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Kenia, 50
United States, Minnesota, Windom

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Do you have more than one or two nights a week to spare? Do you believe in texting in the morning and speaking with your date at least once a day? Do you have 3 children or less and are they over 18? Can you make plans and stick to them? Are you a take charge kind of man? I've got to say that I am open minded but i would prefer a yes to those questions ;-)Looking for an intelligent, honest, open minded, caring, witty, affectionate, financially secure, confident man to share my life with. I am all of those things with the exception of the gentleman part ;- I will not settle for less than what I have to offer. I don't want your money, but I want you to surprise me. I want you to look forward to spending time with me and mean what you say when you say it. If you are over 45 and live with your sister or in a decked out trailer looking for a hunting or fishing buddy, I am SO not who you are looking for. I am not a snob. I just know what I'm worth and I have to be able to respect you for us to work. My job is a labor of love and friendship and I am overqualified for it, but I am helping a great friend and that satisfies me. My free time is spent relaxing while watching tv, stimulating my mind with puzzles and reading, going out to dinner, to the movies or hanging out with friends and walking my chihuahua, who is affectionate too! I have taken about 13 cruises and am looking to make that an even number! I speak Spanish and a little French so I can be an asset for you when we travel! I love to kiss and cuddle but not looking for just a warm body. I am on this site because I don't do the happy hour flirt scene or club/barfly hangout meet and greet. I want someone I can admire and share mutual respect with. At our age (no implication of being old, just of length of time to focus!) there is an expectation that you should be where you want to be in life and that you should know who you want to spend it with. If you are sowing your wild oats after ***years of marriage, have fun. I'm what you are looking for when you have narrowed down what you really want ;-) Likes: action, drama and comedy movies;;;; shopping(for self, others and for the store I manage), people watching, all kinds of animals, and more!Dislikes: negativity, talking down to people, prejudice, hunting,****.. Telling me you are not like the other guys and being JUST like the other guys! Lol. There are men out there that make it hard on the nice guys to get ahead by saying all the things they think we want to hear to get past the first date. I am honest and straight forward and think that's a quality you would be looking for, just like I am looking for. I would like to have some phone conversations before we meet to establish some sort of connection. At that point we could meet somewhere to chat and see if there is a spark and go from there. I like a man who knows what he wants and can make a decision while still being considerate of me. So you suggest a place to meet and I will tell you if it's good. I am very easy going!Just saw this and thought it was very funny! I will probably remove it soon................Put this on your.... *..*....profile if you have.....\o/.....ever walked into a............Patio Door that was...../.\.....CLOSED!!!!!!.............

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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