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Zelia, 41
United States, Minnesota, South Saint Paul

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About Me

Friends have had some good experiences on here so suggested I give it a try. Plus, my child affectionately told me there were plenty of fish in the sea (not knowing about this site) so let's see if it is true - lol. I have been balancing work, kids, and school for a few years now and still have found time for myself. I have finally finished my master's program so hope to share some of my free time with someone special. I have been described as quiet by a friend but she also said it is those quiet ones you have to watch out for. I tend to be quieter in newer surroundings. I like to listen to different points of view. I have a background that needed me to be analytical so I don't quickly make final judgments about things - there is rarely a concretely correct answer to a situation. I have since moved into the education field that requires me to be analytical in a different way. Not exactly the best time to switch to this field but I enjoy working with the kids.I would also describe myself as a homebody because family is big to me. I enjoy spending a Sunday just hanging with family, playing cards or board games and love rainy days staying in bed and reading. But I also like to go out and jump in the mudpuddles and dance in the rain (if it isn't our usual freezing rain.) I enjoy being by, on, or in the water, so prefer someone who is also comfortable around water. I enjoy reading usually mystery, mystical, or Hunger Games type fiction for fun but can find fun in reading non fiction although usually children's books for work. I like to watch comedy (Big Bang Theory, Psych), crime drama (NCIS, Criminal Minds...), and some of the SciFi channel shows. I enjoy watching Sunday football on TV but prefer live baseball and basketball games. I don't follow any particular team; I just enjoy watching a good match up. I listen to a range of music but prefer country and music that makes me want to dance and sing. I am comfortable eating at a restaurant or by a campfire; sleeping in a tent or in a hotel; watching a movie at a theater or at home cuddled on the couch.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Comedy Family & Kids Horror Music Dirt Bike Racing Sailing Watching Sports
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