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Particia, 48
United States, Minnesota, Stillwater

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About Me

I am a tree hugging, laid back chemical dependency counselor. I facilitate groups in art and music therapy. My children are grown and I turned the second bedroom into an art studio. I enjoy live music in cafes, Sons of Anarchy and Big Bang Theory. I enjoy movies and my all time favorite is "What the Bleep do We Know". I have tattoos and piercings (that is not a mole on my face). My son is my tattoo artist. I am looking for a companion, one to hang out with, go places with and in general communicate with and of course be physically involved. Yes, monogamy is required, but living together is not. I have a great family and good friends and I am highly involved with them as well as work. I do not need a companion who needs me all the time, I am independent and need you to be independent as well. With that said, I want more contact than once a month, preferably a night together once a week at least and some form of communication text or call about every other day. It is also nice to have someone who is interested in my career and is there for me to share exciting or even sad news with when something comes up. I too will be there for you as well to cheer you on or cheer you up when needed. I am humorous, a great communicator and absolutely luscious. I love coffee but I am open to meeting anywhere as long as we can talk. I do not like crowds nor do I like places so loud you cannot talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Clover from Stillwater | Woman | 50 years old | Pisces
    Clover

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    YOU CAN NO LONGER HIDE YOUR PROFILE ON HERE UNLESS YOU UPGRADE SO I WANTED TO PUT THIS OUT THERE THAT I'M SEEING SOMEONE SO WON'T BE RESPONDING TO ANY *** looking for my last first kiss.....could you be the one to grant me that wish.I've been single for 6 years, I have two grown daughters and three grandkids. I want to find my "someone", the person I can talk to about anything, have long conversations, go dancing, go see a show at the civic center, grill out, hold hands, snuggle on the couch. Someone to do the every day things with like shopping and cooking. As most of us have by this point in our lives I have had experiences and relationships that have gotten me to where I am today. I think those experiences make us all understand better what will work for us in a relationship and what won't. As much as I long to have someone special in my life I will not settle for anything less then what I know will work for me. Beyond honesty and respect there are many things that I'm looking for in a partner but most of those things aren't easily put into words but more of a feeling once you meet. I'm not much of a drinker, will have a glass of wine occassionally, don't smoke and have never done drugs. If you enjoy drinking every time you go out or make a habit of drinking every weekend then we probably wouldn't be a good match. I'm only looking for long term and someone who is truely ready for that. I'm not looking for friends, or hook ups so please don't waste my time.

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  • Ethelyn from Stillwater | Woman | 49 years old | Aquarius
    Ethelyn

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I’m a person with some imperfections (ya, I'll admit to a few) who is looking for a man with whom I can get lost in conversation, or just as easily share one of those moments of comfortable silence. The man I would like to meet is confident and self assured,generally happy and loves to laugh and act a little bit silly now and then. I love a good laugh and making people laugh, but I am very serious about some things. I am a little of everything... I love to read and I like quiet time. I love being with people and having fun and I am content on my own. I am also content with my life the way it is and will wait for the right guy. . . the one who God has for me. I enjoy the simple things in life and am not attracted to people who value material things over substance. I'm not looking for the finer things in life but to enjoy life with what we have. I’m a ‘glass half-full’ rather than a ‘glass half empty’ person and would like to meet someone with a similar outlook on life." I don’t think it matters what we do on a first date, and I am a big fan of simplicity, so a coffee and walk would be just fine.

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  • America from Stillwater | Woman | 41 years old | Scorpio
    America

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm sweet, fun loving, sarcastic wit. My friends and family would describe me as fiercely independent and willing to give the shirt off my back to help the one's I love. I enjoy all types of music, but find myself gravitating toward alternative, rock and some dance music on a day to day basis. Currently enjoy the song Blurred Lines by Robin Thick, but think the video is not very creative. I do listen to talk radio in the morning as well.I work a ***type job requiring intelligence and like to chill out/decompress on the weekends. Ideally, I like to have one fun thing planned and then an open day for errands, etc... Lately it hasn't worked out that way and overall I'm totally flexible on the weekends. I'm looking for someone who is relatively smart, has an undergraduate degree, a steady job, responsible, fun, funny and slightly adventurousI enjoy trying new things - new foods, new places, new experiences - because it keeps life interesting. I'm sort of wanting to do a mud run lately, just to see what that is like......hmmm Coffee, tea, walk on the beach. Food - Brunch at a cute place that serves omelettes, outdoor patio might be nice if the weather is right - Walk on the beach after if things are going well to chat and get to know each other better. I keep a frizbee in the car if we're adventurous and feeling sporty!

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