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Sherah, 43
United States, Minnesota, South Saint Paul

Offline, last seen Sat, 28 Feb 2026 05:48:42

About Me

So this is the part where I'm supposed to sell myself and make you wish you could find 10 more like me. Yeahhhh...whatever, this part bites and we all know it. I'm a generally happy person, I have a job I enjoy, a close circle of friends and a happily weird family. I've been married once, divorced once (for a long time) and my kids have the same dad. (this seems to be "odd" to some) Speaking of kids, I have 4...2 boys 2 girls, and they are, for the most part, grown. I am *not* looking for a "step-baby-daddy", I am however looking for someone on my own terms so they will stop trying to set me up with various professors, teachers and 'my friend's dad'.I also really need them to get off my back about my questionable relationship with my DVR. I'm a college football junkie and while It's a pretty serious addiction, I don't expect you to share it...just respect it :) If I get told one more time that "chicks shouldn't know this much about football...." I'm open minded, caring to the point of ridiculousness, quiet until I'm comfortable, low maintenance, non-clingy, non-smothering, I've gotten pretty good at taking care of myself and it's something of which I'm very proud. I *want* someone in my life, I don't *need* someone. There is a difference. You...you should be open-minded, non-clingy, non-smothering, confident and generally happy with your life and want something to add to it. An awesome if not warped sense of humor is a huge plus, as well :) If it gets this far, we'll figure something out.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Metal Caribbean English Middle Eastern Thai Vietnamese
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