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Shelba, 49

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About Me

Since a lot of men don't seem to read my profile the whole way through please refer to the last paragraph if you don't have a photo posted, just trying to save your time and mine....ok carry on reading.... I enjoy the outdoors, travelling, good food and wine. I like movies, reading and theatre, going out as well as staying in, nothing like a long dinner with good company, plenty of chat and craic. Long winter nights when you can't beat a big roaring fire and a nice glass of red or two !!I'd like to meet someone to share all the above with as well as discovering new things. I've lived abroad and travelled a bit, scuba dived on the Great Barriert Reef and the Red Sea, although I have'nt dived in years.I've been told I'm a great friend, I'm more of a listener than a talker, apart from after a few glasses of vino !! Just realised that I mention wine a lot... I don't have a problem honest... I try not to take myself or life too seriously, I dont always succeed....I work full time and enjoy my days off.I like most music, not big into country or hip hop but everything else is ok. Getting to like opera lately !!! Must be an age thing !I'm a big animal lover so it'd be nice to meet someone who at least likes animals as I have a few...no I'm not a crazy old spinster with 20 cats living with me...I'll only reply to people who have photos up, don't see the point in being on a site like this without posting photos, ...I have a phobia of cameras but I managed.....ok its not great but its better than none ! How about coffee or lunch in a nice country pub, we could even sit outside that'd give us plenty of room to escape if its not working out....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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