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Ilda, 41
United States, Minnesota, Stillwater

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About Me

I'm a good cook, a loving mother, and an affectionate partner. I make sure to kiss my daughter every day and tell her that I love her; I'd like to find a partner where we can take care of each other and we make each other laugh. I have my life together - I've been with the same company for 12 years, I own my own home, and I don't have any credit card debt. I have total white girl rhythm, but with a glass of wine and a dark room, sometimes I can be convinced to get out there. I have a good sense of humor and I love to laugh. I love to tease you, particularly if your actions don't match with what you're saying. I'm an introvert, so my best fit would be with someone who has his own interests and we enjoy our time together, but we also have some alone time to pursue our interests.I was raised to be a responsible person who thinks about the consequences of her actions. I treat others the way I would want them to treat me. I'm more likely to bury my nose in a book or a magazine than to go to a club, unless it's a comedy club. I'm shy and reserved when meeting new people, but once I get to know you I'm very open and honest. In a new relationship, I move slowly at first as I need to get to know someone, particular someone I'm meeting over the internet and not through my group of friends. I would like to be more active, so I recently attended my first pilates class (really liked it) and a boot camp."When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated, and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Sheryl Sandberg, Lean In So, yes, for a relationship, I am looking for my equal partner. I'd prefer to talk to you on the phone at least once before we meet in person. The first meeting should be low key, drinks or coffee to see if we have any chemistry. For me, attraction grows with time and with getting to know someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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