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United States, Minnesota, Virginia

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Hmmm.... lets see... I find the humor in just about everything, including me. But for right now, I'm going to go with serious. We can goof around and laugh our asses off indefinitely if you're out there :) I'm in pretty good shape, and social. I'd like a man that likes to stay active and is playful. I do love to be home as well, and love that feeling when I lock the door for the night and the day is done. It would be nice to share that part of my life. Intelligence and wit are essential. Charm is optional... all done with the smoke and mirrors. If it's still a game to you at this age, please please please don't pick me, lol! Speak your mind please, because I can't read it. I don't have a list with check boxes... that spark is rare and worth tending when it strikes. I gave a lot away earlier in my life, and I have learned a lot in the process. I am responsible for my own happiness, I can't afford to be last on my list. Every day I connect with a Higher Power, and have I faith that things will unfold as they should. Even on meetville, lol. Everyday I try to appreciate what is put before me and count my blessings. Life is a journey and I love it. Okay, 97% of it, lol. I don't feast on bitterness and resignation... too heavy. I need to save room for sun showers and tree climbing and star gazing and... stuff.I love my family and friends, my home, my life. I have compassion for humanity including myself. I have goals and priorities. I am constantly learning and like trying new things. And yes, there are problems but such is life. I talk a lot and I laugh everyday. I have faith in the world (still!), I give the benefit of the doubt but I am not blind to reality. I try to face the tough stuff with some measure of courage and integrity. I believe that if you can't work toward accepting and loving yourself, including all of your imperfections, then you can't love and accept others... so I'd rather avoid that :)I really do value a passionate relationship, although I am a little shy when it comes to men sometimes. I am not in a mad rush. I am interactive and want that emotional closeness that comes over time. Music, well, I love it. Most of it. Can't do a straight diet of country or rap.I'm a work in progress all the way around and expect to remain so until the gig is up :)So say hi, and who knows.... Something fun and casual, no pressure. I think it would be good to spend some time in the afternoon checking out the museum or walking on the waterfront, but I'm open to suggestions :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Indonesian
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