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Mercia, 43

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About Me

Life is sooo much easier if you laugh a lot, so I'd have to meet someone who makes me laugh, because looks eventually fade, but the laughter shouldn't. I enjoy adventure ~ especially overseas travel and I like to think of myself as a life long learner. Could hardly go a day without music...go days without turning on the TV, though.; I missed the Rockies & my friends and family. Finally starting to work again...phew! Quite the process these state-to-state moves.....and knowing that there is always another day when this day doesn't seem so lovely. Perspective is everything! A walk... Meet for coffee? Surprise me :O) The whole "tech/internet reach" ...things are so much more sped up than they used to be...is that a good or bad thing????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Florette

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ; am looking for new adventures!! I guess you could say that I'm looking for a best friend.....someone that completes me,who I feel happy to be around,who makes me want to be a better person.We are giddy when we see each other & are completely & totally physically,mentally & spiritually connected & attracted to each other,& not to sound shallow, but to have attraction,YOU MUST BE ATTRACTIVE.We complete one another's sentences & laugh when no one else "gets it". Actually, we spend alot of time laughing.....to have that connection,is sometimes unexplainable.....pure chemistry!!!!-the attraction is undeniable.You have integrity,are honest,loyal,respectful,affectionate,down to earth & a good communicator.You have a great sense of humor & live a balanced life which allows time to do things together.We would take long weekends away.Maybe go wine tasting,or have dinner or Sunday lunch or brunch at the beach & sometimes just stay home,cook & watch movies.I love a good roller coaster, so we could hit all the amusement parks like a couple of kids!O.k., am I dreaming,or do you exist out there & have just been waiting for me? You know that to have a great relationship,there will be times that you may have to throw in some humor to lighten the mood!lol!No one's perfect & we love one another's imperfections & tease each other about them.You are a giver....& so am I.You live your life with the philosophy that whatever you believe & conceive,you can achieve. You're a great father....most likely at this stage of life you are a parent & so am I. My daughter's are everything to me & we are very close.This is the first year where they are both gone off to college, so it's been quite an adjustment & far too quiet at home.So,if you have kids, I welcome getting to know them.My ideal partner has kids that are either off to college or on the older side. If you don't have partial custody,you are not my type,as that tells me alot about your priorities.We love music & enjoy going to concerts,seeing live bands & dancing wherever there's good music. We have fun no matter what we're doing & the time goes by way too fast. We can't get enough of each other!!! We have a healthy lifestyle & enjoy working out,going on hikes,eating pretty clean,but when the weekend comes we like to "get our drink on" & splurge a lil. If you spend over 2 hours a day at the gym & can never skip a workout,you are probably not for me.If you never workout, or don't know what "eating clean" means,you are probably not for me.If you don't like curves-I'm told curvy means fat on these dating sites... Life is too short to be uptight & too serious.If you are not somewhat financially stable,at this stage in life, are not ambitious, goal oriented, are a serial dater or you're not a dad,you are probably not for me(or under 40 or over 50)I know my value & will not settle! P.S. I can relocate at this stage of life,if you're "the one".No ballers No players All of the above!lol!

  • Lashon

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I didn't want to do this, but a friend talked me into it, so here I am...stepping out into the boat and making my first cast out into the online sea of fish. And for once, I'm totally at a loss to know what kinda lure to use lol :PABOUT ME: I'm a happy go lucky girl that is blessed and grateful to have worked hard to achieve pretty much everything in life that I've ever dreamed of. I'm just missing the cheese to my macaroni (bonus if you know what movie this is from); a companion who can commit to enjoying this ride called life with me. I will say up front that I'm so much more than meets the eye and will give you a run for your money activity wise lol. I am very laid back, have a huge heart, am extremely loving, and am a unique combination of a tomboy and a lady. I dress for the occasion, but on average, I wear very little to no makeup (I'm told this suits me) and am perfectly comfortable in a tshirt and jeans or stilettos and an evening gown.Indoors, I enjoy reading, doing jigsaw puzzles, playing brain games (logic puzzles, sudokus, crosswords, etc.), video games and watching sports. If you LOVE sports and really enjoy spending Sundays watching the NFL ticket and keeping up with your fantasy team, we are definitely going to get along. One of my bucket list items is to go see a game at every NFL and MLB stadium. I have plenty of stadiums left to see and would love to share that with a guy that would appreciate that type of thing.I enjoy being outdoors too biking, hiking, fishing, shooting, and going to concerts (and so much more). My music taste ranges from country, top 40, metal, to rap and I even play classical music (flute) and I love to dance. If you can drive a boat you get bonus points!! :D ABOUT YOU: I am looking for an unselfish man of integrity that knows how to prioritize and treat a woman with the love, common courtesy and respect that she deserves. He knows what he wants, is honest and true to his word, is willing to commit (if it comes to that), and doesn't cheat or play mind games. I need a kind-hearted man that is emotionally intelligent, is confident in who he is, loves to laugh and play and would be proud to have a girl like me that: enjoys many of the same activities, is intelligent, owns my home and car and makes a good living. Ideally, my match would enjoy spontaneous (or planned) traveling...whether it be day trips to museums or historic sites, weekend trips to the beach, lake, mountains, or awesome vacations to go see some of the many wonders of the world. He would also enjoy evenings in cooking dinner, sipping beverages of choice and just spending some time together watching our favorite tv shows, movies, snuggling and chatting. A sports fan would be a bonus. I would be blessed to find a guy that values family (and wants to build a strong one) and understands that his companionship, love, and willingness to play don't cost a thing, but they are are priceless in my eyes. If it sounds like I'm what you're looking for...what can it hurt? I'd like to hear from you :) Going to a sporting event, grabbing lunch, dinner or drinks, hiking, biking, dancing, playing pool, etc. Honestly, I would be up for almost anything and just happy and appreciative that you took the time to plan something fun for us to do :)

  • Milissa

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have explored alot of it and continue to do so. I love salt water fishing, beaching, just about anything outdoors I love. A few goals I have is to get my Bachelors degree in my profession,I love what I do for a living. Knowing I was able to let someone be with there loved ones another day is rewarding. Not everyone can hear about the medical field so if your soft stomached sorry. Things about me... I am straight forward, trust is everything once you broke it forget it go away! I think I am too compassionate and put others before myself but realizing I have lost alot by doing that so I am trying to put alittle piece of me first. The people close to me I will give the shirt off my back to them if I could. I am a loyal friend if I say it I will do it. Ones word speaks of there character I strongly believe.I have two boys and they are my world and first in my life, but I make time to enjoy mine as well.I want to live my life with no regrets and experience everything that there is to offer and having having fun all in one. Don't mind going to a sports bar and having a couple but won't become a slush just like the atmospher sometimes to break up the everyday routine oh and a good cheeseburger helps. For the first date...Well I wouldn't say a date but definately in a very public place meeting. Enjoy a good time laughing and enjoying the company and see how well it goes. You never know I might have a friend that you get along with better who is single "chuckles"

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