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Orlagh, 41
United States, Minnesota, Staples

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About Me

Sitting with a cup of decaf iced coffee in my denim skirt and bohemian embroidered top, I'm thinking of why I need a man in my life. Of course I'm a successful woman with a Master's in Humanities, my own car, house and career.; France. But I'd love to have someone to come home to after a long day at work. Wake up next to someone who is present, authentic and affectionate. Someone who can cook WITH me in the kitchen and help me in the garden. But also explore the bay area and parts of the country together. I enjoy walking history tours, board games, photography, live music, etc.Adjectives one could use to describe me: adventurous, easy going, down to earth, responsible, organized, neat, traveler, life long learner, open-minded, and optimistic. I’ve been interested in sustainability, environmental issues, building community, mindfulness and meaningful conversations. Not into drama or making things complicated. I like to be spontaneous and yet also a planner at times. Never been married, no kids. I speak 3 other languages. I'm a curvy size 18. I'm confident in my voluptuous body even though I'm working on loosing some weight so I can eventually be a healthy mom. I'm looking forward to being a parent in my 40's and have become very conscious of the food I take in.I admire my parents, my role models, who were happily married for close to 40 years until my father passed. They weren't stuck at the hip, but they enjoyed traveling and doing lots of other things together, including taking regular showers together into their late 50's. So yes, I'd love someone I could be affectionate with and grow old with.I'd love to find someone who is affectionate. This means you like to cuddle and kiss a lot. You are ok with holding hands in public.You can be playful and passionate. Be it in the bedroom, naked under the sheets or in a swimming pool. I also think communication is important. If you've read this far, tell me one thing you'd love to see in the world that you think would make it a better place.I'm looking for a companion who does not fear a real commitment that comes with being in a partnership and having a family. A simple cup of coffee works for the 1st meeting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Music Thai Boxing
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