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Alani, 49

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About Me

Where to start? How do you express your personality, sense of humor, life, and all it encompasses in a few sentences? I love water, woods, mountains, and hiking. I like learning, trying new things, and traveling. I have discovered a much more creative side the past few years designing jewelry, writing, crocheting ninjas, making one of a kind bags and doing some outdoor photography. I go to the gym several days a week and enjoy being active outdoors. If there are woods and water, sign me up! I like live music. Odd mixes I know but so many different things can move you in one way or another. NCIS, Burn Notice, and Cash Cab, are shows I like to watch while snuggling on the couch with my kids, or as background noise when I'm working around the house or creating/designing/assembling my latest inspiration. For 12 years when my children were little, I did licensed Daycare. For the 13 years before that I worked with people with developmental disabilities. My son and daughter are 13 and 15. They are funny and clever and absolutely fun to be around. They will always be my priority. They spend time with their Dad which also gives me free time. I am divorced. We get along well which is wonderful for our kids and avoids drama. I look forward to meeting new people, making new friends, and finding that unmistakable connection again some day. Integrity, a great sense of humor,and compassion for others is a must.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I like to be adventurous, but not dumb. I absolutely love to dance, but I\'m not looking to party every night or weekend. If you’re a hangouter, we’ll do along, looking forward to your message.

  • Helaine

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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  • Kathaleen

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi; I am 42 , looking for someone who I would consider my best friend, someone to fall in love with, a man who's eyes light up when I walk into the room and misses me when I'm not around, but also understands that I need my girl time and is not afraid of that. A man who knows how to treat a lady and is as comfortable in a suit and tie as he is in jeans and tennis shoes ( or boots, as the case may be). I love the outdoors, swimming, skiing, boating, baseball and Nascar But I also like to cuddle, hold hands and long passionate kisses and a fire in the fireplace.I have a daughter in her 3rd year of collage and we are best friends. I love kids and enjoy acting like one when at Disneyland or the ballpark.. I am just me... I want a man who is secure in life and is not afraid of a commitment. If this sounds like you, then let's kindle the fire and watch it burn.... Maybe some place we can talk and have a drink or dinner

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