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Assunta, 48
United States, Minnesota, Windom

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About Me

If i were a car, I would be a ***Corvette in "good condition." not excellent or fine, but humming along okay. I have lived a full life and have battle scars to prove it. Because with my height and stature (thanks to a dad who harped on posture), curvy figure and my uncommon hair color, I am noticeable. I have a powerful engine. I love the weekends. I can relax and watch a movie or whatever sometimes, but I also like to keep busy. I do a lot of events with various groups on Meetup.com including wine tastings, camping, kayaking, go kart racing, following live bands and dancing, as well as dining out at various restaurants. I am a night owl and an extrovert. I am friendly to almost everyone and have a positive, upbeat personality. I know that I am an original and I am not looking for my man to be the same as me but to complement me. I am not an easy match. Noticeable :) and intellectual. Fun and naughty humored. I have a serious, button down job and kids. I can be ridiculously crazy fun and I love to go dancing to live bands. .I have a complex, boring job but I consider myself to be technicolor in a gray world. If you had a hidden camera on me, you would find me frequently laughing at myself and humming a happy song.I am looking for a man with a nice smile who is warm, affectionate, social, curious, emotionally and financially secure, educated (can be self educated in a gentleman philosopher or NPR junkie sort of way), an extrovert or a socially active introvert (yes, they exist)), strong libido, confident without being arrogant. I am not on the dating meal plan and I have no interest in having the guy spend a bunch of money on me. As a matter of fact, that is awkward. So, how about a coffee, ice cream or a drink. If we like each other, I will let you plan the second date. Fun things I think I would like to do (I have dated some but have not been in a "relationship since being divorced") with a guy would be drinking wine to a Jazz quartet, or to a sunset in Mt.com and living social using Urban Spoon as our guide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Korean Mexican
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