Total users: 60,917,749 Online users: 219,029
Lashon, 41
United States, Nebraska, Aurora

Offline, last seen Fri, 16 Jan 2026 06:31:48

About Me

I didn't want to do this, but a friend talked me into it, so here I am...stepping out into the boat and making my first cast out into the online sea of fish. And for once, I'm totally at a loss to know what kinda lure to use lol :PABOUT ME: I'm a happy go lucky girl that is blessed and grateful to have worked hard to achieve pretty much everything in life that I've ever dreamed of. I'm just missing the cheese to my macaroni (bonus if you know what movie this is from); a companion who can commit to enjoying this ride called life with me. I will say up front that I'm so much more than meets the eye and will give you a run for your money activity wise lol. I am very laid back, have a huge heart, am extremely loving, and am a unique combination of a tomboy and a lady. I dress for the occasion, but on average, I wear very little to no makeup (I'm told this suits me) and am perfectly comfortable in a tshirt and jeans or stilettos and an evening gown.Indoors, I enjoy reading, doing jigsaw puzzles, playing brain games (logic puzzles, sudokus, crosswords, etc.), video games and watching sports. If you LOVE sports and really enjoy spending Sundays watching the NFL ticket and keeping up with your fantasy team, we are definitely going to get along. One of my bucket list items is to go see a game at every NFL and MLB stadium. I have plenty of stadiums left to see and would love to share that with a guy that would appreciate that type of thing.I enjoy being outdoors too biking, hiking, fishing, shooting, and going to concerts (and so much more). My music taste ranges from country, top 40, metal, to rap and I even play classical music (flute) and I love to dance. If you can drive a boat you get bonus points!! :D ABOUT YOU: I am looking for an unselfish man of integrity that knows how to prioritize and treat a woman with the love, common courtesy and respect that she deserves. He knows what he wants, is honest and true to his word, is willing to commit (if it comes to that), and doesn't cheat or play mind games. I need a kind-hearted man that is emotionally intelligent, is confident in who he is, loves to laugh and play and would be proud to have a girl like me that: enjoys many of the same activities, is intelligent, owns my home and car and makes a good living. Ideally, my match would enjoy spontaneous (or planned) traveling...whether it be day trips to museums or historic sites, weekend trips to the beach, lake, mountains, or awesome vacations to go see some of the many wonders of the world. He would also enjoy evenings in cooking dinner, sipping beverages of choice and just spending some time together watching our favorite tv shows, movies, snuggling and chatting. A sports fan would be a bonus. I would be blessed to find a guy that values family (and wants to build a strong one) and understands that his companionship, love, and willingness to play don't cost a thing, but they are are priceless in my eyes. If it sounds like I'm what you're looking for...what can it hurt? I'd like to hear from you :) Going to a sporting event, grabbing lunch, dinner or drinks, hiking, biking, dancing, playing pool, etc. Honestly, I would be up for almost anything and just happy and appreciative that you took the time to plan something fun for us to do :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Greek Irish Thai Documentary Music Sport Western
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Rebecka from Aurora | Woman | 42 years old | Libra
    Rebecka

    Offline

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Where are you? For me, a true connection is hard to find. I have a great life so finding a match for me would be icing on the cake. I keep pretty busy working and playing and going to grad school so my match would need to understand my schedule and work around it. I would expect my match to have a life without me and still do those things that he loves. There is a place in a relationship to be with our friends and do our own thing as well as be together. In my free time I enjoy going to festivals, dancing to live music, watching movies, creating art, and traveling. I also enjoy the great outdoors and adventures. I am an avid recycler and am also into alternative healing. I am rather shy but once you get to know me I am silly and very open. I value honesty, compassion ,and flexibility. I would love to be with someone who is easy going, fun, and funny. So, if you are out there and are a gentleman who respects woman, I'd love to hear from you. I would like to meet as friends first to see if we like each other in person. A casual coffee or drink is a good start. If we have a connection, who knows, it could turn into dinner. After that I have no idea. If I'm with someone I like it doesn't really matter what we do.

    Chat
  • Kaci from Aurora | Woman | 43 years old | Leo
    Kaci

    Offline

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    First let me say that I am a bit old fashioned, If a man doesn't have the courage to write me a message to say hi when he is interested and see if there is any connection then I don't view him as a person I'd be interested in. I'm not into people that can't take the bull by the horns so to speak. :-) I am normally attracted to someone who is out going but not prideful and self involved. I also like the person I'm dating to be in somewhat good shape(not perfect) and not be too thin. I need someone to hold onto...lol. I'm a bit like a sweet quiet storm that is nice to enjoy and is soothing to the soul. The kind that makes you want to cuddle up and just listen as it rumbles in the distance, And sometimes I'm bright, sudden, exciting and fun. The kind that gets your heart beating fast! That makes you want to dance and feel the sweet rain on your skin. I am a mixture of both the quiet, peaceful, serene, laid back part of the world but I also get charged, eager, passionate and ready for the excitement that the world has to offer. Why pick just one way to live. I'm here to learn and enjoy life along with learning from my mistakes, and I have made many mistakes in life and am humbled. I'm hoping that I can find someone who understands the true meaning of being humbled and can be thankful for all the blessings that are given to us to try again and again. I am not one of those who believes that I am always right, actually everyone has a rightness in their own logic but it comes down to finding the best way to accomplish things together with compromise on both sides. My relationship with God is also very important to me and I hope to find someone that may not be perfect but loves God and strives to be a better person everyday. I'm extremely honest and loyal and never falter in my promises to be true to the person I love. I was married for 17yrs and there is no drama or craziness between my ex and I. We are still friends and on good terms with each other. I am a very cuddly type of person and I love to give hugs and touches through out the day to the person I love. I am not object-oriented, materialistic or overly concerned with fashion and looks but I work hard to be able have adventures and I keep myself in pretty good shape. I'm not the kind you will find in a gym but I prefer to workout in the beautiful outdoors whether it's raining or not, bring it on. :-) I don't like to crowd others, and sometimes need space to myself but I also love get togethers with friends and family.I'm a phlebotomist who loves my work. I work with donors who are amazing and giving. I am blessed with a job that can help save peoples lives and it humbles me.I have three great children-18, 7 and 6, full of energy who like to do anything outside. We like to go camping, hiking and swimming. As long as it's outside they're up for it, even helping out doing yardwork.I also love to joke around so If I like you, you're in for it ;-)PS. If you don't have your divorce papers signed and dated please do not contact me. It's a waste of everyone's time and energy. I like to go on walks in a park or laying on a lawn and talking when I first meet someone, but I'm open to whatever you'd like. :-)

    Chat
  • Danita from Aurora | Woman | 42 years old | Taurus
    Danita

    Offline

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    WELL I DECIDED THAT ID SHORTEN MY PROFILE EXTREMELY...IVE BEEN HERE ON THIS ND OTHER WEBSITES 4 YRS LOOKIN THOSE SPECIAL PPL ND HOPEFULLY THAT VERY SPECIAL SOME1 BUT UNFORTUNATELY IT HASNT QUITE PANNED OUT....I HAVE MET A FEW VERY WONDERFUL FRIENDS BUT MR RIGHT DOESNT SEEM 2 B OUT THERE...SIMPLY PUT..IM A WONDERFUL WOMAN WITH GREAT QUALITIES ND IM LOOKIN 4 THE SPECIAL PERSON THAT HAS THE SAME 2 OFFER...IM NOT HERE 2 FULL FILL SEXUAL DESIRES OR JUST 2 B A BOOTY CALL...DONT GET ME WRONG THATS ALL FUN BUT I WANNA B THAT STRENGTH BEHIND THE GOOD MAN...I WANNA B THAT LADY UR FRIENDS ND FAM ENVY U 4 HAVIN...THEN I WANT 2 B THAT SEXY WOMAN THAT SHOWS U HOW GOOD U CAN FEEL...THEN I WANT THAT SPECIAL PERSON 2 B ALL THE SAME 4 ME...BEGINNING 2 THINK NONE OF THIS EXISTS ANYMORE...SO IF U WANNA PROVE ME WRONG FEEL FREE 2 HIT ME UP...FRIENDS 1ST AND GROW SLOWLY FROM THERE A NICE QUIET PLACE 2 GET 2 KNO 1 ANOTHER

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: