SIMILAR PEOPLE
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JaeOnline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
If you're looking for someone who has her stuff together and takes care if herself, you've found her. I'm not desperate for Mr. Right, but when I find him I'll know it. I like to take the time to know someone before jumping into a romantic relationship of any sort; you can sort out the people who might not be a match that much better.I'm looking for someone who prefers calling over texting. It shows interest. I want someone to share my life with. Someone I can lean on, who can lean on me if he needs to.I like camping, the sun, the beach, hanging out, watching baseball (in person or on TV--I saw a no-hitter this year), having drinks, listening to music, going to the movies, bowling, the usual, normal stuff. I like roller coasters and Taco Tuesdays.I like to travel, and I'm normally happy with one big trip a year. In January I'm going to New Zealand for a friend's wedding and spending 5 days in Fiji on the way home. That will be it for me for about another year. Unless I go camping or to Vegas next summer.I want a to hang with a good guy who takes care of himself (keeps in shape) and wants to have a good time with someone super fun who can be really low key most of the time. I really take crappy pictures, what you see is what you get. I could put worse ones up here, but that would defeat the point. A coffee or a drink/appetizer is probably best.
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HelaineOnline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am a hopeless romantic looking for sparks, chemistry, etc. Having that magnetic connection is my only criteria…it’s either present when two people meet or it’s not. I am not looking to rush in to anything more than establishing a friendship to get to know one another. For me, half the fun is the anticipation of what could be once that spark is *** about me and what I am hoping to find in a man…So me, this is hard. I do not like to shine the light on myself and avoid being in the public spotlight whenever possible. That said, I can adapt to almost any situation…from public speaking to welcoming compliments when required. People that are close to me would say I am loyal and committed to those I love. Honesty, trust, and generosity are values I live by and seek in others.I consider myself a handful…hence the “brave man” caveat. I have high expectations…I’m ambitious, independent, active, and make the most out of every day, situation, opportunity, etc. I’ve been known to get too absorbed (okay, self-absorbed) with work or doing menial tasks. I benefit from being around someone who is able to distract me with humor and spontaneity. I have a strong personality…I can hold my own when needed. I do best with men who are easygoing, but who can also put me in my place. Though I don’t necessarily like to be told what to do or hear the word no, it’s kind of a turn-on in a twisted sort of way. I’ll stop there. At this point in my life, I am ready to throw caution to the wind. I have ditched my checklist of what to look for in a man and *** opted to follow my heart (and yes I feel stupid saying that as I’ve always made decisions with my head…over thinking things and being way too cautious).…did I mention I’ Qualities I admire in a man include a sense of humor, good taste without being pompous, someone who values a dollar but doesn’t lose sleep over money spent…I don’t do cheap, but respect a man who is practical and who lives within his means. I appreciate someone who enjoys the finer things in life though comes across as low-key and casual…a man who’ Ideally, a person that has the tendency to be calm and collective in tense situations, treats people kindly (never rude), avoids taking life or self too seriously, and has the ability to laugh in uncomfortable/tough situations. I know that’s a tall order…I did mention high expectations somewhere in this write-up. So the other half of the equation is the ability to be flexible, open-minded and forgiving……being able to make amends and overall keeping ones ego and heart in check.Yup, there’s more…a guy who is independent. Someone who enjoys alone time just as much as being together. And when together, doesn’t mind being spoiled just a bit. I am not one to talk on the phone at great lengths but appreciate a man who can communicate. Oh and someone who is liberal enough to allow me to pick up a tab or take charge from time to time…you fill in the dots. Though I consider myself tolerant and open-minded, there are a few traits that I wouldn’t be able to overlook…racism/prejudice, superiority complex, over inflated egos, substance abuse, cruelty, dishonesty, and promiscuity. I feel I should provide some sort of disclaimer so here it goes…I am not looking for financial security (nor to support someone), a husband (though not opposed), or a father for my son (he’s got one)…Just sparks. I like to keep it simple…enjoying a meal and good conversation together while drinking a bit more wine than either of us should.
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DianneOnline
Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 46-56
I love to be around friends and family, but I would also like to find someone to be with for the alone and special times , you know llike when you want to sit by a fire and cuddle.I enjoy working out, taking walks, going to sporting events and just to be outside as much as I can. I love having bonfires with friends and having a few drinks and just talking about our kids and what is going on in our lives; plus reminicing about all the fun times we have had together. I am proud of the person I have become since my divorce; a very independent, have self confidence and the best is that I am very happy, however there are times I wish I could be all of these and have someone in my life to make memories with .My friends and co-workers describe me as always smiling, makes other people feel good, sense of humor and very sweet (also a little fun sarcastic).I listen to old time rock and roll.. A few of my favorite bands are Aerosmith, Bon Jovi, Journey, RUSH, Kidd Rock, MatchBox Twenty. Meet at a small fun bar that both would be comfortable at; have a beer and play 20 questions. I guess my first date would be simple and see how it starts out and then go from there if we have alot in common and find each other interesting then maybe check out a movie that same night or go for a walk, if the night is beautiful outside then I would like to just sit and keep talking while watching the stars and/or sunset.