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Otha, 46

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About Me

I enjoy meeting new people. One can never have too many friends. I love live music, usually listen to country but open to all kinds of music. Love college football GO VOLS!!!! But any SEC team is good. One of these days I would like to own a Tiki Bar and surf the rest of my life."Though Love Be Deep Friendship Is Wider" Life is ShortForgive QuicklyKiss Slowly Love Truely Laugh till it HURTSNever regret anything that makes you smile.Life isnt about finding yourselfIts about creating yourselfNormal is just a setting on the washing machine"Take me as I am or watch me go" Drinks usually work for me...depends on the person. Im completely laid back maybe too much sometimes...not really Love to laugh and have a good timeIm pretty much open for anything funWelcome to the pond...Happy Fishing ***No offense to anyone I only date white men***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Assunta

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    If i were a car, I would be a ***Corvette in "good condition." not excellent or fine, but humming along okay. I have lived a full life and have battle scars to prove it. Because with my height and stature (thanks to a dad who harped on posture), curvy figure and my uncommon hair color, I am noticeable. I have a powerful engine. I love the weekends. I can relax and watch a movie or whatever sometimes, but I also like to keep busy. I do a lot of events with various groups on Meetup.com including wine tastings, camping, kayaking, go kart racing, following live bands and dancing, as well as dining out at various restaurants. I am a night owl and an extrovert. I am friendly to almost everyone and have a positive, upbeat personality. I know that I am an original and I am not looking for my man to be the same as me but to complement me. I am not an easy match. Noticeable :) and intellectual. Fun and naughty humored. I have a serious, button down job and kids. I can be ridiculously crazy fun and I love to go dancing to live bands. .I have a complex, boring job but I consider myself to be technicolor in a gray world. If you had a hidden camera on me, you would find me frequently laughing at myself and humming a happy song.I am looking for a man with a nice smile who is warm, affectionate, social, curious, emotionally and financially secure, educated (can be self educated in a gentleman philosopher or NPR junkie sort of way), an extrovert or a socially active introvert (yes, they exist)), strong libido, confident without being arrogant. I am not on the dating meal plan and I have no interest in having the guy spend a bunch of money on me. As a matter of fact, that is awkward. So, how about a coffee, ice cream or a drink. If we like each other, I will let you plan the second date. Fun things I think I would like to do (I have dated some but have not been in a "relationship since being divorced") with a guy would be drinking wine to a Jazz quartet, or to a sunset in Mt.com and living social using Urban Spoon as our guide.

  • Hermine

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Yes, I really am the hopeless romantic. I still believe in love and commitment. I love candles and flowers and cooking nice dinners for my significant other. Spending time together, doing anything or nothing, just being together is what matters. The first thing I think about in the morning when I wake and the last thing I think about before sleep. Yet trusting one another when we are apart.I really miss having someone to come home to, and someone to cook for or cuddle up to for a good movie.I would like to meet someone who is funny and outgoing and loves to laugh. Someone that can have fun doing just about anything, anywhere. I am not looking for a text buddy! I would like to find someone who actually wants to meet and still values a one on relationship!I enjoy camping in the summer and long walks in the park. Coffee or a drink.

  • Bernardina

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Tired of working and sleeping. I would like to get a life in between. I have a 9 to 5, so to speak, office job and am co-owner of a flea market based business, specializing in art, depression, and collectible high end glass. I am celebrating having the first Saturday off in months by sitting at home semi watching a sorry "chick flick" on, of all things, the Lifetime channel cuddled on the sofa with a pot bellied pug. How pathetic is that? Just sayin'.Born and raised in IL. I love the ocean, it brings a certain peace and serenity. Not to mention landing a 20lb Red *** it's perks. I also enjoy live music and playing pool. Not much of a drinker or into the bar thing but as luck would have it, music and pool typically go hand in hand with bars. I rarely use the word hate but I hate karaoke. There are 2 types of people who participate in karaoke, those who can and those who can't. Not trying to hear those who can't, which is the majority of those who sing, and I am totally envious of those who can. I can't sing a single note no matter how hard I try. It's my belief that trucks should have 4 doors, cars should have 2 and minivans shouldn't exist. For me, a car must be equipped with at least 8 cylinders and a clutch. Speed freak to the core, I don't want to watch, I want to drive.I guess you can say that I am not your typical female. I do not like shopping, I go in get what I need and get out. I don't like spending money. Don't mind making it, I just like keeping it. Not a girly girl. I don't mind getting my hands dirty and will not cry if I break a nail. I will bait my own hook and be more than happy to let you take a fish off of it, as it just might be the only one you have a chance to touch all day. My friends call me if they need an alternator changed or their dryer fixed. Actually, that was the same friend. Anyway...I am honest, reliable and faithful. It's my philosophy that anything worth doing, is worth doing well. If you ask for my opinion make sure you really want it for it will not be sugar coated. Make no mistake I am not mean or vicious, just brutally honest. Morality, integrity and common sense are ones most valuable possessions.As i'm sure you have already guessed I do have a sense of humor, am opinionated and have a type A personality. Those are not bad things. I will stand up for those who cannot stand for themselves, speak for those who are not being heard, and I will advocate for what I believe to be good and right. I could be happy with a picnic on the tailgate of my truck, overlooking a lake, talking about life, love and the abyss into which all left socks disappear.

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