SIMILAR PEOPLE
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HelaineOffline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am a hopeless romantic looking for sparks, chemistry, etc. Having that magnetic connection is my only criteria…it’s either present when two people meet or it’s not. I am not looking to rush in to anything more than establishing a friendship to get to know one another. For me, half the fun is the anticipation of what could be once that spark is *** about me and what I am hoping to find in a man…So me, this is hard. I do not like to shine the light on myself and avoid being in the public spotlight whenever possible. That said, I can adapt to almost any situation…from public speaking to welcoming compliments when required. People that are close to me would say I am loyal and committed to those I love. Honesty, trust, and generosity are values I live by and seek in others.I consider myself a handful…hence the “brave man” caveat. I have high expectations…I’m ambitious, independent, active, and make the most out of every day, situation, opportunity, etc. I’ve been known to get too absorbed (okay, self-absorbed) with work or doing menial tasks. I benefit from being around someone who is able to distract me with humor and spontaneity. I have a strong personality…I can hold my own when needed. I do best with men who are easygoing, but who can also put me in my place. Though I don’t necessarily like to be told what to do or hear the word no, it’s kind of a turn-on in a twisted sort of way. I’ll stop there. At this point in my life, I am ready to throw caution to the wind. I have ditched my checklist of what to look for in a man and *** opted to follow my heart (and yes I feel stupid saying that as I’ve always made decisions with my head…over thinking things and being way too cautious).…did I mention I’ Qualities I admire in a man include a sense of humor, good taste without being pompous, someone who values a dollar but doesn’t lose sleep over money spent…I don’t do cheap, but respect a man who is practical and who lives within his means. I appreciate someone who enjoys the finer things in life though comes across as low-key and casual…a man who’ Ideally, a person that has the tendency to be calm and collective in tense situations, treats people kindly (never rude), avoids taking life or self too seriously, and has the ability to laugh in uncomfortable/tough situations. I know that’s a tall order…I did mention high expectations somewhere in this write-up. So the other half of the equation is the ability to be flexible, open-minded and forgiving……being able to make amends and overall keeping ones ego and heart in check.Yup, there’s more…a guy who is independent. Someone who enjoys alone time just as much as being together. And when together, doesn’t mind being spoiled just a bit. I am not one to talk on the phone at great lengths but appreciate a man who can communicate. Oh and someone who is liberal enough to allow me to pick up a tab or take charge from time to time…you fill in the dots. Though I consider myself tolerant and open-minded, there are a few traits that I wouldn’t be able to overlook…racism/prejudice, superiority complex, over inflated egos, substance abuse, cruelty, dishonesty, and promiscuity. I feel I should provide some sort of disclaimer so here it goes…I am not looking for financial security (nor to support someone), a husband (though not opposed), or a father for my son (he’s got one)…Just sparks. I like to keep it simple…enjoying a meal and good conversation together while drinking a bit more wine than either of us should.
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TobyOffline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 44-54
I love to garden,and be outdoors fishing,camping,having an bomfire,or just hanging out ,i like going to the movies ,i like to travel i do go to jamicia once an year i would like to see more of the world.Im out going not an lazy person but i do relax and watch an good program i love children so thats not no problem.i lisen to old soft rock music ,i like to go for walks soi am an easy going person. om an first date it would be nice to go for an walk or just go to an quiet resterant to get to know eachother,after thet an movie would be fun or go fishing im not to picky i just like to have company of an nice person.
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PerryOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Hi everyone Like most of you I am particular in who I want to share my life with or go out with. We all have different needs and wants in life. Please don't take it personally if I do not respond to your *** perfect match would be someone who motivates and inspires me to pursue my target/ dream of the moment while pursuing joint long term goals and of course in return you would expect the same. I want someone affectionate, level headed, educated, open minded , flexible , romantic, and who likes to travel. I tend to like guys that are taller than me and are some what in shape and take care of themselves. Also if you have a great relationship with your mother ...that's usually a good sign too. I think chemistry, trust , honesty are the key elements of a good relationship. I come from a very international family, and back ground and I have lived in 5 countries. I am easy going and laid back on many things. I can dress in anything from jeans for a casual event to getting dressed up for a fun event.