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Rebecka, 42

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About Me

Where are you? For me, a true connection is hard to find. I have a great life so finding a match for me would be icing on the cake. I keep pretty busy working and playing and going to grad school so my match would need to understand my schedule and work around it. I would expect my match to have a life without me and still do those things that he loves. There is a place in a relationship to be with our friends and do our own thing as well as be together. In my free time I enjoy going to festivals, dancing to live music, watching movies, creating art, and traveling. I also enjoy the great outdoors and adventures. I am an avid recycler and am also into alternative healing. I am rather shy but once you get to know me I am silly and very open. I value honesty, compassion ,and flexibility. I would love to be with someone who is easy going, fun, and funny. So, if you are out there and are a gentleman who respects woman, I'd love to hear from you. I would like to meet as friends first to see if we like each other in person. A casual coffee or drink is a good start. If we have a connection, who knows, it could turn into dinner. After that I have no idea. If I'm with someone I like it doesn't really matter what we do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ; am looking for new adventures!! I guess you could say that I'm looking for a best friend.....someone that completes me,who I feel happy to be around,who makes me want to be a better person.We are giddy when we see each other & are completely & totally physically,mentally & spiritually connected & attracted to each other,& not to sound shallow, but to have attraction,YOU MUST BE ATTRACTIVE.We complete one another's sentences & laugh when no one else "gets it". Actually, we spend alot of time laughing.....to have that connection,is sometimes unexplainable.....pure chemistry!!!!-the attraction is undeniable.You have integrity,are honest,loyal,respectful,affectionate,down to earth & a good communicator.You have a great sense of humor & live a balanced life which allows time to do things together.We would take long weekends away.Maybe go wine tasting,or have dinner or Sunday lunch or brunch at the beach & sometimes just stay home,cook & watch movies.I love a good roller coaster, so we could hit all the amusement parks like a couple of kids!O.k., am I dreaming,or do you exist out there & have just been waiting for me? You know that to have a great relationship,there will be times that you may have to throw in some humor to lighten the mood!lol!No one's perfect & we love one another's imperfections & tease each other about them.You are a giver....& so am I.You live your life with the philosophy that whatever you believe & conceive,you can achieve. You're a great father....most likely at this stage of life you are a parent & so am I. My daughter's are everything to me & we are very close.This is the first year where they are both gone off to college, so it's been quite an adjustment & far too quiet at home.So,if you have kids, I welcome getting to know them.My ideal partner has kids that are either off to college or on the older side. If you don't have partial custody,you are not my type,as that tells me alot about your priorities.We love music & enjoy going to concerts,seeing live bands & dancing wherever there's good music. We have fun no matter what we're doing & the time goes by way too fast. We can't get enough of each other!!! We have a healthy lifestyle & enjoy working out,going on hikes,eating pretty clean,but when the weekend comes we like to "get our drink on" & splurge a lil. If you spend over 2 hours a day at the gym & can never skip a workout,you are probably not for me.If you never workout, or don't know what "eating clean" means,you are probably not for me.If you don't like curves-I'm told curvy means fat on these dating sites... Life is too short to be uptight & too serious.If you are not somewhat financially stable,at this stage in life, are not ambitious, goal oriented, are a serial dater or you're not a dad,you are probably not for me(or under 40 or over 50)I know my value & will not settle! P.S. I can relocate at this stage of life,if you're "the one".No ballers No players All of the above!lol!

  • Mercia

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    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a happy,optimistic person with a great family and great friends but looking for that one person to enjoy life with.I am a hopeless romantic.Love the beach or anything to do with the water,seeing live bands,fleamarkets,yardsales,barbecuing and bonfires.Do not want to deal with people who do drugs or are alcoholics.Anything else just ask...New note-I am not on here for a booty call can find that at bar.Looking for my best friend! Meet for a drink or coffee and see how it goes from there.

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