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About Me

About me...Kind, drama-free, open-minded, optimistic and NOT shy. A litte quirky, risk taker, a little deep, spiritual, nonjudgemental, interested listener, good communicator. Loyal and definitely fun. I'm honest and respectful and require the same. I strive for harmony in everything and believe happiness is a choice. I live in a positive energy and choose to surround myself with upbeat people. When I get to know someone I hope for transparency. Its easier to connect with someone when they are showing their true colors from the beginning. Not always the case regardless, I always try to connect with the soul where the real self exhists. Just know if I have to spend a lot of time pealing layers, I will lose interest - fast. Just be you and it will be really appreciated even if we aren't meant to match up or be friends. I treat others kindly not because I expect something in return but because its the right thing to do. I like variety in my life and welcome new experiences. I have 3 exceptional daughters I'm very proud of ***grown and one I am still raising 50% time. I also have two handsome grandsons. My life is full in many ways but still desire to find a loving partner.About the one I'm looking for...The initial attraction is often the physical attributes I see in the guy. Its a human thing...A true spark ***, when the substance that really matters to me is revealed which happens as we get to know eachother over time. The substance that matters...My match truly wants to build a partnership filled with love, respect, passion and fulfillment. Has the intelligence to know that its a journey together and looks at each new day as an opportunity to become more than yesterday individually and together as a couple. He's a happy guy who smiles, with high self-esteem. His agenda includes me. He inspires me to be a better person for myself and us. He has a heart of humilty and integrity and keeps the ego in check. Has a willingness to grow. We admire eachother. We both feel we have won the lottery of love. My wish-list is more of a wish-feeling, the feeling of being safe. I stated I am a risk taker but I don't compromise my safety. I recognize that it doesn't matter if a guy is sexy, funny, smart, charismatic and rich if he doesn't make me feel safe to communicate openly, safe to trust his commitment and loyalty, or safe to be my fullest self. I desire a relationship of shared virtue where each partner challenges and supports the other to bloom into their best possible selves.Looking forward to co-creating the partnership and love of a lifetime with my Mr. Right. Is it you?If any of this resonates with you, let me know. Thanks for reading! Whatever we mutually decide for a first date is fine, after the initial short meet and greet.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cassiah

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    When you first meet me, you might think I'm shy, but my friends would tell you that once you start talking to me, I have a lot to say. I really value honesty and integrity in others. I thought I would throw out some key words of things that describe a few things I like to do and that I find value in. If you recognize yourself in some of them, I think it might be worth taking the time to keep reading my profile. If not, that's okay too! Travel, surprises, music, movies, sports, books, open mind, photography, museum, outdoors, spontaneity, working out, trying new restaurants, going out (but also staying in), respect, down to Earth, sense of humor, compassion.A short list of things I don't like:- Intolerance- anger issues- insects of all kindsI look for the joy in life and I try to find opportunities to laugh everyday. I love being outdoors, especially in MN in the summer. It is important to me to keep fit and strong. I try very hard to see the good in people and I enjoy chances to get out and meet new people. I am in the process of figuring out what I want to do with my time as my kids get older and won't need me at home as much. I may go back to school and get another degree. I have been traveling a lot over the last year.I have lived on three continents and look for opportunities to travel. I would like to find someone who likes to travel as much as I do. I also really love to go to the movies, love cinema. I'm really happy by myself, but life is just more fun when you're sharing it with someone else.I'm really good at a few things and okay at a lot of things. I guess I am pretty good at singing and I'm very creative with things like design and photography. The first things people usually notice about me is that I seem quiet, so they are surprised that I have a lot to say when they get to know me.Favorite books, movies, shows, food, music:Lord of the Rings Trilogy (books and movies)Game of Thrones (books and show)The Walking DeadTrue BloodStar Trek (old and new)Supernatural, The MentalistI read many books, mostly fictionIndian food is my favorite, I like most ethnic foodI appreciate a wide range of music but NOT countryI do like to see bands play live, and I go see a local band play usually at least once a week. If you think we might have something in common, let me know and perhaps me might meet for coffee or perhaps a drink.

  • Katheleen

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I like singing,movies,bowling and spending time with that special someone. I want to spend my life with someone that loves me for me and will allow me to love him the way he needs to be loved. I don't claim to be something I am not. I am a hard worker,I always put my family first. I love to sing and play the piano. I sing at weddings,funerals and at church..I have 2 girls and a grandson that I love with all my heart..They are my reasons for getting up and starting my day... I like for the first date to be simple...going somewhere simple and getting something to eat...watching a movie or going bowling..I'm not someone that has to be impressed..I like simple people with simple goals in life...Staying home and grilling and watching tv is fine with me

  • Elouise

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I thought it was time to take the leap and start looking at who is out there. I have fun in life but thought I would kick it up a notch and add someone to it. I like to think of myself as a pretty easy going all around good person. I can talk shop with the boys and gossip with the girls. A few things in life are black and white, otherwise, I am pretty open minded. You have to be open to anything that can come your way. One of the many joys in life is having fun and laughing - even if it is at myself.My greatest joy in life is my son. I have spent the last 20 years focusing my time and energy on my son and now it is my turn for some fun. I have never been described as shy or quiet so if you are more interested in meek and mild you may want to keep looking. I feel the direct and honest approach is the best. Life is too short to pretend you are sometihing you are not. The only games I like to play usually involve a puck or a ball.I am pretty independent so I would like someone who has their own interests even if they don't match mine. I also welcome the opportunity to learn new things and find new interests that we can share. As they say - variety is the spice of life. Everyone needs to have something they are passionate about.I am hoping to find someone that gives me that funny feeling in the pit of my stomach. You know the ***the excitement that takes your breath away.

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