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Pilar, 49
United States, Minnesota, Virginia

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About Me

About me...Kind, drama-free, open-minded, optimistic and NOT shy. A litte quirky, risk taker, a little deep, spiritual, nonjudgemental, interested listener, good communicator. Loyal and definitely fun. I'm honest and respectful and require the same. I strive for harmony in everything and believe happiness is a choice. I live in a positive energy and choose to surround myself with upbeat people. When I get to know someone I hope for transparency. Its easier to connect with someone when they are showing their true colors from the beginning. Not always the case regardless, I always try to connect with the soul where the real self exhists. Just know if I have to spend a lot of time pealing layers, I will lose interest - fast. Just be you and it will be really appreciated even if we aren't meant to match up or be friends. I treat others kindly not because I expect something in return but because its the right thing to do. I like variety in my life and welcome new experiences. I have 3 exceptional daughters I'm very proud of ***grown and one I am still raising 50% time. I also have two handsome grandsons. My life is full in many ways but still desire to find a loving partner.About the one I'm looking for...The initial attraction is often the physical attributes I see in the guy. Its a human thing...A true spark ***, when the substance that really matters to me is revealed which happens as we get to know eachother over time. The substance that matters...My match truly wants to build a partnership filled with love, respect, passion and fulfillment. Has the intelligence to know that its a journey together and looks at each new day as an opportunity to become more than yesterday individually and together as a couple. He's a happy guy who smiles, with high self-esteem. His agenda includes me. He inspires me to be a better person for myself and us. He has a heart of humilty and integrity and keeps the ego in check. Has a willingness to grow. We admire eachother. We both feel we have won the lottery of love. My wish-list is more of a wish-feeling, the feeling of being safe. I stated I am a risk taker but I don't compromise my safety. I recognize that it doesn't matter if a guy is sexy, funny, smart, charismatic and rich if he doesn't make me feel safe to communicate openly, safe to trust his commitment and loyalty, or safe to be my fullest self. I desire a relationship of shared virtue where each partner challenges and supports the other to bloom into their best possible selves.Looking forward to co-creating the partnership and love of a lifetime with my Mr. Right. Is it you?If any of this resonates with you, let me know. Thanks for reading! Whatever we mutually decide for a first date is fine, after the initial short meet and greet.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Comedy Drama Martial Arts Music Ice Hockey
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