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Rebecka, 42

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About Me

Where are you? For me, a true connection is hard to find. I have a great life so finding a match for me would be icing on the cake. I keep pretty busy working and playing and going to grad school so my match would need to understand my schedule and work around it. I would expect my match to have a life without me and still do those things that he loves. There is a place in a relationship to be with our friends and do our own thing as well as be together. In my free time I enjoy going to festivals, dancing to live music, watching movies, creating art, and traveling. I also enjoy the great outdoors and adventures. I am an avid recycler and am also into alternative healing. I am rather shy but once you get to know me I am silly and very open. I value honesty, compassion ,and flexibility. I would love to be with someone who is easy going, fun, and funny. So, if you are out there and are a gentleman who respects woman, I'd love to hear from you. I would like to meet as friends first to see if we like each other in person. A casual coffee or drink is a good start. If we have a connection, who knows, it could turn into dinner. After that I have no idea. If I'm with someone I like it doesn't really matter what we do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Etsuko

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love movies, I am full of useless movie knowledge...I love the Cubbies, there is no other MLB team like 'em!!!.with the exception that it would be NHL!Most of all, I LOVE to laugh! Im a sarcastic smartass...its who I am, cant get around it!!!

  • Jaimee

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I only want one man...One faithful, honest, hard working, good looking man in CLOSE proximity to me.....who takes care of himself...WHY is this so hard???? I am not interested in dating around or getting involved with alot of people at one time and I'm not interested in someone who is dating around trying to find them selves or who is just a player. I would enjoy making a friend here or there and sharing time with the right person. I am not interested in competing for your time with all the others. I am selfish that way...I can't help it. I am selective and just would like to meet a nice,simple, genuine, person who enjoys being happy and laughing who is honest and real. I am an honest, and faithful person, and I will accept nothing less than that in return. I am not a needy, clingy type of woman, and am certainly not looking for someone who wants that from me...OR who is that way themselves. I have no problem with love, affection or attention, but also enjoy my own space as well, as I think that you should to. I would love to meet someone who is genuine in their feelings and intentions, who is real, and is not looking to play games. I am old enough to know what I want, and will not settle for less. I am not looking for drama, liars, cheaters, or random sex. I just want to take the time to get to know someone , spend some time with them, hang out and have some fun, develop a friendship, go on a few dates and just see where it goes from there. I do have a 16 year old daughter and she is the biggest part of my life, so if that presents an issue with you, then it presents an issue for me. I have 4 dogs who are like my children. I also have a cat...if you do not like pets then we probably won't get along.I believe the cornerstone to ANY relationship worth having is friendship. In order to progress and to grow, you have to have someone with whom you can just enjoy their company, and nothing more! You have to be able to talk and to comminicate first and foremost. If you are ever going to get anywhere, you have to be able to just sit and hold a conversation with each other at the end of the day...if you can't, well then there really isn't much there to build on. I can be silly and adventurous or quiet and serious, depends on the time and place. I do not have to be entertained...I am quite happy hanging out at home with someone I care about, hanging out with a few friends, or going to a movie...going shopping, or something quite simple. It's really just the simple things in life that make me happy. I love going to the beach more than anything. I do not do the bar scene, it has never interested me much...and certainly does not at this point in my life. I don't really think that I will find what I am looking for there.If you are looking for the perfect woman to hang on your arm, please keep on looking. I am def. not the barbie type. I am most comfortable in jeans and flip flops or shorts and a t-shirt. I will never be one to wear heels and dresses, that's just so NOT me. I could honestly stand to lose a few pounds, and am currently working on improving that but am not going to take it to the extreme of not being able to enjoy life. I would love to find someone to work out with, as I do love to run and go to the gym. Please do not contact me if you don't have a photo posted. I will not respond. For me, there has to be an initial attraction. The pictures I have posted are from last year. *I do now wear glasses and will send an updated pix upon request..Want to know more? Send me an ***, and lets see where it may go from there.. If all else fails...I am always up for making new friends.Thank you for reading my profile and happy fishing. I think that meeting in a public place for dinner, conversation,drinks, coffee would be best. Something simple, No pressure, no strings.

  • Lyndsay

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Yes, I do smile. All the time actually. I just don't like to in pics. Makes me look like a bubble butt. :)***Update: I know Im not a Beauty Queen, but I also know Im not the Bride of Frankenstein either. Having said that, I do have a type....just like everyone else on this site. We all decide to *** on what we are attracted to. That doesn't mean I base everything on looks. But you have to start somewhere. Let me just say now, if you *** I dont respond....I am sorry. There is nothing wrong with you or with me. Just means there wasnt enough in common to start anything. About Me:***......I am currently a work in progress. I woke one morning and finally decided it was now or never. I am down 20 lbs and back in the gym. However, if you read this....I still am not one of those health freak types. I have just reached a point in my life where I want to look better and feel better. it's for me and me alone. I live on my own my my son who just turned 15. I also have a daughter who is 21 and on her own and soon to be married. I've been divorced now for 5 years and have been in a couple of serious relationships and dated several times. I was burned pretty bad in this last relationship,but I am back looking again. (Crazy fool huh?) I honestly don't think all men are the same. I'm a very positive thinking person and I know there is someone out there for me. A little about me...... I have a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor. So you have to be able to handle that. I cant help it. I love to laugh and feel that laughter warms the heart. I rarely meet a stranger and am easy to get along with and always wake up in a good mood. I'm an excellent cook, or so I've been told. I believe that love and friendship is a two-way street. Although it is rare that both people in a relationship give the same amount at the same time; it is important they both strive to give at least 100% at all times. Its my opinion, when you care about someone, you want to please them and make them happy (without keeping score). Seeing them happy, makes you happy. If both parties are of this belief life would be so much easier.I love to watch movies.). Am willing to try new things, although I'm afraid of heights, so no jumping out of an airplane please. I try to keep an open mind. I don't feel that I am at all clingy. I like to have my alone time just like anyone else. I really don't like double standards. While I think being healthy and taking care of yourself is important, its not the end of the world if you gain a few pounds. I dress nice, fix my hair and I fix my face. BUT....I'm not going to stress out over 10 pounds! If you think that is where true beauty lies, move on please....I'm not for you. Besides, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Although I'd say I'm Average in body type, I listed A few extra pounds. Average is subjective. Most of the men in my life have said I am curvy & large in all the right places. Maybe a little thick (working on that), but no where near large. Again, I think I'm average.What I'm looking for......I'd like to find someone that I can be myself with. Whether I need to be serious, silly or a little bit crazy. I don't want someone that I would be afraid of being honest with. Life is too short to waste time being judgmental or unforgiving. If someone hurts me, I get over it quickly. And I forgive quickly. Almost to a fault. I expect the same in return. I am not perfect, so I WILL make mistakes. As will you. Please don't humiliate me for it. I'm a great conversationalist and naturally Id like to find another. Show an interest in me. I don't have a problem txtn/emailing you, but if you don't ask questions or take the initiative to reach out to me 1st at times, I might get the impression you're just not that into me. Seriously. If you don't know what to say, ask me about the weather! I can work with that. I'm a little old fashioned. I like the guy to take some initiative. I'm not looking for perfection. Not even close. I want to be loved, to love, to be respected and appreciated. There isn't anything I wouldn't do for those I care about. Last but not least......chemistry. Its a must. If it's not there, why bother?I don't know what else to say, It's rather hard to find things to write about yourself without sounding too negative or overly confident. I guess to sum it up, I think I am fun to be around and interesting. I know I must have some faults though..........Maybe not. Just kiddin. I am looking for someone who would be kind & gentle natured. Slow to anger and quick to forgive. Someone who can be serious, funny, passionate and knows how to treat a lady. I am looking to find that kind of relationship that just the thought of seeing the person puts a smile on my face. Someone to always look forward to seeing and spending time with. I think this is what we are all looking for. First date would probably be dinner and a movie or dinner and someplace quiet to talk. I would rather get to know the person. I am not hard to please.

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