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Darby, 47

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About Me

I am a single female with grown children and small grandkids.I put God first in my day and life. I enjoy being a mom and have also enjoyed being single but Iam ready to explore new options. Iam looking for a man who likes gettting out of the house but also enjoys a good nap or movie indoors. I like fishing and cooking. I love the beach. I also like drives in the country. I like music all kinds and a cold drink and yes sports, I enjoy kissing and holding hands. A good match would be someone who can enjoy grandskids as much as I do, they are a big part of my life. Iam starting out slow just looking for a date but open to whatever knocks at the door. I would like my first date to be very casual. We could go to lunch or talk over a cup of coffee( soda). I consider a great first day one that both are relaxed and honest.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Harlow

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Hmmm.... lets see... I find the humor in just about everything, including me. But for right now, I'm going to go with serious. We can goof around and laugh our asses off indefinitely if you're out there :) I'm in pretty good shape, and social. I'd like a man that likes to stay active and is playful. I do love to be home as well, and love that feeling when I lock the door for the night and the day is done. It would be nice to share that part of my life. Intelligence and wit are essential. Charm is optional... all done with the smoke and mirrors. If it's still a game to you at this age, please please please don't pick me, lol! Speak your mind please, because I can't read it. I don't have a list with check boxes... that spark is rare and worth tending when it strikes. I gave a lot away earlier in my life, and I have learned a lot in the process. I am responsible for my own happiness, I can't afford to be last on my list. Every day I connect with a Higher Power, and have I faith that things will unfold as they should. Even on meetville, lol. Everyday I try to appreciate what is put before me and count my blessings. Life is a journey and I love it. Okay, 97% of it, lol. I don't feast on bitterness and resignation... too heavy. I need to save room for sun showers and tree climbing and star gazing and... stuff.I love my family and friends, my home, my life. I have compassion for humanity including myself. I have goals and priorities. I am constantly learning and like trying new things. And yes, there are problems but such is life. I talk a lot and I laugh everyday. I have faith in the world (still!), I give the benefit of the doubt but I am not blind to reality. I try to face the tough stuff with some measure of courage and integrity. I believe that if you can't work toward accepting and loving yourself, including all of your imperfections, then you can't love and accept others... so I'd rather avoid that :)I really do value a passionate relationship, although I am a little shy when it comes to men sometimes. I am not in a mad rush. I am interactive and want that emotional closeness that comes over time. Music, well, I love it. Most of it. Can't do a straight diet of country or rap.I'm a work in progress all the way around and expect to remain so until the gig is up :)So say hi, and who knows.... Something fun and casual, no pressure. I think it would be good to spend some time in the afternoon checking out the museum or walking on the waterfront, but I'm open to suggestions :)

  • Berniece

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I enjoy doing pretty much of anything as long as it's with someone that i can enjoy it with.I just want to spend the rest of my life having fun maybe take a few vacations.I am a waitress and have done that just about all my life not that i should b proud of that but it helped me raise my kids after my divorce I have 4 kids which are all over 18 so now it's time for me to enjoy!I have been in relationships with men who have had to much drama with there ex's so if that's you don't waste your time i don't want no drama just want to have fun!! I like country and oldies music been to plenty of country concerts!!Also if you don't have a picture don't waste your time i won't respond to you! COFFEE OR DRINKS MAYBE GO TO A SPORTS BAR OR DINNER *** NICE RESTAURANT!

  • Pilar

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    About me...Kind, drama-free, open-minded, optimistic and NOT shy. A litte quirky, risk taker, a little deep, spiritual, nonjudgemental, interested listener, good communicator. Loyal and definitely fun. I'm honest and respectful and require the same. I strive for harmony in everything and believe happiness is a choice. I live in a positive energy and choose to surround myself with upbeat people. When I get to know someone I hope for transparency. Its easier to connect with someone when they are showing their true colors from the beginning. Not always the case regardless, I always try to connect with the soul where the real self exhists. Just know if I have to spend a lot of time pealing layers, I will lose interest - fast. Just be you and it will be really appreciated even if we aren't meant to match up or be friends. I treat others kindly not because I expect something in return but because its the right thing to do. I like variety in my life and welcome new experiences. I have 3 exceptional daughters I'm very proud of ***grown and one I am still raising 50% time. I also have two handsome grandsons. My life is full in many ways but still desire to find a loving partner.About the one I'm looking for...The initial attraction is often the physical attributes I see in the guy. Its a human thing...A true spark ***, when the substance that really matters to me is revealed which happens as we get to know eachother over time. The substance that matters...My match truly wants to build a partnership filled with love, respect, passion and fulfillment. Has the intelligence to know that its a journey together and looks at each new day as an opportunity to become more than yesterday individually and together as a couple. He's a happy guy who smiles, with high self-esteem. His agenda includes me. He inspires me to be a better person for myself and us. He has a heart of humilty and integrity and keeps the ego in check. Has a willingness to grow. We admire eachother. We both feel we have won the lottery of love. My wish-list is more of a wish-feeling, the feeling of being safe. I stated I am a risk taker but I don't compromise my safety. I recognize that it doesn't matter if a guy is sexy, funny, smart, charismatic and rich if he doesn't make me feel safe to communicate openly, safe to trust his commitment and loyalty, or safe to be my fullest self. I desire a relationship of shared virtue where each partner challenges and supports the other to bloom into their best possible selves.Looking forward to co-creating the partnership and love of a lifetime with my Mr. Right. Is it you?If any of this resonates with you, let me know. Thanks for reading! Whatever we mutually decide for a first date is fine, after the initial short meet and greet.

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