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Fatima, 41
United States, Minnesota, Stacy

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About Me

A little about me:I have a lot going for me in my life , just missing that one special person to share it withFirst off I am starting to realize that I really don't know what the heck I'm doing as far as dating goes, all I can do is be myself because that's all I know how to be and hope that the right guy comes along lol Not quite sure anything about the "dating lingo or rules as of yet" and not really sure I wanna know them ... I just wanna be myself , and so Ive written out quite a bit of info about me.I just know who I am what I'm look for in a potential mate for me ,I mean I may not understand men , and men may not understand women , but when it comes down to it I don't need to understand all men , only ONE man once I find him that is , and a man doesn't need to try and understand all women , only ONE woman , once he finds the one that he wants to take the time to try and understand because he feels that she may be the right woman for him . Anyways , heres some info about me : I am divorced after 19 years of marriage/relationship ......am looking to date and take things slow at first and get to know someone, I tend to where my heart on my sleeve and have learned that its best to not rush into anything right off the get go, that tends to just not work out for me.......-) im not newly divorced so I have dated some and know what I want and want im looking (and NOT looking for lol) in a potential mate , ive dated and learned a whole lot in these last two years since my divorce and WOW it sure the heck isn't easy finding that right guy , but refuse to settle , want to find my best friend :(....Im not looking for a perfect man , Im looking for a man who's perfect for me I'm independent as far as having a good job( work 3 twelves a week) a house and car and all of that kind of stuff, no drama and little bs in my life and I like it that way, I have 3 tattoos , always love to smell nice (bath and body works is one of my favorite stores), I don't mind dressing up at times but feel most comfortable in a t-shirt and jeans , and I don't take 2 hrs in front of the mirror to get ready to go somewhere , I'm pretty low maintenance as far as certain things go Some words to describe me would be a great sense of humor, Love to laugh at myself and life but also have a serious side too when need be , sweet natured with a big heart that I tend to wear on my sleeve , a little feisty but in a good kind of way, sassy ...lol.....quiet at times,honest and loyal, goofy at other times, giving, very affectionate and passionate, kind hearted, very laid back, tend to pick and choose my battles and think that arguing in an angry way is nothing but a waste of breath, deep thinker, compassionate, romantic........doesn't matter to me if he has tattoos or not or piercings, or if he rides a motorcycle or drives a truck , or how much money he makes as long as he works, chemistry is important of course , I just know that its not those things that makes me happy, its being with someone who likes to hold hands and Is affectionate, likes to spend their extra time with me , is okay with me when im in a quiet mood or in a playful goofy one ......someone who actually cares how someone is feeling or how their day went and on a bad day will do something small like bring me my favorite latte or just send me a joke to cheer me up, and vise versa as I will do the same for him .....I just truly wanna find my match and my best friend , I know a guy wants to do guy stuff whether it be work on cars or watch football or hang out occasionally with their buddies or whatever and im cool with that as long as theirs trust there and we also have our time together, I pick and choose my battles and don't like to argue or nitpick about stupid stuff , just makes each other unhappy love the little things in life and think they mean the most , everyone should stop and smell the roses and look up at the sky *** always looking down or straight ahead all the time, when I see and elderly couple walking down the sidewalk holding hands I think to myself how lucky they are to have each eother and to still hold hands and be so in love like that....that's the kind of love I want to have with someone and am hoping that one day I will find that kind of love....;be varrry varrrry qwuiettttt , we's huntin wabbits" lol , or tinkering with your car , and most likely jumping around in the living room like your on hot coals when your favorite football team gets you all rawled up , ( I will probably be in the kitchen cooking something or maybe just sit there and watch you act like your actually "in" the game thinking that they can hear you when you yell and scream at the tv like a lunatic" , laughing and making fun of you while your doing it ....lol .....and I don't sweat the stupid little things like if you leave the toilet seat up , I mean you have to lift it when we women leave it down, so no biggie , not worth getting into a tissy about Basically im a homebody but also like to go places and try new things, go see a movie and out to dinner , a festival, fishing , bowling and things like that, a walk in the park during fall is a most serene and relaxing venture , love to hold hands , and think that subtle touches and texts throughout the day until you see the other person can be a very sexy and alluring thing , that's a whole nother subject though and saved once gotten to know someone better , Lol I am the kind of woman that is giving and will do little t I am sure we can always figure something out, anything from a cup of coffee to dinner to a walk in the park it all depends on the other person and what we both decide on doing

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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