for the person I love, but I can't build you up & put you on a pedestal if I don't trust & respect you first. I am looking for : a kind-hearted, dependable & loving gentleman that enjoys the simple things in life. Someone I can trust... A man of his word. A man who takes responsibility for himself, his actions, his family and home; and who has a good work ethic. Someone who is faithful, who respects the person he's with enough to give the relationship 100%, who's willing to truly work as a team to make it work. Someone who loves God, who enjoys watching football, walking/running, going to the beach, movies, music, festivals and road trips. Someone who likes to hold hands, someone who is inspired & passionate about what he loves & believes in. Anyone can *say* they like/love and appreciate you. I want someone who shows it... not so much with material gifts, but with their behavior. I love a BIG heart, but also a strong back bone. I LOVE integrity - doing whats right even when it's not popular; doing what's right even when no one's watching. Treating others the way you want them to treat you. What I'm not looking for (i.e. BS): ***Negativity: Life is way too short be so focused on the negative. If you're unhappy with your job or some aspect of your life, do something about it. Complaining solves nothing. ***Game player: I have no interest in someone who makes plans they have no intention of keeping; who's so self-centered that they give no thought or concern about wasting other people's time, etc - You will always know exactly where you stand with me. I expect and want the same. Speak up. No games. ***I am also not interested in people with constant unnecessary drama in their life or those who go out of their way to create it. If you have an ongoing battle with your ex(es), baby drama, more than one baby momma, unable to pay your bills, take care of your responsibilities and constantly blame everyone else (except yourself) for your life woes, We are not a match. I live a simple, drama-free life because I prefer it that way. Anywhere quiet so we can talk & get to know one another better

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Must love Wolves!! I work hard and go to school but have been told I already hold a Master's in humorous sarcasm. Easy going and genuinely nice is the type of man I am looking for. I like just about any kind of music and finding a dance partner would be fantastic. If you are offended by Ladies who have tattoos, you should be informed that mine are classy and hidden, but still there and I will be getting more. I am very independent and NOT looking for someone to take care of me, nor do I put up with someone wanting me to take care of them. Everyone has some type of baggage or drama in life, so expecting everything to be drama free is ridiculous as long as the drama in life does not cause major heartache or is preventable. I love many activities but unfortunately limited temporarily because of school. Makes it hard to meet new people but with patience comes reward. Thank you for reading and have a fabulous day! A first date is almost like an interview, trying to find out about the person sitting across from you. I am pretty much game for anything from a movie, dinner, theme park, sporting event, a new adventure, a simple cup of coffee, or a walk by the lake or ocean.

  • Ormonda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a happy,optimistic person with a great family and great friends but looking for that one person to enjoy life with.I am a hopeless romantic.Love the beach or anything to do with the water,seeing live bands,fleamarkets,yardsales,barbecuing and bonfires.Do not want to deal with people who do drugs or are alcoholics.Anything else just ask...New note-I am not on here for a booty call can find that at bar.Looking for my best friend! Meet for a drink or coffee and see how it goes from there.

  • Maribeth

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am genuine, outgoing, and love to smile and laugh. I can be a complete goof, but also have a serious enough side that seems to attract people telling me some of their deepest secrets or problems. I am honored when people put their trust in me, and I take that trust seriously. I would describe myself physically as kind of athletically curvy - if there is such a thing! I am easy going and open minded, and would like to find someone of a similar mindset. I love to golf, cook, travel, spend time at the lake - (camping or cabin life). I don't have kids, but I love having them in my life (and they seem to like me!)...it just didn't happen for me. My dog is a big part of my life...she has been a solid companion through good and not so good times. I return the favor by being dog's best friend. Not a crazy dog lady - just someone who recognizes that I am her world. Obviously a dog person, but also grew up with horses and a veritable 'arc' of animals, and so have a huge appreciation for animals in general. Giving back to our community is important to me - I do it in my daily job, as well as in volunteer capacities. I am creative, and enjoy photography, travel, drives, watching planes at the airport, ski boats, sailboats - anything near water Except my golf ball); mornings at the farmers market with a good coffee, hockey/football games, or going to see a movie or a play at MTC. As fas as music... my radio is often set to 103, 106, ***& CBC...- pretty much everything except heavy metal...and even that has its little place. I am a positive person, who appreciates the little things in life... the smell of the rain, the sound of the leaves in the wind, comforts of home, spending time with friends. Integrity is important to me, as is communication, and thoughtfulness. I can be the life of a room, but also very much so appreciate quiet times and some solitude. I have an incredibly full life, but it is missing sharing part of it with someone special. I would say what makes me stand out it is my smile, laugh and outgoing personality. I will talk to anyone - from street people to CEOs. We are all people and deserve respect! When you get to know me, you would find that I would do anything for those who are close to me. I am very affectionate, and enjoy close and meaningful relationships .As far as my expectations: I am looking to meet someone to get to know, and have fun... from there we see what happens! I may send you a message commenting on something that strikes me as interesting, I am not afraid to tell you! I would love to meet someone who has a positive outlook, and sees their beer stein as half full! The one thing I don't really understand is why so many guys have pictures where they look slightly 'mean' or possibly incarcerated ;) Just not what I am looking for!! Smiles everyone, smiles. Cheers! Depending on the season/mutual interests, I imagine a coffee/tea date would be nice - or meeting for a drink, or a casual dinner, walk in a park, movie, bowling or whatever works! I am pretty easy going and often willing to try anything new!

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