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About Me

I'm still on the hunt for my life partner. He has been elusive up until now. I thought I had him snared but it didn't work out. That's OK I'm not giving up since I believe there is someone out there for me. I'm attracted to a man with confidence in his personal and professional life. I'm looking for someone who might have taken some wrong turns in love and has learned from it and are ready to try again. Someone who makes me smile before I pick up the phone to talk to you. Someone who has a heart of gold and gets along with their family. The man for me needs to be able to communicate what he is feeling. If I feel that something is left unsaid I'll ask you directly. I prefer to know where I stand with a man as to not waste both our time in a relationship that is not meeting both our needs.I believe in give an take, but realize sometimes you just have to give more at certain times. I'm very affectionate. If you are the type to reserve your affection just for the bedroom then we might not get along. Different aspects of my personality will come out when I feel safe and loved. I'm flirty, sarcastic, lovable and very devoted. I like to talk to my partner daily just to say I'm thinking about you, but understand with our busy lives that might not happen.I have a steady career that I have been in for 9 years and I work within the creative field. I paint and dabble in photography and I love, love most type of music genres. Originally from so cal, I moved up to the bay area 11 years ago and haven't regretted that decision. I'm still exploring the area and I mesh well with someone who will get me out of my day-to-day to experience the beauty of the area together. I love trips to the wine country and I'm a craft beer lover. I'm pretty sure you won't regret it and if it doesn't turn out to be a match at least we can both say that it wasn't a complete waste of time and, "she's pretty cool" ;)Oh, and everything is better with Bacon :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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