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Kirby, 49
United States, Minnesota, Walker

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Why do some of you select "isn't seeking a relationship or any kind of commitment" and then sayyou want a "Long Term" relationship??? That makes NO sense at all.Well as everyone probably knows by now meetville is limiting contact to the ***yrs,so if you're more than 14 yrs older than me, you can find me by *** *** hotmail.com (minus the spaces of course lol)If you don't fall in this category, then contact me on here only please.OMG Does anyone want a real relationship? Profiles say they do, but then they contactme and all they want is sex. Well, newsflash, if you're not going to take the time to talkto me and get to know me, there is NO way you'll ever be getting in my bed.Ok so firstly, you'll need a sense of humor if we are to get along.And let's be 100% honest, the chemistry has to be there. ThereHAS to be a physical attraction to start with.If your message is of a sexual nature, or just referring to my physical feature, then don'teven bother sending it. I am looking for a man with more substance than that.If you are a large person, just admit it like I do. When I see "average" or "a few extra pounds" andthe person is clearly very large, I'm thinking WTF, can they not see what they really look like?About Me:My photos are not all that recent, as I hate cameras and rarely let anyone take my photo.I have always been a large woman, so that is still the same. My hair is longer now (and yes stillblond) I have never changed my hair color, it is what God gave me.I am a large woman 5'5" ***lbs, and I am disabled. I also smoke a pack a day and have no plans of quitting.So if any of those things bother you, please move on.Also, I currently don't have any teeth, as I had to have all of mine pulled.Part of my disability causes my legs to go numb, so I can't be going on any long walks.I currently use a cane, but one day I may end up in a wheelchair.I am a calm, relaxed type of lady. I would rather get take-out and cuddle at home with my man and watch a movie, as opposed to going to a restaurant and a theater.I enjoy camping, but due to my disability no more tents. It needs to be in a trailer.While I do enjoy an occasional concert, for the most part I prefer peace and quiet.My favorite outdoor activity is attending Big Valley Jamboree whenever possible.My music tastes are mostly Country & Older Rock.I am not an outdoorsy person, all the sun does is burn my skin, and I've had enough of that lolBut sitting outside in the evening around a fire pit is cool.So, if you are wanting someone who is very active, it's not me. I can't walk very far before mylegs go numb.I do have a weakness for older men, but it's not mandatory LOLI grew up on a farm and enjoy the quiet peaceful way of life.I am not impressed by tattoos. If you have 1 or 2 ok, but it's just not my thing. Also, motorbikes do nothing for me.Living on disability income, I am not in a financial position to travel. I am NOT looking to get married again, but I do want a long term relationship.Yes I like to be 100% honest.About You:If I've added you as a favorite, and don't hear from you within one week,when I know you've been online, then I will remove you.Firstly, you should be a gentleman. I can't speak for other women, but it says to me thatthis is just a joke to you, and that you don't really care if you find the right woman. It alsosays to me, that this would be your attitude in a potential relationship as well. Maybe thinkabout that, and why you don't get the amount of contact you'd like.You should have traditional values, and know how to romance a woman.You should have time for a relationship, at least every 2nd weekend.If you keep giving me excuses, I will lose interest fast.You need to be at least 5'8" or taller, and preferably age 50+So, no head games please. If that's what you want, find someone else.Generally speaking, I don't have an issue with age differences. Having said that, I have to draw the line when a man is young enough to be my son.If you are a Country Boy, all the better.Also, if all goes well, you would need to be willing to relocate here, as I am not able to move for financial reasons.Wow, I've run into all types on here. So let me make a couple of things clear. If you're not interested in a LONG TERM relationship, and if you don't even have the time to chat to get acquainted, then MOVE ON and please don't waste my time.If you contact me and I reply, and we start a conversation, and then I don't hear from you for weeks/months, then why bother contacting me in the first place??? I really don't understand people these days. If you're not interested anymore, then just tell me, BE HONEST AND DON'T PLAY STUPID GAMES.I want to talk to someone for a while before meeting, to see if we haveanything in common. How many days/weeks/months this will take depends onyour availability to talk and willingness to open up and communicate.I am NOT going to meet anyone unless I feel we have some sort of a connection first.I feel that if a meeting does not happen within one month, then it's time to move on.If you don't have a profile photo, be prepared to share a photo before we ever meet.After all, fair is fair.I am a country girl at heart. I've never driven in a big city, and don't plan to start now.As well, my disability makes driving too far very difficult, as my limbs go numb. Whatever we both agree on.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Punk French Portuguese Thai Adventure Crime Rodeo Tennis
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